@Jeaneth
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Reality slapped me when more problems rose for me just because I have the inability to say no or turn down people. I swear, being soft and empathetic by nature costs me a lot. And they take you for granted. Anggaleng 🤷 Anyway, good morning parin kase nagising pa ako. Keep safe everyone!
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true kaayo sis being soft mostly abusaran nila atong kaayo
Ang betrayal madam no, lisod i cope up ba.
always kong maabusaran sis tungod sa akong kasoft hearted
Huhuhu. I feel you. Ako din eh ganyan. Hirap mag no. Kaya natin to dai.
Sakit sa heart miss andi nga abusaran lang ka sa imong kaayo
Mao jud. Worst is mga relative pa jud na sila mostly. Huhuhu
I have that issue sometimes too Jeaneth I feel you.
It sucks Bob 🥺
You need to stay on the ground, step on the ground. The world is hard and you have to be hard Jeaneth. Today it is a luxury to be vulnerable, try to avoid it. I know that you are young and you still have a lot to learn, that's why all these blows that reality gives you, I hope they make you understand that if you continue to act the same, if you continue to be the same, the same thing will continue to happen to you. Analyze what I tell you, reason it out. If you want different results, you have to do things differently.
So does this mean that I have to change and be someone that I'm not? I know I shouldn't expect everyone to do the same the way I treat them but it's just that, I've had enough of this and it's tiring. I just want the world to be kind but I guess that's not gonna happen ever.
The world is not a fairy tale, maybe you think it is... but the reality is different. The decision to get out of the cycle and stop hurting yourself is in your hands, nobody forces you to change, but it only depends on you to obtain different results. I have never changed my way of being, nor have I been unfaithful to my principles, but nevertheless I do things my own way, and they work for me... so you must find your own way...
I recognize that the world is unfair but it hits differently when you experience it yourself. It's traumatic and it makes me distrust people more. I don't want to become a hateful person but reality leads me to be one 🤷
I don't think it's about being "good" or being "bad", here we are already talking about what you need for your life, or are you going to put the lives of others before your own? o.o The most logical thing is that you do what is necessary to be well, even if it means having to mistrust people. To be clearer: people are not going to be aware of you when you have a serious problem, perhaps they will help you up to a certain point, but up to that point, you must do the rest, so you better adapt to thinking what you should be worth. by yourself, do not depend on others to achieve your goals. It's okay to ask for help sometimes, but honestly, it's better not to. But I repeat, you are young, you belong to these new generations, and what is an old man like me going to know about what young people like you think, better not pay attention to me hahahahaha =D
I appreciate the wisdom you are giving me in this exchange Rei. Maybe I'm just being too idealistic that's why it hurts like hell when things don't go according to my plans. I am my own savior so relying to people would be the last option to do so. I just have to deal with these sad realities.
Being strong in mind is loving self. We often forget to love and take care of ourselves.
I feel you sis, kapila nasad ko na hulog tungod sa kaluoy sa isa ka tao pero at the end of the day dele nila ma appreciate tanan
Honestly this sucks. Some people seem to have the nose for the ones whose weakness is saying no. Doon talaga sila lalapit kasi no choice naman yung isa kundi mag yes. Kaya 'susulitin' nila 😪
That's so true 🥺 yung aabusohin nila ang kabutihan ng tao.
Kaya filter filter din tayo ng people we interact with :")