Love is an abstract noun; by abstract we mean complex and unidentifiable. This is a thing which everybody wants but not everybody gets; this is a feeling where anybody could feel but not everybody understands. It has many forms and understood only by the heart.
Is it really understood by the heart? Some say yes that somehow edifies our stand of how love is being understood. But, heart itself is thinking if she really understand love enough to take the risk and stand for it.
There are some basic principles of love such as follows:
To love is to give. This being said means if you love you are to give something out. But what confuses this principle is that, everyone can give with or without love. Some may give out of competition and not of compassion. Others give expecting something in returns while others don't. You see? It's not an easy thing to identify and understand if the one who gives truly loves you or not.
To love is to understand. This means, if you love someone you have to understand their twist and turns of characters and moods. You have to understand that they are just humans who may feel anxious, sad, and discourage. Yet, this is also very complex, why? Because, loving someone is not to understand by brain but by heart.
To love is to forgive. This is the most crucial part! Everyone can love but not everyone can give out forgiveness. Because us-humans love to remember. We always remember the past and use it against each other especially the bad ones during the sinking moments. Yes we can't easily forget because those lies, those painful feeling that love brings will never be erased within us. But it's a matter of acceptance.
Now, what love truly is? It's not just a noun and not just a feeling. Love is a decision that will bind your today to your future. It's a decision that your heart and mind must agree to give your abstract heart a good and wonderful memory that your legacy be remembered of a love well fought in the midst of life's battle of confusion and trials.
Indeed, love is abstract but abstract is beauty and the beauty you make depends on your heart's stamina to fight for it and leave it behind with memories unfold.
Think and never rush! Join the forces of pure and sincere love. Do not waste your tears for temporary ones. Be a warrior in your own little and complicated world.
Amazing one