In a recent song by Reekado Banks; an Afro-Pop artist, he talked about his love interest. These were the words he made use of when approaching her;
You no need to tell me say you got options
When they see you all the boys they dey love struck
According to him, the woman who he intends being with is someone who has boys frolicking around her all for the hope that they would get her to say YES. This is how it's supposed to be; single with options.
We find a high rate of suicide around the world today and love is one of the huge push that leads to it. Ranging from heartbreak to betrayal, and the need for a companion we find people take their lives out of hopelessness. They can't just imagine themselves being single again.
Being single is one phase in life that people are supposed to relish, but thanks to sitcoms, social media, and magazines any single person is regarded as an outcast. If truth be told we would however bring ourselves to confess that most people who find themselves in relationships are single without an option. In the face of the audience they just had the best night, but when they go home and wash off the makeup and unknot the tie, they realize they are better off single, but they would never come to that stage cos they're suddenly out of options.
A singles person is one person who has his audience seeking the detail of his every move. They're interested in knowing his business growth, his weight, and every other detail; cos details like these are what would prompt their interest in you. This entails the fact that being single helps you grow on yourself. It helps you see yourself for who you are. It is a time where you learn to love yourself for who you are. It is not the time to weep and gnash your teeth in grief over not been whistled at by the boys on the streets. It should rather be the time where you work on yourself so whosoever approaches you would be worth it.
This doesn't go without saying that people should be cautious in these times. In these times, you see females shun every guy with a straight and blatant NO! Easy Tigress, Easy.. My classical mind would rather ask such person to wait, and while waiting, I'd examine him inside out to see if he's worth a shot. This way, you are not to be held ransom if at the tail you decide the person is not worth a shot. Guys on the other hand could be a handful when they choose to be. Most guys who get as little as an admiration from ladies are experts in flirting. So far she has ass and boobies; they are taking her to the other room. This would only ruin your chances when you finally decide to choose one to be serious with
Without much ado, we can come to the conclusion that being single is not a death sentence; it is rather an opportunity for self discovery, self love, and growth.
Beautiful!