Be loyal but not stupid
Hi everyone! What's going on? The heat of sun is unbearable these days, as summers has been started since March here. Today, I was out for grocery, and my head was fully sweating. When I come back, I took some cold drinks and juices to feel better. Seriously, this season is unbearable specially for farmers and labors, who work whole day under the blazing of sun, but never complain. I salute all the workers, who work hard day and night.
Anyway, this is not my topic for today. So let's move towards it.
In every relationship, trust and respect are two main factors, but some people try to run their relationship without it, and end up being departed. Sometimes, loyalty comes only from one side, but the other one take it as the weakness of his partner due to the utmost emotions which he/she continue to shower on him, in spite of the cold behavior.
Although, we should be loyal, and should base our relationship on strong pillars, but your loyalty shouldn't be to the extent that other take it as your weakness. In this way they will only degrade you, and wouldn't care for your love and sincerity. Never let others treat you as a stupid, instead let them know your real worth.
A woman live near my area, who was married few years ago, and went abroad with her in-laws. Her family was happy, as her life would be easier there, but they were unaware about her in-laws. They misbehaved her, and treated her badly. She was used to doing households, but still they never care for her. Her husband was used to beating every day, but she never said a word, and endured everything.
When her parents learned about the cold behavior of her in-laws, they asked her to complain the police. But she never did anything against her in-laws, and stay loyal with her husband. But her husband never cared for her sincerity, and did what she never expected.
Few days ago, they asked her to pack her suitcase, as they are going Pakistan to meet her parents. She was excited, as it's been 4 years, that she never met her parents. They brought her to Pakistan, and left her here forever, even her passport and everything document they brought back with them, and never contacted with her again.
They took her sincerity and loyalty, as her stupidity. Now she is here at her parent's house with her son who is only three years old. Now she cries every day, but unable to do anything. As currently her parents are also not in position to fight for her involving law, as they are not financially stable. But I pray she finds a possible solution to her problem, and her in-laws be ready for Karma.
It's rightly said, everything should be in limit, otherwise, your care, love, and loyalty will be neglected.
Thanks for reading.
Here are my lovely sponsors, go and read their amazing articles. I am sure you would be glad to read their incredible work. I am grateful to them for believing me.
We can be loyal and wise at the same time. Don't let yourself be someone's underdog. Restrict them from taking you for granted. Don't lost yourself with someone who doesn't even care about you.