Few days ago I have watched a video while I was scrolling through my newsfeed.
A man who was diagnosed with bipolar disorder one day decided to commit suicide by jumping off from the golden gate bridge.
As soon as he jumped off the cliff, he realized that he had done a great mistake but it was too late. As he hit the water very hard he broke his legs and unable to move his muscles.
When he is drowning inch by inch and regretting for his mistake a miracle happened.
Two sea lions saved his life that day. By watching that video I got inspiration to write something about this worst decision.
I've heard a lot of stories from the survivors of suicide attempt taker's that they realized they were doing the greatest mistake of their life.
Isn't it odd that a person only understand this when he was taken the worst decision of life.
Now here is my article is about before you take the worst decision of life please I beg you consider these things.
1) Will it solve everything or you just making your problems more complex.
No! This is not going to solve any of your physical,mental or economical problems. Suicide is not the solution you are thinking hence you just taking the worst decision of your life.
Whatever the problem you are drowned into , go through the key points again and again. Try to find out what really is bothering you?
Is everything your fault or are you responsible for the sufferings of yours? Just go through the questions and soon you'll realized that you've find more fruitful way to solve your problems.
2) Pay a visit to ICU ( Intensive care unit) before doing anything stupid
In ICU unit you'll find people in between life and death. You'll find people fighting with life and death in every second they pass there.
They don't wish for death rather they want to live another Day. If they are young they want to hug there loved ones once more. If they are older they want to experience the mesmerising fall another year.
In the ICU unit you'll find how people want to live another Day , another hour and another minute.
In the above circumstances how can you take the most stupid decision of your life? Only than you'll realize how much valuable a life is!
3) Do all of us living our life problem free?
If you think that you are the only victim of life you are wrong. Some people don't share their sufferings that doesn't mean they are living their life amazingly.
We, every single being,I can assure you not perfect and all have problems in their respective life. Do all of us take the stupid decision?
No we are not taking any decision rather we want to keep fighting until our last breath. Now if you don't find any reason to fight for anything ,focus on your life.
You are not fighting for anyone or anything instead you are fighting for your own soul, for your own life. Nobody matters in your life untill you know the value of your own existence.
4) We all have a purpose in our life to accomplish
Look we all have come to this earth not to just eat,sleep or to be failure or something. We all have a destiny and the ultimate purpose of our life is to fulfill our destiny by following the flow of life.
If I want to say more precisely say you can make people smile or you have this extraordinary ability to make a gloomy face a smiley one.
There are thousands of people out there who is in great distress or suffering from diseases eventually he would forget how to smile.
If you can make that person smile this will the greatest achievement of your life because you are destined to make a dark sad face to a everlasting smiley one.
Always remember that we all have purpose in our life and don't do anything stupid which will not let you complete your destiny.
5) Try to feel our mother's sacrifice
We passed almost nine month in our mother's womb. In this nine month all the mothers of the world fight everything for their child to make him see the daylight.
A mother would sacrifice everything even her life just to save her baby.
I've heard a lot of stories where mother failed to survive but the child survived. Now try to feel the mothers sacrifice and ask yourself a question what makes you take the stupid decision?
These are the five things we must consider before taking any rough decision.
I have a request if you see someone your friend who is in emotional trouble give him time.
All the countries have National Suicide Prevention Call Centre or toll free mental health counseling service If you see your friend is doing something stupid like call there and seek for help.
Let's live together strongly to watch the sunrise again tomorrow.
I am glad you wrote about this topic. It is really useful and nice written. I had a friend who commited suicide and this topic always makes me feel sad.