Let's Learn Indifferent !

Today, it is not healthy for us to overuse our hearts. The reason is, the use of the heart that is "too or excessive" will only make the heart often hurt and the mind is overthinking.

We are indeed required to be sensitive to our surroundings, but there are still limits. For those who don't know, being ignorant is an attitude of ignorance. This is different from not caring. Ignorance here means not wanting to interfere with things that have nothing to do with oneself, while not caring is ignoring everything, including some things that concern oneself. For example, in terms of appearance. Some people really don't care about appearance, but it's for themselves.

Caring too much about words, happiness, dislikes, and what other people say will only require the heart to work harder. Caring too much about other people's lives that have nothing to do with you and thinking too much about what other people say will only prevent you from growing. After all, the life you live, you know better what to decide what is good for you.

Life is hard, don't make life difficult. You don't want to increase your fatigue, do you?

5 ways to learn to be indifferent

• Focus On Your Life

You must have a handle, your life is the captain. Don't go west, you go west, don't go east, you go east. It's not good for your life, set your own life goals.

You have to focus on your life, just ignore other people's lives. Mbok let every human life is different, the scenario that God gave to me must be different from the one that God gave to you. So, be cool and focus on your life.

• Don't get carried away easily

There are some things that we should take it easy and enjoy. Live with a great sense of humor to minimize emotions and hurt.

If someone criticizes us with insulting words that bring down, let's just say that person is a jerk who tries to be funny, but is dry. Think of all trivial things as a joke, focus on yourself.

• Be generous

Be calm and accept the situation. We are limited, some things we can't do. However, don't worry too much, try to be humble about some things that are beyond your control. Forcing all these things is not wise.

• Stop Commenting on Other People's Lives

You don't need to be a good netizen, comment on people's lives here and there. The more you are busy taking care of life and commenting on the lives of others, the more energy and emotion you devote to that person. What do you get? Tired. So, again, just focus on yourself.

• Be Yourself and Love Yourself

Just ignore all the things that are not profitable for you, ignore the things that are detrimental to you.

Be yourself, no matter what other people tell you, you are still valuable. So instead of trying to figure out how to get other people to like you, it's better to start by loving yourself.

I need to emphasize here, being indifferent and not caring is in a different context even though they are similar. Ignorance is more limiting yourself from things that are not your portion.

By the way, if you find a friend who is "too" indifferent, here are the tips that I have summarized from various sources:

1. Just ask him to talk

Ignorant people are sometimes just confused about how to interact, especially starting a conversation.

2. Make them regret

People who are too ignorant, don't be hostile, give them advice so that they feel regret.

3. Ignore back

If your friend is too cool even though you've tried to be friendly, ignore him back.

" So, for now, let's learn to be indifferent. No matter what other people say to you, you are still valuable. So, instead of being busy looking for ways to get others to like you, it's better to start by loving yourself. So, for those of you who learn to be positive, good luck tips above and good luck! "

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