Are you extravagant person?

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2 years ago

Hi everyone! What's going on?

Today, I was busy with my nephew and nieces, as it was their holiday, so they come to visit their aunt. At first, we played different games like cricket, football, and hide-and-seek, and later I prepared noodles for them. They were happy after spending their holiday with me, and they also promised to spend the next weekend with us.

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Seeing them here, I also remembered about my childhood days, when my cousins and siblings were used to spend every weekend together with us. Cricket was our favorite, and most played game. Once, we were playing cricket, while one of my cousin hit the ball with full power, and broken the glass window. My mother come to scold us, for the damage, but we run outside to escape.

Anyway, that's not my topic for today, because today, I want to talk about the extravagant people who spend more than, they can afford. Personally I think the main reason behind their extravagant behavior is their fake appearance before others, because they are used to pretending to be wealthy people. So they don't let others know their true plight. But some of them had learned since their childhood to being excessive or overdone, so it's their habit to spend lavishly.

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Let me share with you the story of the family which live near to us. There are five members in their family, a couple and their three children. At first, the husband was the only supporter of the family, because his children were under their academic years. But still his wife was used to spending lavishly on shopping, to maintain her appearance before her friends. But now her son also went abroad, so she has become more wasteful.

Two months ago, her son came Pakistan to get marry, so they were busy in preparing for his wedding. They have spent a lot on his wedding, and everyone was amazed to see the luxuriant wedding. But, now few days ago one of the debtor arrived at their gate to demand his money. Actually, the money they spent on wedding was mostly a debt, but they never thought for a second before taking a huge amount of debt.

Their son is also here for last six months due to the Covid_19, so they are short out of money, but debtor was not in mood to give them a second chance. All the neighbors were shocked to see their real plight which has removed the mask which they were wearing to betray others. They were pretending to be wealthy by spending lavishly, but no one was aware about their real situation, because they have always seen them in good condition.

Now they are depressed, and worry about they debt, but no one is agreed to help them, and who would go to pay such huge sum of money? The lady shouldn't do this just to maintain her esteem in the eyes of others, because we are what, we are. So instead, of pretending to be wealthy, be the person you are in real, because it will save you from so many worries.

No one is aware about the coming calamity, because it can reach anytime, to anyone, so we should, must save something for rainy days. If we are wealthy today, it doesn't mean the tomorrow would be same, so never be extravagant or profuse.

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2 years ago

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We need to learn how to spend and save for the future. Even if we have enough money, it doesn´t mean we should spend extravagantly. Trying to impress others with nothing will lead to trouble for us.

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2 years ago

Right dear, we need to act on proper strategy to spend money.

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2 years ago

We should be ourselves and not try to impress others beyond our means

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2 years ago

Absolutely, because no one will come to help us in difficult time with money we spent to please them

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2 years ago

Nope I don't want to spend more than what my budget can...and with things nowadays.. it is wise to save than to spend

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2 years ago

That's great, we all need to spend carefully

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2 years ago

They shouldn't borrow huge amount of money just to make people believe they are wealthy that much. Now they are having a big problem. Being thrifty isn't bad at all

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2 years ago

Right dear, their fake appearance has put them in trouble now

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2 years ago

Avoid being a great pretender coz it will be lead us to devastation one day

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2 years ago

Great devastation, so we should be careful

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2 years ago

Unfortunately there are some people, who spends more, than they have. The thing is it is possible if you have a credit card. These people don't think about the furure. They focus on what is happening now and make it big. Really big. Like you explained. Not a good practice.

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2 years ago

And at the end they are the only ones who face difficulties

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2 years ago

That's impossible for someone to manage that sum. Pathetic.

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2 years ago