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How I get rid of public speaking phobia? Greetings! I hope you are having a wonderful day by the grace of lord and pray may lord keeps all of us safe from this ongoing pandemic. **In one of my last article I've shared about my teaching life experiences and I've also said I'll share how I did improve my public speaking ability.** I'm free now so it's the best time to write something. I'm quite sure if you are also a person who have fear of public speaking, you'll get some idea how to diminish the public speaking phobia.  I'm an introvert person and I love to keep everything in my self but my job is way different than myself. As a teacher I've speak continuously in front of my students sometimes with the parents too. If I don't know how to speak in public than it is expected that I'll be having a tough time in my job. So I've realised I should get over my public speaking phobia as soon as possible to give my best at my work. On the contrary if you are an introvert and if you are told to speak anything in public that it must be the worst night mare. But for the love of teaching, I did something to get over my speaking phobia. In rest of my article I'll share what are they, how did I do so and how much time did I take. **- When I'm at the stage, holding a microphone in my hand and all the students staring at me than I believe the only thing that can help me is my confidence.** I'm all alone in my stage. But it is my own confidence which will help me to deliver the best to my students.  You know there are thousands of videos about public speaking on YouTube. You can spend your entire life watching them but at the end of the day only thing matters is your confidence. You don't have to watch all the tutorials on public speaking because everyone will say the same thing.  Most importantly all the tutorial videos will tell you to grow confidence but will not tell you how to do so. So stop wasting your time on the videos, personally I also did the same.  You know yourself very well,don't you? You know where you get confidence, you know how you get confidence. Again not all of us gain confidence from the same thing. So there is a difference I'll tell you find your strong point.  If you ask me how did I manage all the confidence I'll proudly say my instincts helped me a lot. Besides to conduct a class I had to take lots of preparation. Sometimes I had to study more than my students. That way the great preparation I take, the more confidence I have. Now I'll suggest you to find your own personal way of finding self confidence.  **-I take all kinds of help from my mirror. You can find it interesting that how can someone talk with the mirror. Yes I did when I was a newbie.** First of all I take all the preparations before conducting the class. After that I go to my mirror and conduct the whole class in front of my mirror so that I don't miss any important points.  I do the same thing twice sometimes thrice to boost my confidence and to improve my speaking ability. Now I don't need to take "The mirror class" anymore because I think I've learned it enough. But if you are a newbie in terms of speaking in public than take "The mirror class".  Sometimes I put my phone on my table with the video camera on.Than I started to taking to my class. After taking the whole class I watch the video again and again. That's how I realise in which side I need to improve a bit. I think mobile video is more benefitting from the mirror classes. But I'll suggest you to take both of them and to see which suits you best. **- Public speaking is not only important for teaching rather nowadays it has whole lot of uses. I've understood that in today's world I've to talk continuously.** If I keep staying at home than nobody will give me job or anything like that. I have understood that I need to come out of myself and to talk with people as much as possible. This realisation worked as motivational force in me.  If you stay hungry and don't tell anybody about this than you've to continue starving. So you've to talk for the sake of your own self. That's how I gradually overcome my public speaking phobia.  **- Another thing is I've to talk with the parents about their children. So I've to analyse each children whether they are improving or not.** Than I've to give the report to the parents. In this matter specially, there is no scope to make mistakes. Because parents will take step according to my submitted report. So I make a note in my head what things I'll say to those parents. So when you are speaking in public just reassemble the ideas what you are going to say. Gather up your ideas, your words inside your head so that you don't miss anything.  As I've said when you are on the stage and holding a microphone than you are your own best companion. That is how I did it and I believe if you are an introvert person like me you'll also can do it.  **Trust me, public speaking is way much interesting and exciting if you can get rid of the phobias mainly.**

