Ladies, Don't Look Down On Yourselves
|13th Dec 22| No. 347 |
Teaching is a continuous process and anyone can make it while learning. That's hitting two birds with one stone. There are a plethora of lessons to teach and things to be learned. I was thinking about what I could teach others, certainly not about crypto investing strategy as I always failed in that matter. My life too is a mess, boring, and chaotic, and have no interesting facts aside from my different travel stories. Love life is null, so what else can I teach to others? I do have a lot of motivating stories to share if permitted, but that would take longer to tell.
Don't look down on yourself. Ladies also have a place in society
Most of the time, we ladies are often disregarded as people look at us as inferior to men, that they are stronger and more capable of doing a lot of things than us, so they are considered superior in many aspects. Most people believe that we, women are just for a home that would cater to the needs of the family, follow what hubby wants, clean the house, take care of children, and others.
And being in this Chinese country for quite long years, I witnessed a lot of times how men look down on women. Most of them believe that a woman will only get married to a man and serve her family after school. So she must beautify herself and perform better to please her future partner. That's pretty absurd. Can we just beautify ourselves and be successful in the field we have chosen just for ourselves alone? That's always what I thought every time I hear a such conversation here.
It is worth noting that we are already in this modern era where everyone, regardless of gender, is equal and capable of doing the same thing. Besides, there are also a lot of things that a man can't do. Did they even experience a painful dysme every first day of the monthly period? Do men know what it feels like to carry a child in the womb for many months, sacrifice a lot of things, deprive themselves of taking what they like, and the painful labor in the end? And pacify a crying child after. Those sleepless nights and tiring days are incomparable and they will continue until a child grows and learn to stand on his own.
We have a place in society because it won't be complete without women. So never look down on yourself every time men and women are being compared. We all are equal and have our own roles in society in different aspects. Instead, cheer up and prove to them what a lady can do! We can be superior as well!
Love yourself. All ladies are beautiful.
We, Ladies always want to look beautiful, aren't we?
But why do you want to look beautiful by the way? Is that because you want to get the attention of men? Is it because you want to be more confident in the physical world? Or is it because you want to be accepted by society? I bet it's because of the last one, isn't it?
That is because we only perceive beauty as those with pleasing physical attributes. The real pretty physically, sexy, fair-skinned, with a pretty dress. So many nowadays are into beautifying themselves just to look pretty in the eyes of others. And also not to be criticized.
The social media impact is also another factor why a lot want to look pleasing and beautiful in front of others. We tend to go with the flow, dress fashionably, apply make-up, use aesthetics to look beautiful, and mask our flaws.
However, those who can't afford to do so tend to lose their confidence as they regard themselves as ugly and feel different from the literal definition of beauty. They tend to avoid the crowd just not to be criticized, and that affects a lot of aspects of their life. They become introverts and anti-social.
And here's the main thing I could share with the ladies here.
Even how much we conceal our flaws, they will always be revealed and the effect of those products is just temporary, not long-lasting.
But do you know the only secret to becoming beautiful? That's to love ourselves and accept our flaws because we all are naturally beautiful, yet imperfect. And that's what makes us unique.
As we start to love ourselves, we would start to appreciate our own beauty, even our flaws. But as a lady, you should also care about yourself and don't take it for granted. If you want to be beautiful, don't hesitate to make a change. Don't hesitate to reveal the real you. You can be beautiful in your own way, you just need to discover what aspect of you are beautiful. Then you'll discover more beautiful sides of yourself.
Change yourself while maintaining the real you. Do you want to dress prettily? Go and buy a pretty dress and wear it not because of others, but for yourself. Are you not confident of your looks because of your flaws? Don't give a single d*mn to those who will bash your look. Be confident and beautiful and wear whatever dress you like.
Just do what you feel could make you pretty, naturally. Love yourself and take care of it. But it's worth noting that it's not our physical beauty that makes us good humans, it's always our beautiful character
So instead of putting more time and effort into fixing your physical appearance, you better exert more effort on how to build a better character and be a good individual. A character that will be remembered even if we get old and leave this world. Remember that beauty fades, but not a good heart.
This was one of my entries to the LOH contest which I guess is worth sharing.
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Kaya pala familiar, nabasa ko na pala to sa Hive ☺️. And I really do agree with you. We shouldn't look down ourselves, because we are beautiful and worthy in our own special way. There is no love can ever compare to self love.