Self Impression and Satisfaction

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Hi everyone, it another beautiful day today in this Christmas season. Hope we are good as we await the birth of the Messiah. While waiting patiently in our endeavors, I bring to you my just cooked article " self Impression".

In this article I will be mentioning and as well reminding my readers on the importance of putting their needs first, how we can make things up to our oneself first. This is so important because we have just one life to live and we come across many people in our day to day activities.

Everyone has a thing he or she wants to achieve. Focusing on these needs, we give in pursuit and hope to satisfy our selves.

Basically, our needs are food clothing and shelter. Now we have them and seeking for more comfort. When we have our basic needs, it not just enough, hence they are "basic"needs. We also need money to provide all these "basics" to live an impressing and satisfactory life.

Self Impression is really awesome, feels good and is so important as we live to impress no one but ourselves first. It really means achieving our wants and needs.

Self-Satisfaction is the state of being excessively pleased with oneself. A feeling of fulfillment or contentment with respect to one's own accomplishments or situation.

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People can have different goals and aspiration. Even a newly born baby needs food a d the food not being provided,disturbs the mother, this goes on until someone does the needful, then the baby keeps quiet. This can also be attributed to adults, in pursuit of our goals. Some will have no rest until they achieve something.

In all these struggle, it could be difficult to offer full time assistance to others even though in the best way we can, we try our best to show concern. Some times, we also seek this help and others in any little way, offers assistance. Indeed, what really matters is getting a helping hand when sought for.

In offering help, people should know very well that they must not give out everything they have, remain some for yourself because you didn't cause the situation, it happened already and your assistance is what is expected to make up for whatever happened.

In some situations, it seems so tough and rough, calling for the need of urgency. In this situation , be mindful not to give in so much that would take part of you because some people in the process of giving help fall a victim. Trying to impress people is good but self Impression is better indeed.

This is a story of a man who gave everyone all the help they needed, anytime and eny day, he never disappointed his seekers, to the point of people calling him helper. He got criticized by some but that didn't stop his charity. What raises questions on this man was the fact that he is not counted among the rich in his community. He lives average and has a family he fends for.

He makes more friends when he gives help and so, he became famous for his helping profession. One day, his enemies and criticizers accused him conniving with some gang of drug dealers in his community and that how his wealth grew from retirement. The news of this allegations was spread like a wild fire. He was charged to court with this allegation. Unfortunately for him, he has no money to buy a lawyer. His expectations failed him when none of his benefactors came to his aid.

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The jury came and there was no single person to attest for him. He was sentenced to prison as penalty for being guilty. Someone who has saved so many people and given countless assistance to his benefactors. Indeed, life can be ironic.

Dear readers, being nice to people is good, offering help is awesome but counting our teeth with our tongue is beautiful.

Thanks for reading.

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Self confidence and impression matters a lot in all we do a d if we must strike it and then find our way to the top

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Absolutely correct

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