Compassion

“Only the development of compassion and understanding for others can bring us the tranquility and happiness we all seek.”

Dalai Lama

Do you think you are a compassionate person? If you are not sure, check this out and you will have the answer.

Signs that indicate compassion

• You know how to actively listen to others

Some people only listen to themselves and cannot listen to others. They will never hear our voice because they will be too busy with their thoughts and desire to talk about themselves. On the other hand, some people listen carefully to others and respect other people's words, and don't let them get lost without an answer or opinion.

• You are present and mindful

In addition to actively listening to others, you are present. Your mind is focused on what someone is telling you and not on your thoughts. You don't hold your phone in your hand while someone is telling you something, even if you have developed multitasking.

• You can find something in common with others

You can recognize things in common with other people. Similar situations, problems, accidents often happen to people. Some people will connect with people with whom they have things in common, and some will not even notice. If you notice, it means you are focused on others, you think about them and your compassion is present.

• You value yourself

You are aware of your qualities. If we do not know how to appreciate ourselves, we will not be able to appreciate others. Only self-aware people can support others. Those who are not for themselves are not for others either. We cannot be compassionate with others if we are not with ourselves.

• You forgive easily

You get rid of negativity because you don't need it for the peaceful life you aspire to. You are aware that we are all wrong sometimes and you will easily forgive and move on. You think there is a reason that can be an adequate explanation for everything that is happening.

• You are not a materialist

You strive for spiritual values. Everything that is material is consumed and true values ​​last forever. You will be happy to help others, not expecting anything in return.

• You share your knowledge

You do not keep your knowledge to yourself but you are happy if you share it with others. You cannot be silent if you know something that can help others.

• You respect other people's opinions

You look forward to a variety of opinions. You don't believe you are always right. Your open mind accepts criticism and different views.

• You are emotionally intelligent

You feel others. Before you say something, you think about whether there is a chance that your words will make others feel uncomfortable, and in that case, you stop there. You are aware of your emotions, but also other people's emotions.

If you find yourself reading this article, it means that you are a compassionate person. Be proud of yourself. Caring and loving others make us feel better because we cannot achieve happiness alone as individuals. Happiness requires interaction.

Thank you very much for reading.

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Best regards to all readers and writers.