Focus

I have been trying to write some stories and trying to develop in it as people like stories a lot😅, but I didn't forget what my one of the strong side is. Generally, I like to observe different things and try to relate them with many different aspects of our life. So I thought that, why not give a visit to my best and old companion a visit😉😉. But, still I think the things I use to relate should be little interesting too🤔. What do you think? Let me know. But at first let's see what lesson is awaiting for us today.

I have mentioned in my previous articles that I have been trying to add a bit gardening to my daily routine and for some time pass. I mentioned how my first flowers got eaten by goat but I was patient and then in a while there I found 13 baby flowers in the tree. But there's something new I noticed as well there.

The tree was not big enough and so there were less flowers indeed, but those flowers were big and fresh. They seem very complete and there was more seed pods coming out of those flowers. The flowers looked very much attractive. My mom usually used to go in the morning to water our vegetable garden and they used to ask about the flower. Even my neighbours were very amazed to see the flower. Those were nice until the goats ate them.

Anyway, the new flowers are more in quantity but not so big, fresh, complete healthy like the previous one. The seeds are not growing so much. Rather these flowers are odd. The first one that came out was a bit big but when the others started growing, it's growth started to hinder. All the flowers seemed like they are suffering from malnutrition. I would like to mention that, we have given proper compost to the tree. But it seemed like, the flower is not been able to take care of all of these flowers properly.

So, what do you think what happened? Yes, there are definitely some reasons. You should easily catch the point by now I guess. But still, let me explain.

The flower was focusing on e flowers previously and they were able to put all their nutrition to those three and the flowers were blooming in a way that it seemed that they were laughing with their heart content. But after the flower got eaten, though it bore 13 new flowers, but now it's not been able to take care of all these flowers. I have spoken to mom if I should tear some apart, she told me to let it be as we are not professional. But, the focus of the tree got diverted. More like when a mother take care of 3 children, she is able to take good care. But what happens where there are 13 children. We are trying our best to give the tree nutrition but still, the flowers are odd comparing to the previous ones. Not only that there colour of the flower has faded, not bright than the previous one.

Now, try to relate it with our life. When we try to focus on a goal, it's easier to achieve and we can do it perfectly. But what happens when we try multiple options? In the end, we are unlikely to do good in any of them.

My father is a good example of that. He tried to accomplish many things like tried to complete our new home, tried to put boundary around our property, tring to complete a flat, trying to keep up with the business. What happened here? Our home is incomplete, we are living in 1st floor but we were planning to live on 2nd and all the rooms and arrangements are like that way. Instead, we have to leave on 1st floor which was suppose to be for renting. The boundary is not high enough and there are gaps below it. He had to cover the gaps with soil but e couldn't and now goats intrudes on our garden and hamper us. The flat is also incomplete and business is hardly giving him profit. But if he focused on one thing and try to finish it at first and then put his hand on someone, he would do better and could get good result from it.

We have a saying, "Don't put your two legs in two boats, eventually you will fall down." And it's the truth. So, I am going to tell don't try to focus a lot of things at once. Multitasking is not bad but obviously trying to do a lot of things at once won't wring any good to you. Rather, it will be painful. Hodl your patience on something and finish it at first. That will help you to finish it perfectly. But if you try work with one hand and study with other, both will hamper.

Last thing that I to mention is to make a routine if you are doing a lot of things in a day. But still if there are lots of thing, your body will do different things but your mind will be messed up. So focus on little things and try to keep your mind calm as well. In the end, not everyone is versatile but we be like them if we are strategic😉😉.

Thanks for reading. Wish me good luck and pry for me as well😊😊.