Wife is found if wife is lost but,
If mother is lost, mother can no longer be found.
This is a very emotional saying of Bengalis.
But wife and mother are not two categories of people competing with each other.
One is the birth mother who cannot be compared to anything in Tribhuvan.
She is revered, she is a shining example of the ideal love of every human being, she is the mother.
On the other hand, the wife is the wife's life partner.
Without whom you are not complementary.
I am saying these things because it is almost heard that many people say that if you lose your wife, you get a wife, if you lose your mother, you do not get a mother.
Well, have you ever thought about your wife and a mother?
To your children.
Both women wish you well.
Those who compare people with these two entities are nothing but idiots.
It is foolish to look for comparisons.
Now if you are asked who do you love?
Your mother or your child?
Everyone will say this is a bizarre question.
In the same way, if the wife dies, the wife can be found, if the mother dies, the mother cannot be found
It's very silly.
Because two women have two different roles in your life.
When your mother dies you will be an orphan.
In the same way, if the wife, that is, your wife, dies, your child will also be an orphan who has lost his mother.
After your mother, if someone raises both hands in prayer and prays for you to the Creator, that is your wife.
As much as your pain hurts your mother,
In the same way your wife suffers from the tension of instability.
Looking forward to your return home at the end of the day, such as your mother, eagerly waiting for the child.
Just like that, your wife is also on that waiting list. Your mother is just as happy with your success.
In the same way, your wife is happy with the success.
There are different things in the way of human life, there are stories which cannot be told to the birth parents.
Even though father and mother are relatives, those things cannot be shared. Nowhere does fear, shame, inertia work.
But with a life partner, any kind of inertia can be said effortlessly without any doubt.
The fact is, they both deal with their confidence as they choose to embark on their play activities.
Not only this, with the help of fire you can do welding.
Love them Respect them from their respective places.
Give him as much dignity as you can.
Remember parents are teachers.
Tell me what you will do today
So your child will learn by watching.
Do not present this teaching in front of them
But, not when the mother dies.
Rather present this teaching to them. To be truly happy, two people need to play a role in life.
And their dignity from their respective positions.
Neither wife nor mother is anyone's rival. Rather, both are an integral part of life.
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