August 26, 2022
Recently, I feel too exhausted as I keep stuffing a lot into my plate, juggling from one platform to another while doing my job in the real world. Sometimes I'll ask myself, "is one not enough?"
Undeniably, we always wanted more when we can only have one. The more opportunities, the better. And as the adage goes, the more the merrier. Even the viand on our plate, we want more than one, right? Who doesn't want to eat more than one food anyway? One set f clothes aren't enough and we like collecting more. And how many phones do you have at hand, one or two? What about the pair of shoes and bags?
Why do we want to blog on different platforms when we can only focus on one? I remember what I said to our Hive PH TG group, "it's a way to diversify our portfolio." Moreover, it's also a way to diversify our knowledge and gain more. Who doesn't want it anyway?
Speaking of more than one, current viral news in China and Hong Kong was shared by this Chinese lady last night, it has something to do with having more than one. And that's actually my main topic here 😅.
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A video about a confession is currently and fastly circulating here online. It's about two celebrities in a relationship and the guy cheated on the lady. The guy confessed to the lady that he had s## with another lady after getting drunk at a party he attended. D*mn, that's an absurd reason, the first thing I said in my mind.
What surprised the lady and the listeners of that confession was when he revealed that he has another girlfriend as well. Therefore, he cheated on his two girlfriends 😂. Well, I don't really know the whole story because the video was Chinese. The information is just based on the story of this young lady at home.
But if you were the lady, what would you feel if you find out that your boyfriend had s## with another woman? Or worse, has another girlfriend?
Yes, it takes courage to confess a sin and others would probably give him positive feedback on it. Yet, we can't deny the fact that he committed a mortal sin, not just to the lady but to God. Having a third party is common, but to have s#x with another woman while in a relationship? I would definitely spank him if I was the lady.
Why are some men not satisfied with one woman? Are they a pervert? And do you know whom I hated more? Those women engage in third-party relationships even though they know that the man is already taken. Are they out of their minds? Or just too flirty.
This kind of news only reminded me of my ex as the reason for our break up was another woman. My father cheated on my mother before as well, so I don't condone getting involved in this kind of matter.
There was one time when I tried to get exceed my alcohol tolerance to see how it feels when someone is drunk. Can alcohol really control someone's mind to do something stupid and absurd? But I failed because I was still in my mind and can even handle things around me. I did witness some before that became insane when drunk. However, we have the will to let alcohol control us, or we control alcohol effects.
One thing I said to someone before was, "even how many beautiful and seductive women are around you, if you truly love your partner, you won't let alcohol or anything take over your mind. And with or without alcohol influence, if you are a good man, you won't do something bad that will ruin your relationship with your partner. Unless you want something new."
Looking at another woman while in a relationship is normal, especially at attractive women, but to get under a woman's skirt is another thing, and that's pervertedness. We all have our own opinion anyway, so don't bash me if I said this. You can share your opinion below, especially the men here anyway. Besides, an opinion is an opinion, and there is no wrong one.
If I were the lady, should I give a second chance to the man? 2 girlfriends and had s#xual contact with others? I am too naive if I will. Of course, not. A cheater will always be a cheater, as they said. Maybe in some aspects, but not in this kind of situation.
What are your thoughts about this?
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In our real life we can see people like this everyday. I don’t understand how they can do it. How can they manage two womens and often more in life. In the question of ethics, this is totally unethical. When a person make this heinous mistake he lost the trust of another person. And it automatically ends up the relationship.