We all have a different story

We all have our side of the story. People may think you're the villain and others will think otherwise.

Every person has their own version or 'truth' depending on many factors. Factors that determine how they see every situation.

But who are we to judge someone about her opinion or view? Who are we to say that what they feel is invalid? Why do we judge them based on our own opinion if we can't respect their opinion.

We, as humans, react based on how we feel and think. We react based on how we see things. We react based on how the situation affects us. Does that makes us selfish and insensitive? Maybe... But that does not mean it makes us a bad person. Being unselfish and insensitive are two things we are required to be sometimes. At times, these two are what help us get through things. When we become selfish and insensitive, we are able to protect ourselves from bullies. When we become selfish and insensitive, we are able to protect ourselves from toxic relationships.

We can be like this SOMETIMES... NOT ALWAYS... Because, as what we all know, too much of everything is bad. Too much is unhealthy for you and for other people.

Balance is what makes you still a good person. Knowing when to stop and knowing when to use these traits is what makes the difference. And sometimes, there's just a fine fine line between overstepping and being in the right side.

We are allowed to make mistakes. We are going to make mistakes as long as we live. How we get through mistakes is what matters. What we do after is what defines us.

So don't he afraid to be selfish for your own good sometimes. Don't be afraid to disappoint people with your choices that you think is best for you. Don't he afraid to make mistakes. This is how we learn, this is how we survive, this is how we protect ourselves. But also don't forget when to stop and don't overdo it and it's also a must to be sensitive towards other people sometimes.. Balance.. Balance is the key...

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