What happens when people who are lonely fall in love? Or, to say that another way, why do people who need love and intimacy the most, often end up in relationships with abusive partners or partners who don't really care about them? Our society has always believed that loneliness equals unhappiness and pain. But, I'm here to tell you that loneliness can actually be a beautiful thing. As I hope to show you through my blog, loneliness can spark new ideas, bring out creativity and provide us with a feeling of longing that can only be satisfied by other human beings.

Loneliness and love

your loneliness can make some positive changes in your future life. If you want to make your loneliness positive, you need to develop good work habits. Such as reading books, practicing religion, spending time with family, etc. Doing these things will help you to reduce your loneliness.

On the other hand, if you make love, you will have a deep feeling in your head. Which will make you mentally unstable. Because, fulfilling the hobbies of the lover, keeping words, giving time all these fall under one responsibility. So it is better not to make love to end loneliness.

How Loneliness Makes You Love.

Loneliness can make you love too much.

When you're lonely, you want to be with people — especially the people who were there for you when you were feeling down. These are the people who are likely to become your best friends and confidants.

But loneliness also makes people over-estimate how much others like them, says Matthew D. Lieberman, a social psychologist at UCLA and author of Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect. So when someone goes out of their way for you or expresses interest in who you are, it's usually assumed that they share these feelings in return — even if they don't.

In fact, if they don't return this affectionate attention as quickly as expected, it can be taken as a sign that they don't like or care about us — even if that's not true.

"If someone is lonely enough, they will interpret any signs of affection from other people as evidence that they are liked," Lieberman told Business Insider. "It's an understandable reaction."

Why Loneliness Creates Longing.

Loneliness is a state of mind that can lead to longing for connection. Longing is the desire for something that is not present, for something that is missing.

Loneliness has been described as an emotional state characterized by a perceived discrepancy between one's desired and existing social relationships. The causes of loneliness may vary, but they include:

• 1) having poor social skills;

  2) being introverted;

  3) being an outsider;

  4) feeling excluded;

  5) lacking companionship;

  6) having low self-esteem; and/or

  7) having a negative view of oneself.

Loneliness makes you long fir a connection.

Loneliness makes people long for a connection, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they want to be around other people.

People who are lonely want to feel connected to others, but they often don’t know how to go about it. They may spend time alone because they feel uncomfortable in social situations or they avoid them altogether. While this can make them happy temporarily, it can also lead to feelings of isolation and depression.

Loneliness makes you love the wrong people.

It's a sad truth that many of us have to learn the hard way. When you're lonely, it can be easy to fall for someone who's not good for you — or worse, someone who doesn't care about you and will eventually break your heart.

Loneliness is a desperate feeling that makes us crave affection and attention from anyone who will give it to us. And when we're lonely, we're more likely to ignore red flags in our relationships and fail to recognize warning signs that this person isn't right for us.

This is why loneliness can make you fall in love with someone who isn't good for you:

You want companionship so badly that you settle for less.

You're desperate for human contact, so even bad company feels better than no company at all.

Loneliness makes you love in a crisis mode.

Loneliness makes you love in a crisis mode.

Loneliness is not a pleasant feeling. It is an unpleasant state of mind that can be very stressful and destructive to your overall well-being. When you are lonely, your thoughts tend to be negative and pessimistic, which can result in loneliness becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy. You may also experience feelings of sadness, anxiety or depression when you are lonely.

Loneliness is often related to social isolation, which occurs when people lack meaningful relationships with others. According to the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services (HHS), social isolation is often associated with increased risk for heart disease, high blood pressure and other health problems.

The effects of loneliness on the body can include:

• Anxiety

• Depression

• Lower immune function

Loneliness makes you love to be loved.

When you're lonely, you need to be loved. And when you're loved, you feel less lonely.

That's the conclusion of a new study in the journal Psychological Science that found that the stress hormone cortisol is released when people feel socially excluded — and that feeling socially included can alleviate that cortisol spike.

The researchers studied 80 adults who were asked to play a computer game where they could win money by guessing how many coins other people in the room were holding. After playing the game, participants were asked to rate their feelings of loneliness and isolation on a scale from 1 to 10 and had their saliva tested for cortisol levels.

The results showed that people who felt more lonely after playing the coin game had higher levels of cortisol in their saliva than those who didn't feel as isolated by the experience. The findings held true even after researchers controlled for personality traits like extraversion and neuroticism that might make some people more sensitive to being excluded than others.

Feeling lonely can make it hard to find the right person and know if they are right for you

To eradicate loneliness, we need to stop over-generalizing the "falling in love" feeling. People don't think alike. What one may find to be love is something a different person can't even fathom. All that means is that they're missing out on something more incredible than they will ever know. So when you feel alone, remember that you are not. We are all connected in some way, and no one feels truly alone if they have someone to share their time.