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1 year ago

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Are you happy of being a single?

Well as matter of fact some of us here are really in relationship and a married people. Then some are still single so kaway kaway mga single diyan! When I was young my target age to be married is 35 years old. But suddenly Ive got married at the age of 23.

So story telling muna tayo...

I'm too much scared to be married and especially to be pregnant. Lots of what if's in my mind that my family will get angry of what I've done. Its gonna be the end of my life. Iba magalit c tatay.

To be inlove with someone is normal. We're just human being that we can felt that kind of desire. As a saying "the power of love is the strongest force in the universe". We can't control sometimes our feelings to be inlove. We can do whatever it takes, right?

Having a family that time is a big responsibility as a wife and a mother. Need to oblige everything for a better future. But trials really exists in our marriage. Even I sacrifice everything but it's doesn't enough so I need to let it go to have a peace of mind. Less stress actually.

However, I've become a martyr for few years at medyo nasagad na kaya bumigay na ako. Doesn't matter if were married in a piece of paper. As long as im happy and contented with my decisions. One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it's guilt, anger, love, betrayal or loss. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go. Don't let yourself to be in that situation its because your married and have a kids.

Lots of things that you really need to appreciate of being you. Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. Having a happy fulfilled life doesn't require a partner. Don't stress yourself if you will loss your partners in life. There's more worth it to be loved just be smart in choosing.

How I missed to be a pure single. That no ones control me. I can do what I want. No one will nagged me. The best thing about single is no drama, no fighting, no confusion, no crying, no heart break and no problems. I can have a better sleep and wake up peacefully.

If you want to be in a relationship, be prepared in every consequences will happen.

Thanks for reading and God bless us all!

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Indeed sis,pero para sakin sis mas stress ako noong single ako hehehe,mas happy ang married life ko now,mswerte din ako sa asawa ko hehe,dili gani mi halos mag away

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1 year ago

Ohhh stress nuon ka sa single hehehe. Sabagay swerte swerte ra sd ang kaminyuon ba. So sana all jud ka nho.

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1 year ago

Mao sis swertehan rajud

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1 year ago

Exactly my dear Jean, love has its advantages and disadvantages. We humans instinctively need to be loved. But some people like to be married and in a relationship, but some people like to be single. Exactly dear the benefits of being single as you said are having a better sleep, and a peacefully life, no confusion, no heartbreak and no problems... 😄

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1 year ago

Indeed my dear Ellen. But some married people are really happy with their partners. We can call them a lucky one.

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1 year ago

Tama ka mas masaya maging single,,go lang ng go wala kang iisipin na problema.less stress pa..

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1 year ago

Muling ibalik sis? Haizttt dami ko pangarap naging bato na lng hahaha.

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Same sis dami ko gusto gawin na diku nagawa,,natamaan ako ng pana ni kupido haha

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1 year ago

Tinuod jud na sis. Kung gusto man magka in relationship or mag asawa dapat ready na Mu embrace Ana na level kay lahi ra ba jud ang sitwasyon pag single pa ug sa in relationship pa...Usahay makahuna2x Gani ko na unta single pa ko para mabuhat nako ako gusto like mag-travel, dayon e reach ang akong gustong mga goals para sa ako kaugalingon

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1 year ago

In short sis wa natay nahimo kundi dawaton na lng Ang tanan mao Ako anak cge jud nko storyahan nga mghumn ug eskwla ky Ang kaminyuon di na contest. Di lalim pg naa na mga anak tapos way klaro trbho. Mapasmo jud Ang tnan.

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1 year ago

Tama sis, yung may mga gusto mag-asawa, isip-isip muna talaga wag padalus-dalos kasi regrets always come in the end. I also wish for the same lol, if pwede, kasi gusto ko lang magtravel at magpakasaya di magpakastress lol but andito na eh.

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1 year ago

Wala na tayo magagawa sis kundi tanggapin ang lahat. Pinasukan natin eh. Kya tiis tiis lng tayo nho.

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1 year ago

Happiness really depends on us, on how to achieve and make it. Ako ate sobrang naeenjoy ko po single life ko now kase I can do what I want and I don't need to update someone everyday haha

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1 year ago

Kakainggit ka langga! Ako daig ko pa may cctv. Haizt pagod na Ako mag abang sa oras huhuhu.

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1 year ago

Sarap kaya maging single walang pumipigil sa mga gagawin mo haha charot joke lang takot lang ako hahah

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Tama ka dong! Dpat jud matakot ky dghn prblma ang kaminyuon. Sakit sa bangs.

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1 year ago

Sometimes it's a better decision to live a single person's life. I think you can do what you want.

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1 year ago

It's true! Better live in our own lives.

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