I've learned that when you teach people what you learn from others, you learn more about it from the people you teach who will give in the form of feedback or lessons learned from you.
I won't say I know a lot about love and how to make love last for a long time, but I'll start with a little series of keys that I've seen and learned that make love last longer. Huh.
Many people may not believe that a love can last till death, but many people also talk about "first love is the best love lasts" but I am allowed to say that without some keys What I am sharing with you, first love can become love let it go and with these keys, one will believe that love can last longer than imagined.
I'll share six keys to lasting love but to avoid lengthy posts, I decided to talk each key for a post and get feedback from anyone who reads and follows through to the end.
So today's talk on LOYALTY will be about the key to lasting love.
In a relationship, the feeling of "he's got my back or has he ever got my back" is what keeps love alive. No one wants to be in a relationship where they feel threatened, or even alone when it should be on the other side.
Loyalty is showing undivided support, being firm in your loyalty to your partner and remaining loyal to him.
When each partner focuses on supporting each other at all times, such a relationship is bound to be a huge success. How can you show support to your partner? I'll give my opinion here and look forward to knowing more in the comments section.
Support them directly
While your partner has friends, he or she may also have enemies who get on their nerves, hurt them with words or even physically jury them. Show loyalty by directly supporting them. Be the piece of his mouth when he is silent and show the so-called enemy that your partner is not alone.
Show your partner a "you're not alone" or "we're in this together" feeling... that love is bound to grow.
I remember a couple who worked together to get rid of their enemy by fighting and it was a really heated fight that almost took their enemy's life. I don't remember how it all started, but showing loyalty like this may show their strong bond, but did not tell good about them to the public, who will be watching their love story.
Support them privately
While you should support your partner in the present of their so-called enemy, there are times when you should turn them away from other eyes and wisdom. That's when you're sure your partner is wrong and needs to be fixed, but be sure to do it in private.
"Sweetheart, you shouldn't have told her that"
"What if you had kept him quiet instead? Things would have played out differently"
Carefully erase any mistakes your partner has made in public, but make sure it's in private. Never attack her in the presence of people who have been wronged by your partner. You can advise him to apologize after talking in private.
Giving your loyalty to your partner shows your love for your partner to an extent and the best way to show that loyalty is openly favoring him/her is to correct it in private and assure your partner that that you are there for him. His.
How do you react to being faithful as a key to lasting love?
Thanks for going through!!!
There must be loyalty in the love relationship. There must be faith, love is a thing, if there is a little lack of faith, it is not right. Loyalty is the most important thing you have shown.