Life puzzle

Sometimes it seems like life is made up of small pieces of a puzzle. If you lose one piece, you will never be able to put it together again.

Sometimes we need a lot of time to assemble a puzzle. In fact, when it comes to life puzzle, we need a whole our life. Everything starts when you are a child. As a child, you don't think so much about your life, because someone else is doing that for you. That person "someone else" is usually your parent. Parents are the most important piece of your puzzle, when you start living and building the values, that you will follow throughout your life.

Later, you are trying to find your place in society. You study, work and you are trying to make a better life conditions. When you get your child and when you create your own family, you did it a great job and your puzzle is almost done. Every piece of your puzzle is some important moment or person in your life. If you lose some piece of puzzle like partner or friend, it is possible to find another piece which will fit into your puzzle, but when you lose your parent or a child, you will never be able to assemble your puzzle again.

What is life like with an incomplete puzzle?

When I was in 9th month of pregnancy, I suddenly lost my father. It was the most difficult moment in my life because I was very connected to him. I was the saddest at the moment when I was supposed to be the happiest, because I was about to give birth. I didn't know how it could be possible that one moment can distroy your whole life. When you realize that your puzzle never be assembled again, it is really hard to go on.

Final thoughts

If ever happen to lose an important piece of the puzzle, you need to become aware that you will never put it together again. Then it is the best solution to leave it in some important place and keep it. In yourself, in your heart, in your thoughts. Then you have to start assembling a new puzzle. It will be your new beginning. And remember, you can have a lot of puzzles in your life. It doesn't need to be just one. Not every one will be complete, but never give up on starting again.

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