Why winners win and losers lose

Being a winner is everybody's dream but can we then make the sacrifices winners make? There are lots of sacrifices to make in order to become a winner and you all would agree with me that being a winner is a thing of the mind so if the mindset isn't worked on, being a losers will become inevitable.

Below I will be listing some various reasons why winners win and losers lose

• Winners build and invest while losers buy stuffs: whenever winners see an available open space or little cash, all they do is to invest into their future by building friendships, wealths, values, good name etcetera while losers only buy liability to themselves. They will keep on buying luxurious things of life even if it's of no good use to them, things they can't maintain and will only become burden to them on the long run.

• Winners fail but keeps trying until they succeed while losers fail once and quit: one thing I always admire about the winners of our time is their ability to persevere and also their level of patience. They never quit, they keep on trying until they get there. A very good example of a winner that never quitted was Abraham Lincoln, if you are planning to quit or give up, I would like you to read and study about this man. He was defeated for so many offices including the office of the speaker, US senate, vice president... but he never gave up until he became the US President in the year 1860. Losers only give something a trial and once they fail, they give up and quit. (Even the one time trial is with so much conviction).

• Winners earn respect while losers seek respect: anywhere losers gets to, they always demand people to respect them, they always want to prove that they are older and better than everyone but winners don't even have to say it, through their works, it is must you respect them.

• Winners makes things happen while losers lets things happen: people who win are always behind every good thing that happens while losers will only sit and watch good things happen.

• Winners face their fears while losers escape from their fears: Fear only make things worse, it can never make it better more reason why the winners always find a way to conquer their fears but the losers will only run from it.

• Winners help others get ahead too while losers always want to get ahead of others: when you see someone who is always trying to help people get better or so keen on getting people to the top then you should definitely know that the person is a winner but seeing someone who always want to get ahead of other people, who thinks that no one should ever gets to his/her position, undoubtedly the person is such a loser.

• Winners define their own success while losers follow the success of other people: heading in other people's direction has always been a characteristic of a loser because everyone has their own way of success, man A can never get successful in the same way man B did. To be a winner, your success story must only come from you and also be solely understandable by you.

• Winners thinks their success is as a result of their hardwork while losers thinks that winners only win through luck: winners know that the more hardworking they get, the more luckier they become while losers thinks that winners only win because they get lucky and would never think it's because of their hardwork.

• Winners keep learning while losers thinks they are genius: losers don't always see any reason whatsoever to learn because they feel that they already know it all and that they are more brilliant that everybody but winners will always keep learning because they know they have to keep learning in order to maintain their success.

• Winners keeps good company while losers keeps bad company: wherever you see winners, you would always see them in companies of fellow winners who are more successful than they are and they can learn few stuffs from but a loser will always be in the company of fellow losers who has nothing to offer then giving each other useless ideas.

To be continued....

Note: This article is not by anyway detesting anyone neither is it hate filled, it's just a way of letting everyone realize what category they fall into so they can find ways to help themselves get better. Thank you for reading.😊🤗

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