Sometimes we get impatient. we think we're missing out, we're falling behind. But have learnt that what belongs to you is not going to go to anyone else. what has your name on it will surely come to you. instead of trying to force things,relax God is ordering your steps. It has been lined up,what you will need to fulfil your destiny if it hasn't happened yet , wait it wasn't the right time,if the door closed , something better is going to open up,you don't have to manipulate things, try to convince people to like you,force the door to open. Let the blessings come to you. If you are having to connive and convince you are frustrated,can't sleep you need to let that go and trust God to do it his way.