Be Kind to Your Unkind Days

"Be kind to those who are unkind, they need it most"

We all have heard about kindness since our childhood but we never thought to apply them in reality. Kindness is not only meant for living souls but for non-living things too.

Kindness is a simple and effective way to remind a broken soul that there is love and second chance to be found in the world. Kindness is just like a flame which can melt a millions of glaciers. Kindness is just like the tiny spark which can turn into wildfowler. 'Be kind to everyone' this is the line with which we all are familiar but we should not forget to save some kindness for ourself too because you can't give what you don't have. So try to be kind to yourself first before anyone else because you need it the most.

There are some days when it seems like there is no tomorrow, there is no hope, there is no dawn everything seems dark and obscure. There are some days when it feels like our life is only tearing us apart. These are the days when you can fall in love with yourself more and more and you should not forget there is a hidden purpose behind everything. Struggles are the inseparable part of our life though they can't exist for ever. We all struggle sometimes which happen to every single soul. It is totally impossible to control every aspect of our life, at some point you may feel your struggles are just engulfing you, eating every pieces of flesh you have but still you have to remember You are so much more than those struggles.

Failures and struggles are the most important thing in our life because they define us who we are. If you never been failed then ask yourself Are you sure you have worked enough???? Because failures are nothing but the proof of your sleepless nights, your growth, your not so giving up mentality, your hardwork, your dedication. Learn to accept failures with open heart because Failures are nothing but the shadow of Victory.

Everyday has something in it whose name is A second chance. Maybe now you are cursing yourself, your unkind days for all the testes, struggles, longerings but one day you will realise the value of these unwanted and undesirable things because these are the things which makes you who you are, makes you braver than you seem, stronger than you think. All great things begins with the choice to let them begin so today if you have a choice then choose to begin your story again.

It is totally okay to have those days when even your name seems strange thing to you. It is totally okay if everything seems senseless to you because everything will make sense some day when you start to live to the fullest. First we break then We heal so don't let those broken and lost pieces of yours make you incomplete and unworthy. Try to glued all the deteriorated and lost pieces of yours together by loving yourself a little more.

Don't be worried and waste your time for all the unkind things when you can create so many great things than you have lost. Just try to fall in love with your victory, with the good times before knowing their existence. Whatever makes you happy, Do that without thinking about anything or anyone as negetive people, failures, sorrows are like the weather as no storm will never last forever so does your pains, sorrows, failures.

Drown all your negetive thoughts, worries, insecurities in a long heavy slumber and rise up from where you are now. Never let your unkind days, struggles take the spark inside you. Don't put unbearable burden on yourself. Don't compare yourself because your story is totally unique and too different to compare. Don't curse yourself even when you are only one with no dream, with no progress, just think How rare and beautiful it is to even exist. Things can get tough but you must not lose your hope because the world is brighter with you in it and it needs your spark to light up the world.

Build yourself up gracefully and gorgeously. Put your insecurities and worries to sleep. Make yourself remind you are worthy and capable of doing everything. Bloom the way you are meant to be with the help of self love without comparing your growth to others because everyone grows differently. Learn how to feel stay strong and brave even when you are feeling the weakest and meekest one.

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Be kind to your unkind days because they moulds you into the most strong, perfectly imperfect person. Be kind to your unkind days because they makes you who you are. Be kind to your unkind days because they teaches you how to exist beautifully when you don't even want to breath. Be kind to your unkind days because they gives you your true identity even when your existence seems mirage to you. Last but not least, Be kind to your own self____ because... You are worthy. You are special. You are unique. You matters.

Today love yourself a little more by showing your kindness towards yourself and your unkind days.

Thank you soo much for giving your precious time.

Have a great evening.

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Hiroko___07.08.22