@Grammarian

Sharing my 2 years teaching experience and teaching stories Before the pandemic started, I was working as an English language teacher in a learning home. I was working there as a teacher for almost two years. But as for the pandemic everything remained closed so now I'm not able to conduct anymore classes. Hope is still there and when the situation improves I think I'll be able to conduct my classes again. So here I'll be talking about my 2 year teaching experience, things I've learned from my students, realisations as a teacher and more interesting facts. Undoubtedly teaching is the most interesting job and I'm very glad that I'm a part of a teaching community. When I was child, my school teachers inspired me. Though at that time I didn't think I'll be a teacher in future.But teaching always fascinated me and I found it interesting job. Yeah it's true teaching profession is sometimes tiresome.But when I look at my students I never feel that much tired. **-Every time when I entered into my class when my students wishes me that's the best feeling anyone can have.If you are also a teacher every time you walked into your institution you'll never feel lonely.** There will always be a student to wish you good morning. And at the end of the day you'll also see someone is wishing you good afternoon.  Imagine you are having a bad day and at that moment your student is wishing you good afternoon. Your mind will be refreshed surely.I've also experienced this beautiful wishes from my lovely students. **- 40 pairs of eyes are looking at you and giving their full attention to you.**  That's a different kind of experience as a teacher. When the class is full of students and they are staring at you and eagerly waiting for your words.In my childhood days public speaking was fearful. Talking to a number of people is not easy as it seems. So as a teacher I had to overcome my fears of public speaking. Though in my early teaching days I felt some problems like forgetting what to say, giving homeworks but day by day I overcome my fear. Now I'm confident enough to talk to any number of people , standing in front of them. If you are an introvert than you'll understand the problems of talking in the public. But as I've said you have to overcome your public speaking phobia specially for your students. So that you can give your best in the class room. If you ask me how I've overcome my public speaking phobia I'll say I've practiced, practiced and practiced at home. That's a different story I'll share my overcoming story also in my another article. **- As a teacher there is less chance to make mistakes so I've to be extra diligent about what I'm speaking and what I'm teaching.** Imagine as a teacher if you make a mistake all the students will do the same mistake. That means all 20 of them will do the same mistake. From that perspective I've to be extra careful so that my students doesn't commit any mistake. **- In our society getting good marks is important but understanding the subject is not.**  I've seen all my students run after getting good marks instead of learning the main topic. I've told them getting good marks is important but it doesn't mean you are skilled enough. When you are submitting your papers for a job they will test your knowledge. They will not just see your marks and hire you. So instead of running after good marks, try your level best to capitalise your learning.  I've also said that if you can learn any topic from your heart than good marks will run after you. If you can love your subject from the core of your heart than you don't have to worry about good marks. Good marks will love you back eventually.  When I was talking about this I've seen great response from them now they don't run after good marks only.They try to learn their topic from the core of their heart. **- When I walk alone or going somewhere when a student recognise me and say hello teacher I feel like I'm the most happiest person in the world.** This kind of lovely gesture is only visible from students when they love their teacher. I feel like all my students love me from their heart and you know that's more fascinating. Though my job is not permanent but in future I've dream of becoming a full time teacher. That's the job that attracts me superbly and hope this pandemic get over soon.

