How Family Affects our Values

1. Family and Child Care Methods

The family is not only considered the foundation of society but

foundation of an individual's personality. The parent is the one given

of the right to build the structure of their behavior and appreciation

children. Not just rights but duties and responsibilities. So they are

served as teachers in our home, they were the first we saw when we arrived

in the world and the first to teach us love because of their

for example. With them we first feel that we are important; to them as well

we first learn to value ourselves as our neighbor. Theirs

we have learned giving and sharing, the importance of

gratitude and of dignity, of respect and love. It is also their duty

teach moral principles by applying them to

them in daily life.

Despite this, there are teenagers and adolescents who say that

what their parents are doing to them is suppressing and stealing from them

freedom. They also have a broad understanding similar to

teenager commented that “her parents do not love her, because

he just lets her do whatever she wants. ” According to

William V. Shannon, when the parent does not strive to teach and shape

the value of their child they did not teach to be free to

their children shape themselves. But they give to others

youth and in the media especially in television, movies and the internet the shaping of

them. So you are lucky if you are reminded, taught and

guided, it does not mean you are deprived of freedom.

We see the enormous role our family plays in

shaping our appreciation. They are responsible for guiding a child

to recognize, understand, take to heart, lift and live right. But it is not

only parents can afford, children are important partners in

achieving this goal. And only then can it be said to be truly effective

teaching home appreciation if the good relationship between parent and their children is truly formed; as well as the relationship

between spouses.