How to be happy

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2 years ago

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Happy Wednesday to all!

It's new month, new journey and new life to struggle with the whole month. So let's enjoy our days with a good vibes. Problems are always there so all we need to do is do the right way. Just balance everything. Your the only can solved your own problems.

So todays blog is how to be happy...

Are you really happy this time with your situation? Hmm happiness is a state of contentment. That happiness is a secret sauce that can help us be and do our best. Nowadays some people leaves their own family just to get their own happiness kuno which is wrong for me.

Leaving your kids and your husband is the way of finding your own happiness? Are you agree with that? I cannot do that to my kids. They are my everything. Although we have some problems with my partner but it never came up to my mind of leaving my kids, ever. We can replaced our man of life but kids, no way.

My kids..my happiness..

I'm not a selfish type that I can abandon my own kids. We have other options to be happy, right? The family is the center of life and it is the key to eternal happiness. If only all people have a good mindset when it comes to family. Our kids is our greatest happiness and they are the center of our lives. That we can do everything for them. Love them with all your heart. Telling my kids that I love them isn't a habit. It is my constant reminder to them that they are the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Nobody will suffer in depression coz overthinking is not a good behavior. They can create their own hell, it's true. I've encountered already that personally. I feel pity to them coz they can't handled it properly that they will commit suicide instead of surviving. If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal not to a people or things.

As far as I know if you will commit suicide you will be automatically go to hell. Oh my god! All of us have a sin and no one is saint also. All we need to do is make our mind and soul to be good sanaritan. It's not yet late to find our light through to God.

Don't forget to pray or don't pray because you have something want to get. Even I'm not a religious type but I do believed in God. I do praying morning and evening. Take time to talked to him and he can enlighten your wrong beliefs.

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June 1,2022

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hello po i am new here about your question i dont think if its a right thing to do. Kasi bata ang magsuffer if pipiliin ng magasawa na magkahiwalay para sa kaligayahan na gusto nila. Ang kaligyana ay hindi hinahanap kusa itong nararamdaman basta maging kontento ka lang sa kung ano ang meron ka.

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2 years ago

Hello po!,welcome sa read..

Iba iba ng rason ang mg asawa kaya di wag ka bsta bsta mg asawa agad kasi parang karayom yang pinapasukan mong relasyon. Pg may mga anak na nku dyan na mahirap mgdesisyon.

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2 years ago

salamat po sa pag welcome. kaya po ako ayoko na muna. hindi ko kasi alam gagawin ko if ever.

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2 years ago

Happy Birthday to your son. May you always be happy with your children. It's very necessary to live happy with own methods

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2 years ago

Thank you so much..god bless.

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2 years ago

I think it depends on the person what things that can make them contentment about their life. Other people are just happy when they see their child. Other seem to be happy when obtaining their wants. Everyone has different desires.

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2 years ago

True...different desires that sometimes the consequences is not good to others. So sad if they don't do the right thing. Pero nasa kanila talaga yun pero naaawa lng tlga ako pg ang iiwan mga anak.

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2 years ago

Not everyday will give us a rainbow, sometimes it will give us storms. I agree ate na we hindi hindi natin mapapalitan ang anak and I commend you po for being a storing and lovable mom for them

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2 years ago

Tama ka langga pero beleb ako sa ibang mga nanay ksi kaya nilang iwan mga anak nila. Naiiyak ako pag napapanood ko tv ang gnyan eksena.

Salamat langga at love ko mga anak ko.

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2 years ago

That is such a meaningful post.. family is everything. we can find out happiness and peace in our family if we go without expectations..

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2 years ago

Indeed sis doll... Family is love for me. Really need more patience when it comes to problems issues.

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2 years ago

The majority of people nowadays just quit their marriage and family at the first sign of trouble. It's really bad

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2 years ago

It's true! A lots of married people really separate after few years because of some issues.

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2 years ago

Really sad

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2 years ago

Happy and at the same time gikapoy ko sis pero para sa family, laban lang. Dili pwede magpadala sa mga negative feelings kay ang Atong mga batang Luoy kung Mao na ato buhaton. Mao bahala makapoy, laban lang. Kung di na kaya, relax sa pud din laban ug balik pag ok na

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2 years ago

Mag ubn jud ng happy ug sadness sis nho ky di mn pwede puro ra happy ky naa mn jud times naa ta prblma sa pamilya mao laban lng jud sa tanan tanan maagihan ky importnte sa ato ang mga anak.

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2 years ago

Mao jud sis. Spice of life gyud ng mga ingon Ana, Mao nga laban lang gyud ta

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2 years ago

If you like to be happy just feel happiness which you have in you. Don't desire more and more.

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2 years ago

Indeed! Learned to be happy in our own ways.

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2 years ago

Nasa pagitan ako ng happy at stress haha, pero keri pa din. Magiging maayus din ang lahat.. Napaka swerte ng kids mo sau sis, napaka loving mother mo.

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2 years ago

Di ka nag iisa sis! Gnyan din ako at mas bet ko pa mgsingle mom para less stress. Kung kaya ko lng buhayin mga anak ko . Ang hirap mghnap ng pera para sa mga needs nmin.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis, kawawa din mga bata pag walang ama. Kaya wala tayo magagawa kundi magtiis nalang

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2 years ago

Not everyday is happy day but still fighting

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2 years ago

Ganyang tlaga dpat sis. Ang lahat may solusyon.

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2 years ago

My dear Jean, you said very nice. If we want to have a happy life, we must tie it to our goals, not to people and things. We must not let depression overwhelm us, we must always believe in the power of God in times of trouble.

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2 years ago

Indeed my dear Ellen and we must be contented of what we have but some people said why we need to be contented if we can get some more hehhee. How ironic right? Let the god will be center of your mind and soul.

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2 years ago

Masaya ako kasi kasama ko ang mga anak ko.,pero minsan pag naalala ko pinagdaanan ko iniisip ko sana naging single mom nalang din ako kisa sa nag asawa ako na sakit lang din sa ulo hahaha

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2 years ago

Ui Tama ka diyan sis! Mainam na maging single mom na lng para mga anak na lng ang asikasuhin nho. Hirap na ako mg adjust sa knya sa totoo lng at di sa sinisiraan ko c partner hehehe. Tlagang kakaiba sya. Haizt buhay.

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2 years ago

You're a great mom sis. Nakita ko talaga sayo. Yung kids talaga nagbibigay sayo ng happiness sayo sis tas ang lucky ng mga kids mo sis kasi napaka positive mo talaga. Nakikita ko sayo. ❤️

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2 years ago

Thank you sis! Need mgsacrifice para sa mga anak ko sis. Tska na yung own happiness ko at sila lng sapat na sa akin. Gnyan mararamdaman mo pg may anak ka na, soon.

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2 years ago

I am not happy with my current situation pero still fighting one day magiging masaya din ako

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2 years ago

I feel you sis kaya tiis tiis muna hanggat kaya pa. Hirap din maging masaya para sa sarili lng pero mas priority ksi mga anak ko over me.

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2 years ago

same here priority talaga ang mga anak.ganyan talaga pag mama na tayo

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2 years ago

Mahirap maging ina nho. Dami iisipin at mnsan nkakaloka na.

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2 years ago

as in.laban lang tayo

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2 years ago

Yeah, it is so foolish and unreasonable for someone to just decide to take his own life just because he's not happy instead trying to find a solution and get better.

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2 years ago

It's true! Why some people like that. Escaping without thinking what will be the cause of their decisions.

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