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WHAT IS PAIN??
On a very plain word, pain is a feeling of hurt.
But it will interest you to know that pain is not just a sensation to our body or nerves. But is influenced by many other things such as our personalities, beliefs, attitude and even the society.
And the way we react to pain varies from person to person. The way I will react to a knife cut will not be the same as you would.
Emphatically speaking, pain is not caused sole by what people do to us. But it's alsoinvolves the way we process things.
Don't you recall how many times your friends might have used insultive words on you and it feels normal. But if a perceived enemy does same thing, we will feel pained about it.
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Seeing through what people do to us will help us know what to do and how to do it. It's not every stimulus you should react to. Yes it is not as easy as said, but that pain might be making stronger than even destroying you.
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People will hurt you, say all manner of abusive words and even defame you. What will be your reaction? Will you always gight back or you will let it pass?
Learning to be calm in the midst of pain is key in gaining mastery of situations, very tough ones. Never see pain as an enemy all the time. You won't be where or who you are today if not for some pain you went through. Life is full of lessons.
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You describe the feelings of pain very nicely. Thanks for this one. I'm waiting the next one.