You will be Fine!!

April 11, 2022

Hi everyone, I honestly don't have a topic to post today and I was having a difficulty to start earlier but as I was going home there were lots of news that I learned from different people, from different post at Twitter and there are lots of happening in other's life that makes me realize I am so lucky. Maybe God wants me to appreciate my less than average life. Some decision I had with my life makes me feel at my worst. I felt everything I had decided was wrong but I know it is not too late. Still not too late for me if my time is still not up.

There are people who died today. I don't know who they are. Maybe those who died doesn't want to leave this world, or maybe they are ready to go. When you are gone in this world, no one knows what will happen to you in the after life. You will surely not know what will happens to your remains and the family you left behind, it is too much overthinking for me, but my point is, you are still here, you are so lucky!! You are healthy. You are normal. You have lots of flaws but you can function. You can still leave a normal life, of course, that depends on what is normal for you.

Some don't have work tomorrow, not because they are in a day off, but because they already resigned, or terminated, or layoff. They are cutoff from the employee list and the company no longer need them. Or maybe their contract ended and their employer will not renew it. Some are looking for job but still haven't found one. They don't have allowance for job hunting anymore and now they need to borrow money from their family or friends, or anyone who can lend them. However, you have your job. You just hate your boss or a coworker, but you are paid every 15th or monthly. You can still pay your bills. Some might not have savings, but still you make ends meet and survive it. Do you think you should be thankful? We might not have the riches, but we still have something everyday.

Some hate their lives. They are still poor. Poor in every sense they could understand. What is being poor anyway? Still they hate their life. They look on others life. Other's life are more blessed. They wish they are living someone's life. They can't appreciate them. The real deal is, rich or poor, we all have our own unique struggle. No life is perfect. It could be good, better or best, but those kind of things are only in the mind. If you are poor, no money at all, but if you think there will be something that will save you, then life is still a better place. If you are struggling but still do not stop to learn hwo to live comfortably, then you are at your best life. There is no standard for it. A fighter is always a fighter.

Or maybe you are sad. Everything makes you sad. Everything makes you stress, angry and depress. You think your are in your lows. I want you to always remember, you are now at the comfort of your house that you call home while others are victims of war. They are transferring from one place to another because they need to hide. Some are victims of fire. They no longer have their house, while you are complaining you don't have your own room, your own gadgets. Be sensitive with your complains as there are people who are suffering and you are doing fine.

My point is, I hope we change our thinking that there is always a standard of living. No matter our situation is, we will going to be fine. We are hoping to be fine because we will do everything to be fine. To be fine is okay, it is better than not doing something. Being fine doesn't mean we will not doing an effort. We will be fine by doing an average effort for now and if we can move on to the next level of our effort, if we can. Let's us not push ourselves.

Our life is a gift. I want you to appreciate yours. You will be fine. You will do your best. Be thankful that despite problems you are still breathing. Choose to live, choose to fight. Your life, is worth fighting for. Your existence matters. Sooner or later, you will find people that will help you. Your goals will happen in the right time, just don't stop aiming for it. Just don't stop doing good. You will be fine. You will get there soon.

I made this blog for myself actually. I have been in a roller-coaster ride at present and I am sharing this to you just in case you need this message too.

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