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Uncontrolled Destiny
2nd of September 2021 Have you asked yourself of what's your destiny? Like, when and how our life ends? Since, we knew this life we've had is not ours. We've just given a chance to took care of it. Then, the big question is that. ARE YOU READY IF EVER OUR TIME CAME? and HOW READY ARE WE FOR THAT INSTANCE? I came up to this article because of some realizations that came to my mind after I've heard the bad news yesterday. Yesterday, I and my mother chatted about how was my kid. Then we talked about my kid and my mom told me that my son were okay there. Then I asked how was my son during night if he's crying and if his looking at us. Then I'm glad that my son were not crying there during night but sad thing my mom told me that our son never looked for us. It's because his enjoying and playing along with my two siblings. ***(How sad? Pwede na pala talagang iwan kasi hindi na kami hinahanap haha***) But when we did a video call yesterday, my son were crying when there internet connection lagged because according to my mom he still wanted to see us in the video call but the problem is they don't have stable connection there. So, so much for my son. I've shared a lot already. After were talking about my son. My mom then shared to me on what happen to our neighbor whose happen to be our Chapel President there. My mom told me that our neighbor was already terminally ill and already fighting for her life now. I was shocked when I knew it because I'm still seeing her last August 16 during our fiesta there. I've seen her still in good condition as if she doesn't have any signs of illness. She's our Chapel President and she's very kind. Then I guess she's still in her 30's and she has 2 kids both are still elementary kids. When I knew about it I asked my mom how does it happen were in fact I've known her and seen her looked like physically fit as if she doesn't have any sickness. Then, my mom told me, it started after the fiesta because she was already vomiting for almost a week. Then, decided to sent her to the hospital because of that. Then, after some tests it was found out that she has a leukemia (cancer of the blood) and already in a critical stage. Then the doctor decided to sent her back home and last Sunday she was already in their house and my mom told me that she's very weak already and has a pale skin. Actually, the doctor said that she must have to undergo bone marrow transplant but because of not having enough money for that. Then they just decided to sent her back home and just wait for what's destined to her. I really felt sad after hearing that bad news. Because I knew she's still young for that and she has two kids that are still needing her care and attention. In addition, her father also needs her because her father were already bedridden as well and her brother needs her because her brother suffers from mental illness too. Then of course her husband also needs her in their little business. Most especially her child still needs her. Then, I told this bad news to my partner because he also knew who she is. Then my partner told me that we really don't when and how our life ends and it never chooses on what your age is if your an adult or still a kid. **If it's our time then it is really our time and we cannot control that to happen. That's what we called the UNCONTROLLED DESTINY.** My Realizations: Yes. We really don't know what, when and how our life ends. So, that is why we should be ready for that all the time. Because we are out of control on that kind of matter. If only we see the future then maybe we still or able to somehow escape from that in the first place. My partner already told me last week about what should I do when suddenly he will be out of the picture. He told me where to bury him and what should I do. Then, I also got shocked about that because he just out of nowhere told me that. But of course his right, we should be ready if ever because we are not the one who holds our life. We just borrowed this life from the Mighty Creator. But, the question is... **ARE WE READY FOR THAT?** Some may say ready but some says not. Why? Because we all have goals that needed to be achieved and that made us not ready if ever anytime of the day, week, months and years our life will come to an end. Today, we may seem physically fit but we don't know by tomorrow we became physically ill and worst became terminally ill. Just like what happen to our Chapel President. It's very sad. But we can't control that matter to happen. Maybe that's already her destiny and we have nothing to do with that. I will just pray the she still can fight longer for her illness and hoping for a miracle to happen. This was a sad article everyone. Because I really felt the pain on the family of the ill by now while I'm writing this article. That's all for today everyone. Still, have a great day ahead! ***"For my sponsors and those who upvoted my articles. I would like to say my deepest gratitude and happiness for you all since you always keep me inspired and motivated. Thank you so much. More blessings to all of us here. Love you all :) -*** @Janz ***Special mention:*** *Thank you one more time for the generous sponsor of mine* @Bloghound *for renewing and adding more sponsorship payment to me. Thank you sis. Super happy and blessed that you still keep supporting me. God bless sis.*
34 comments
Death is really inevitable maam. Whether we like it or not we should be ready because sooner or later we will be facing it. After all, we are not made to be forever be here on Earth. This is just temporary and being with God is eternal. That is the goal.