@Grammarian

Why you need to be consistent in your life? After today's lunch I've realised I didn't write any article for a long time so I thought of writing a article. Than another thought came to my mind what topic should I write on. Than a great life teaching, an inspiring story and basically a life story just came to my mind. So I thought of sharing my life story with you people what I've told my students about improvement in their studies.  Few days ago I've given them some homeworks to do but they as usual escaped their homework. So I asked why they didn't complete their homework? They said they didn't have time, they were too much sleepy blah blah. They are showing some stupid excuses to me so I thought I should teach them a new lesson today. So that from now on they don't dare to escape any homeworks.So what did I told my students? I told them to be consistent in their studies and I've explained why and how being consistent in something is really helpful.  **In my article I'll share everything about being consistent in life.** **-Let me give you an interesting example about this. Say you've food supply for ten days.You have to pass ten days with that exact amount of food.** So in that case what will you do to pass ten days?You'll eat only the required amount of foods to read. You'll not eat more that your requirement isn't it? Because you know you if you eat more than your needs than you have to starve a whole day. Now think for a while why I've given this kind of example?  This example is also applicable when you are learning or studying anything.You can't learn your whole syllabus overnight because we all know this is impossible for a student. So you have to study little amount every day instead of learning the whole topic overnight.That's what I'm talking about being consistency. You don't need to study 16-18 hours before the exam night if you study consistently from the starting of the semester.Just complete your small lessons every day what I've said be consistent. That's the same thing I've suggested to my wicked students. I've told them to complete their homework everyday so that they don't feel pressure before exam night.  **- That's the same thing is applicable for me personally too. See I didn't write any single article for a long time I didn't share any stories.** So personally I'm also inconsistent in my writing. What is the problem of my inconsistent writing?I've lost my motivation and laziness entangled my mind. If I continued my writing I'd have interacted with my audience, I'd got some new ideas, I'd get some entertainment because writing is my passion. All this things I've missed for my writing inconsistencies.  So one thing from my life experiences I can tell you no matter how good you write just try to be consistent. In that way you can always improve yourself and you can continue yourself improving.From my realisations I should also be consistent in my writing.I wish I could be able to be more balanced in my writing. **-Consistency is more like keep going, continuing walking on the path.We all know if we keep ourselves motivated we can achieve our goal**. So in that case you can also become successful.There is more chance to becoming successful if you keep continuing your journey. That's where again consistency appears. I've also told my students if they at least do there homework everyday more or less they can become more relaxed before the exam night. This is also a lesson for me and for my students too. Because both of us want to succeed in our life and I know you want to be successful in your life too. So be more consistent and be more balanced in your life. You will see success knocking at your door mark my words.

@Grammarian

Why I think constructive criticisms are blessings in disguise? After we've create something we show it to our friends, sometimes our closed ones to judge our works. We show our creations to them to make a comment about our works to tell us whether our works are good or not.This is where the part of criticism comes apart.  If we can define criticism it can be devided into two parts. One is criticism and the other part is constructive criticism. Putting apart criticism today I'll writing about why I think constructive criticism is important.  **In the later of my article I'll share how a good constructive criticism is really helpful and motivates the creator to create something more creative.** **In all my life I've gone through both criticism and oviously constructive criticism.** Criticism doesn't helped me honestly saying rather constructive criticisms from my friends helped me a lot to grow. It also helped me how to be more functional,constructive criticisms also taught me how to think differently.  **1)When you create something you'll see everyone is praising you but only some of your closed ones will tell you to improve.** They will not only tell but also show you in which sides you need to improve a lot. This is what we can call constructive criticism from our friends and closed ones.  **2)If your friends or closed ones tell you to improve on particular side that means you have some lacking.** Your everything thing is perfect but only one or two side is not perfect at all. So if you focus on the weak points mainly in that way you can get better results. Working on the weak sides that's when constructive criticism is really helpful again. **3)Constructive criticisms will give you more ideas to think differently, to work out of the box, to be unique in the middle of all other bunch of ideas.** But how? When someone is doing some constructive criticism on your works and most importantly if you can get those words seriously than you'll see a lot of new ideas are coming to your brain.  This is more like solving some mathematical problems, if you fall into a problem you'll try to solve it in a different way. Just like this if someone criticise your works that means your work has some problems.  And each time we fall into a problem it is like we are looking for solutions. When we are searching for solutions only this is when new ideas came. I think you've understand this criticism mechanism greatly. So next time when someone criticises your works don't complain man. He is giving you some free ideas to think differently, to act differently from the others.Just try to get his words and improve yourself on that way. **4)Some people have a very bad habit of criticisms. They can't take it as some random people is judging there works. But listen as long as you are creating something you are the owner of that project.**  When you've finished the work and showed it to people that the ownership goes directly to the people. You can't force people to like your works rather if your works are really that much good than people will love it. For example say you are making a red Ferrari toy car from unused items.You want to sell the red Ferrari cars to the kids or let's imagine you want to give the kids for free. But what if the kids are fond of black Ferrari toy cars? In that case you can't really force the kids to take the red car. So you've to reassemble all the materials and make a black Ferrari toy car.  **Just see what your buyer/ audience/ clients/consumers are wanting from you, what's their choice, what's their preferences.** Constructive criticisms works that way you can get insight into your audiences world. And you can tell what things they will like the most. So be nice to this kind of criticisms and do not overreact to those.  **5)And finally constructive criticisms are really helpful to get inside the audience.They are telling you what is right and what is wrong.** In a manner they are telling you what they prefer to be right. Just imagine if you really can get inside the critics if you are a buyer you can increase your sales to double. These are the findings from my life experiences , from my works and what I've observed in this years. We should grow the mentality to accept criticisms because ultimately they are blessings in disguise. **Don't disrespect the critics and don't get demotivated seeing the criticisms. These criticisms are made just to make you better, stronger than ever and to make you unique in the market.**

