Why People Divorce - The Reasons For Divorce
10th Monday January 2022
There are many good reasons to avoid getting divorced - even if the relationship is miserable.
Economically, it is first and foremost expensive right when it happens. Division of property, attorneys' fees, extra furniture and so on. Next, there are the ongoing expenses for, among other things, double housekeeping month after month. But the worst thing can easily be the emotional pain of a broken relationship with the person you were once in love with and hoped to build a life with.
Not least if you have children together, a divorce will send a signal to them to give up, instead of solving the problems where they are. What type of role model would you like to be for your children? Remember they do what you DO. Not what you SAY or hope for.
But if it is still a divorce that you choose as a solution, there are some things you should be aware of,There are many good reasons not to scold your ex-partner. Do not criticize, blame, be negative or the like.
Of course, you do not have to be best friends, but there must be a neutral or friendly tone between you and in relation to each other. That is, even when you are not together.
If you are divorced and have no children together, you can just not care about your ex and see to move on in your life. Leave your ex-partner alone, even if it was not you who wanted to divorce. Maintain (or find) self-control and your inner balance.
BECOME the partner yourself who will be able to attract and retain the right partner for you in the future. In other words, do not want to marry someone who will never be "meant" to be a wife or husband for you. In a way, you have to want them and be able to attract their attributes in the future.
A divorce means you may never marry the person you were hoping to be married. So, you might as well get it over with.
What if the partner you are divorcing was the one who initiated the divorce? The answer is, that you have to be an independent person. You have to be able to take your own advice. So, do not try to bargain with your ex. It is best for both of you if you keep your disputes away from the eyes of others. That way, no one can be hurt, besides the other person. It would be the best for both of you to just resolve things.
Being separate, there is no chance you will be married again. If you are divorced and have children, you can have a relationship with your children's mother or father. Just do not have any romantic relationship with them.
You should not have any relationship with the child's mother or father until he or she can give a full and final consent to the marriage. In this way, you will be protected from any danger of the child's mother or father getting married again and ruining the child again.
To move ahead with a divorce, you may not want to stay in an abusive marriage or if there is breach of trust (tillidsbrud i parforhold). The good thing is, if you want to move ahead with a divorce, you can do it with a separation. And if you want to be married again, you will have to wait until he or she gets a divorce.
What if the partner you are divorcing is the one who got you divorced? Or what if you are divorced and your ex has been abusive? The right thing to do here is to try to make your life a living hell until he or she will agree to a settlement.
If your ex will not agree, then make sure that you hold a full and final divorce press conference, in which you can air your grievances, and let the court settle your scores. Then, work with your attorney to make the best settlement. The same goes for dating other people.
But, if your ex will agree to a settlement, and wants to move on, you should make your life hell. If you want to move ahead with a divorce, you will have to be an abusive person and live with the consequences.
There is no doubt that there are many reasons why people file for divorce. But, what is important is what kind of reasons people file for divorce.
So, the first thing you need to do is to gather some data and research the issue. You can research the issue by talking to people who are already divorced. But, when you talk to people who have already been divorced, you can see the process of the divorce.
You can see the legal documents and the court rooms. You can also see the mental trauma of the participants. The legal process of divorce takes one to two years to complete. During this process, you see the people you will be divorcing getting closer to you and become more and more distant.
In short, the legal process of divorce is one of the most traumatic events one goes through. It is also the most expensive and emotionally and physically draining event.
With all the reasons why people file for a divorce, the most popular reason is the irreconcilable differences. If you are thinking that people file for divorce because of irreconcilable differences, then you are wrong. The overwhelming reason why people file for a divorce is that they are bored.
For example, I remember watching a legal drama on TV, There was a case that involved two lawyers. The case was about how the two lawyers were not interested in the case they were supposed to be handling. One of the lawyers got bored. He sat down and put away notes.
Later, he stood up and announced that he was bored. This became a topic in the court room, and when the judge asked the lawyer what he wanted, the lawyer replied that he wanted to be bored. The judge agreed, granted the divorce, and everything was fine.
When people divorce, they may have children. People divorce because they are bored with each other. They want to try something new. They feel that this will be more exciting than being married to each other. And, this is probably true. But, it is wrong. The most common reason people divorce is not because they are bored with each other, but because they are unhappy. If you are not happy, and you know you are not going to be happy with another person, then you cannot be happy with another person.
The next common reason for divorce is infidelity. If your significant other is cheating on you, then you will want to file for divorce. If you have children, then you will want to protect them from the damage that this kind of behavior can do. Infidelity is one of the top reasons for divorce. But, if you are not going to be around your spouse, but will be in someone else's home, then you will want to make sure that your children are not exposed to your spouse's activities.
The third reason is that the couple is moving apart. This is another common reason for divorce. If you are not happy with how things are going in your relationship, then you should not stay in the relationship. People move apart when they are not communicating. And, if you are not communicating with your partner, then you should let go of the relationship and move on.
The final reason for divorce is the one that states that the couple is just not a good fit together. People argue. They have big issues. And, they are not going to be able to get along during the divorce. However, this does not mean that that there should be a divorce. If you are arguing and having big fights with your partner, then you should sit down and shut up.
If you are making promises to each other, then shut up. If you are just not communicating with each other, then sit down and talk about what you want. This is a great way to prevent a divorce from happening.
If you are going through a divorce, then you should know that people will judge you. They will think badly of you. And, they may even think that it is your fault. You should be able to say that you were not being a good wife, girlfriend, or girlfriend. And, you should not have an affair.
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It could be lack of trust and courage to face the realities in life. Some people just get married for the wrong reason, maybe to boast their public image, acquire more wealth. I mean it's all about their own personal plans.