On understanding, being understood, correct communication.

Why do we communicate? Telling the truth and being understood correctly. The problems between us and people are always caused by misunderstanding and misunderstanding. Isn't our greatest effort in life to be understood correctly? At the same time, expect understanding. Understanding is an important skill in humans. expanding understanding; cognition, quick grasp, intuition, insight and mindset. In the ability to understand, there is a clear and distinct perception, perceiving and perceiving things that exist directly and directly. In humans, intelligence does the job of quick grasping. We cannot call every intelligent person understanding, but we can call every understanding person intelligent. This ability is not equal for everyone. The reason for this inequality may be congenital, or it may be a physiological, psychological or moral disease. A morally sick person is a demonic type of person who thinks everyone else is stupid, smart, and clever. Such a sick person can be called a fool. Too stupid to know his own stupidity. The most intolerable and most unbearable of people is the unsympathetic person with a weak ability to understand what to avoid. Because they say it is more difficult to talk to an ignorant person than to jump from a ditch with a camel. Those with little understanding, those with common sense, those who do not understand the way should run like lions. Such people not only give you trouble, but also take away your peace of mind.

Everyone expects Understanding. But almost all of those who expect Understanding do not show Understanding for some reason.

People are always like that, they are always arrogant and selfish. He doesn't want for anyone else what he wants for himself. In other words, he despises what he sees right for himself.

But this is a sad situation. If you expect understanding from a person, you should definitely show understanding. Or you should not always expect understanding from the other person.

Because just as you have sad and unhappy days, the other person also has such days. And understanding can come when you expect it.

You will be understanding so that when the day comes, you will be understood.

Then you will be understanding so that when the day comes, you will be understood. They call it Empathy.

But not all people are the same. Don't expect understanding from everyone. There are people with understanding and there are people with understanding. You can already tell from the choice of friends.

We can also call it a black day friend. But we should not always use the other side in criticism. We should not avoid self-criticism.

Sometimes the problem can be with us, just like sometimes on the other side. So sometimes we can be on the side that doesn't understand.

If you are someone who does this all the time, you should check yourself. Otherwise, you will have trouble. And more than enough.

Both in terms of friends. If those around you realize that you have this negative habit, they will move away from you. Or they treat you the same way you treat them.

Sometimes this understanding can be abused. In other words, if the other party always expects your understanding, there must be something wrong with it.

You should talk about it the moment you notice it. You should know how to say no when appropriate. Unfortunately, life does not work out by always saying yes.

As you know, there are good people as well as bad people in this life. Bad people who abuse good intentions. Don't see everyone like you, you will be very sad.

Anyway, let's not derail our topic. Here, friends. Understanding is a really important habit and a feature that is not found in every human being.

The people around an Empathetic person are always many times more than the people around an Empathetic person.

This is exactly what should happen. That's why people question themselves. Why did the people around me decrease? Thus, he quits this habit.

In short, if you expect understanding, show understanding.