@Grammarian

After almost five months of free writing someone just acknowledged my writings. Guess who is that person to acknowledge my works? I'm very much grateful to you @Tupi for acknowledging myself. It's a inspiration, motivation and a working force. I'll continue to give my best on the writings here. ❤️

@Grammarian

Can we stop hating each other today? Love and hate, the two human emotions are same as truth and lie. Love is the opposite side of hate and hate is the opposite side of love that's how our everyday human emotions work. But my question is can stop hating people?If there is hate you'll find love on the opposite direction and same as love. So frankly speaking if we want to stop hating people than we have to go completely to the opposite direction where we'll find love.  But let's try to figure out some reasons why we humans hate each other? We all know that hating someone just because of some simple reasons like their colour is not good at all. Instead of knowing that this is bad but we do hate people. **So here are my findings about this human nature:** **1)We have the tendency to hate each other just because we think they are superior than us.** On the other hand we also hate people if they are inferior than us.So bringing superiority and inferiority between humans is a cause of people hating each other. If you look from a different perspective you'll see nobody is inferior nor superior.We all have red blood moving through our veins.We'll talk about this matter on the other part of my article. **2)Someone's look, colour, way they talk, way they walk, way they behave etc. are some reasons behind people's hating each other.** Yeah we all have different preferences we all have different choices but that doesn't mean we have to hate someone. Colour, look,face, way of talking is a reason. We know nobody chooses his colour at the time of his birth rather it was naturally created. So if you hate someone just because of their look it must be wrong. Now think again what I've said and if you've hated someone for their look or not. **3)Different way of thinking, different way of talking, different opinions are also a reason.** We want people to agree with us and we want people to give consent to our proposal. When they don't give it because of their differences that's when hate arises. We can't imagine that people surrounding us aren't agreeing with us. **4)When we were child some of our rogue elders taught us that some people are bad and to hate some people.** Than when we grow older we come to know that wasn't right at all. But some people never understand their childhood learnings weren't right.On the other hand a person cannot give up his childhood learnings so easily.So for the rest of his life he continued to hate someone. **5)Lack of mutual respect between each other sometimes resulting in hate.When there is no respect on something people started to hate.** If someone say **"X"** and your opinion is **"Y"** than don't engage in fight. Both of you have your own perspective of thinking, your own way of judgement let's respect each others point of view. Most of the time we hate each other because of some simple human nature as I've discussed on the point number two.If we go deep down than than I've found some other abstract reasons of hate someone. Now I've found out some reason and I've said love is on the opposite direction of hate.If there is hate, if you go directly to the opposite way you'll find this heavenly love. **To stop hating each other:** **1)First of all we need to stop going to the way where is hate.We all know hating someone is bad so why we'll go this way?** **2)Than we know there are seven billion people in this earth and there are seven billion choices. So there is chance of disagreement between two.** When any disagreement arises it's better to solve the disagreement without hating.You know hating will not bring anything rather it will bring distance. **3)Every single human being is different from each other so there must be difference of look, colour, race, way of talking etc.** Just take this difference normally you don't need to hate someone because of their physical attributes. **4)Let's try to not misunderstand each other and to respect each other.** Let's just believe if we could stay together irrespective of colour gender or ethnicity we can fight against all the odds. I've realised hating each other just push people away.Why spreading hate when we can spread love to the world?  **5)Just ask your conscience should you hate someone based on something he has nothing to do like his colour?** Just follow your conscience, follow it's moral values. Forget everything, ask yourself should you hate someone because you are not similar? Obviously you shouldn't because as a human there are dissimilarities. I know it's a tough task for us to give up our bad habit like hating someone or something because we have grown up that way. **But I'll request you humbly to reconsider the facts. Let's give up hate today, from this moment, from now.**