Exactly mamsh, but of course we cannot deny the fact that somehow being ready for that instance has a lot of factors that made us felt not ready. But yes, we should start embracing that fact because we don't what our life may bring in this world.
I don't fear death. I fear of those I'll leave behind esp. my daughter 😔
Same here sis. That's probably the reason why we felt not ready for it.
Being physically fit doesn't mean we are not going to die soon. We should be prepared everytime.
Exactly. Since we also don't see what future holds.
Nayyy madam. Usahay makahunahuna pud kog ing-ana. Pero dili pa jud ko ready. Gusto pa ko makasud-ong inig dako ni inday. Daghan pa pud kong mga unfulfilled nga mga dreams especially sa akong family.
Mao lage madam nuh, saon ana man ang life were not immortal and our lives has an end.
That's just sad. Death comes like a thief. We don't know when it comes. Live your life with kindness so you don't have regrets.
Exactly. Live life with kindness. That's one of the things that we should live for while were still giving chances to still breathe.
Di mn lge nto control ang kinabuhi mao nga kinahanglan jud nato ang Ginoo sa kanunay labi na ang atong pdulngan after death. Sa karon pa lang, dpat on service ta dha sa Ginoo ky sija ra jd ang naay katungod mukuha sa atong kinabuhj nga gipahuwam ra.😟
I am deeply saddened to hear about her as she is having a blood cancer,This is hard time for her and her whole family as she is only 30.We are unaware about any approaching calamity and any serious happening. Death is unpredictable so we should always ready to face any kind of circumstances.My prayers for her and her family.
Exactly it's truly is unpredictable. Readiness on such matter is a must.
Haysst Death is inevitable and we dont have the power to control it, but thats the reality of life. I'll pray for your neighbor's complete healing!! because our God is our greatest Physician🙏
Yes all we can do for her is prayer.
Your partner is right, no one knows when or how his time comes. And I think no one is ever ready when losing a loved one. We just have to make the most with who matter to us so when the time comes, we will have none to regret and perhaps, a bit easier to accept. And of course, live life with a good and grateful heart :)
Exactly sis, being ready is to live life with all kindness and has pure heart.
Yes, I am with you on that thought :)
All we have to do mamsh is to prepare ourselves to the possibilities. Wala man jud ta kahibaw sa mga bagay-bagay sa palibot gud. Extra careful pa man gani nang uban, pero kalit² lang mahitabo ang dili na damhun nga mga scenarios.
Mao lage mamsh, mga unexpected happenings ba. Maoy makagul anay.
Gajud.. Makahuna.huna pud ka pagmaajo uie, especially pud ikaw mamsh kay naa na raba ka'y bugwit..
Maojud mamsh, not ready pako tungod sa ahong anak
Lagi mamsh.. Amping lang jud sa kanunay.. Pray lang jud..😇
Exactly mamsh
This is one of the greatest things the creator has done and we must understand it... We can never predict or determine who and when it will happen, it is only in the hands of God.
Your right. That's why we should be ready and we no choice but to be ready everyday.
Arang ka guol sie ni palandungon ms. Janz
Mao lage John. Dili ko katoo gajud
Ewan ko lang talaga pero ako, ready nan anytime. I mean, mamamatay naman tayong lahat talaga, meron lang talagang nauuna. So while we're still strong can still grind on top of your juwa, ayt mali. I mean, if kaya pang kumayod then Go. Eachieve lahat ng gusto. Para fulfilled ka or if hindi man lahat, at least may nagawa ka sa mga plano mo sa buhay.
Imbis na serious ako nagbasa madams, kaso may naisip tuloy ako bigla hahahaha Anyways, oo naman while were still strong then we should not stop chasing things that we wanted to achieve. Para naman if it happens, we don't regret it.
It is really sad to know that someone is dying soon and leave us But am sure everyone knows this life is temporary so all we just have to do is live carefully sorry about your chapel president condition sis
Yes, we really don't know about what life may bring. ,😌 And it's sad to know such happenings that are unexpected. Thank you by the way sis
You are always welcome y Friend
Hugs 😊