Have you ever been deceived by your own feelings? Embroider events for you to match your feelings. Makes you think he loves you too. If you often feel like this, maybe this is what causes it.

You often force logic to follow your silly feelings often wrong

Maybe it's true that people say that love comes when you meet often, are comfortable joking together, giving each other and finally feeling something is missing when he's not around. You think that comfort is what both of you feel, you are wrong.

That feeling of comfort is only you who feel it. The jokes he throws, the smiles he gives, the attention he gives, you are the one who responds too much while he doesn't have the slightest feeling.

When you realize you're starting to like him, are you ready to get hurt if he doesn't feel the same way?

You finally start to realize that something will be missing when he's not around. Asking where your spirit is when you don't see the bridge of your nose. You feel he keeps sending love signals, again it's just your feelings. With all the courage and shame that you stocked up, you questioned the clarity of your relationship.

You know what the answer is? He doesn't have any feelings for you. All his smiles, cares and jokes have no special meaning for you. He's just joking, he thinks you're just a comfortable co-worker for him to talk to, who's nice to chat with. Oh, you're too confident.

He is good to everyone not just you

When you start to realize, he is kind to everyone, smiling at every turn, considerate and outgoing to all. The special treatment is not only you who feel but everyone. In other words you are not special to him at all. You are just like women in general who like to be praised, given attention, conditioned with a sense of comfort. Weak.

You blame him for being kind to everyone, even though that's because your logic weakened from liking him

You often convince yourself that you will be strong enough to break your heart when you start to love. You convinced yourself to take that heartache. You're too confident. And when you're broken you finally realize you're not strong enough to withstand the wound. You can heal from a broken heart but the healing process.

You have to learn to distinguish between a joke and affection

Your failure to distinguish between jokes and affection will make you learn a lot. Laughing or smiling together doesn't mean love, attention doesn't mean love, chat all the time doesn't mean you're special. I hope you get smart soon so you don't hurt yourself again.