My Couple Broke Up with Me
Did you know that there is a way to get over the pain of a breakup as quickly as possible? Yup! When a person, to whom we have dedicated a lot of time, decides to end the relationship... it is as if the ground was removed from us and our world collapses. In our mind, everything is so chaotic that it seems to be the event that will mark our existence.
At times like these, some people even begin to have suicidal thoughts, for one reason only: the person receiving the news is left with many unanswered questions.
Therefore, it is essential to ask everything you think is necessary when they give you this news. The other important point is to understand that the world does not end there... on the contrary. I will explain you now.
When you get all the answers you need and are left alone at home, it will be time to analyze what happened from a different point of view. In other words, instead of avoiding crying or suffering for that person, just to show personal pride, it is recommended that you give yourself a good dose of suffering. By this I mean, you should cry if you feel like it. Your gender doesn't matter. Before being a man or a woman, you are a human being and you have feelings.
After releasing all that tension, through crying, you must understand that life is a straight line on a sheet of paper and that the people who will enter your heart come from different colors.
Let's say someone lived with you between 2018 and 2019. That would make a timeline (red line, for example). But, from 2020 to 2022, you met another person who made you very happy (now, it would be a green line). You realize that the end of the red line was not the end. It was just the end of an era. However, it marked the beginning of another, which can be much better.
Therefore, do not see the breakup as the end of your life. It's just the end of a period in your life. Nothing more. On the contrary, instead of being sad, you should be happy to have the possibility of being able to meet another person who values you more and who understands your way of being.
So... how to forget?
Answer all the questions you have before you close the door. Don't walk away without asking (unless you're not interested in knowing the answers).
Do not try to hide the pain you feel in the first 72 hours.
Understand that what is ending is just a moment in your life, but there will be many more.
Focus on developing a personal project that you never had time for.
Do not rush to find a new partner. Also don't worry if time passes and you don't get anyone else. Sometimes it is better to be alone than in bad company.
Learn from your mistakes and try not to make the same mistake the next time. But remember… every opportunity will be different.
Leave in the comments any opinion that this publication causes you. But, do not mention the name of that person who hurt you, please.
I hope I've helped.