@Grammarian

Things I'd love to do as a wife! My dreams and imagination I'm 21 now and mathematically I have almost 6-7 years to get married.Though it's a long time from now and everything can change in between but why stop dreaming?  In one my previous writing I've shared about my dreamy love life. I've shared what kind of person I dream in my life , what kind of preferences we should have etc. None of us in this entire universe are perfect but if we stay together, put out hands together can make is perfect than ever. Like I've some weaknesses and strong sides. On the other hand my person may have some weaknesses and strong sides. **If we can collaborate perfectly with each other we can make our bond more strong.We can be perfect in the most perfect way.I think this should be the basic rules of engagement with someone.** This writing is you can say a personal diary where I'll be sharing my imagination, my dreams and my promises to the person I love. In my writing I've imagined myself as a married person. It'll be very much interesting both for me to write and to read. In my writing I'll pretend myself as a married wife.  I know there are a lot of writers like me who is married.It'll be very much interesting to read your experience from this point of view as a married person. When I come to know that being married is a part of life where you'll be able to pass your entire life a person beside day.From that day I've imagined my dream person and my days with him.  **So here are the things I'd love to do as a married woman these will be super exciting.** **I'll tell him to save something at least a little amount of money from our monthly expenses.I dream of person who have the same interest for travelling.** With our savings we'll try to travel at least one time in an individual month.Travelling is a bit costly experience besides we'll be needing time to do that. I'd love to travel a lot with my dream person. This is more like a dream this is like an sensational event that is going to happen. A single travel experience can be so much romantic that'll be super pleasing both for mind and life.We'd love to visit both seas and hills.I've the same amount of love for the seas and hills. **No matter when my husband comes back from work I'll stay awake till he comes home.Than we'll take our dinner.Dinner at the family table with all the members can be so much relaxing, entertaining and interesting.** Life is too much uncertain and I don't want to miss a single dinner with my loved ones. So that I don't have to regret for the things I didn't accomplish. On the other hand in every dinner table there is story, there is song, there is happiness, there is sadness it's type of mixed feelings. No matter what the time, situation I'll wait for his come back and take dinner altogether. **I'll try my level best to keep him close in the rainy days.Just imagine a moment you and your loved ones, having a cup of hot coffee beside a glass window and watching the rain drops falling from the sky, talking about the things of life.** Can you imagine how much romantic it would be?In every kind of weathers I love the rainy seasons most.I dream of a person who has the same amount of feelings for the rainy season.Though we may have different choices but I don't think it'll be a problem for us. Now let me ask you a question about being beautiful. What makes someone more beautiful than ever? I don't know how but any sleeping face is more adorable than a normal face. Now suppose your loved ones are sleeping and try to imagine how beautiful he/she will be look at. **To enjoy the beauty every single day I'll try to wake up early at least before him.** I'll try to wake up before my loved one just because to enjoy the beauty of a sleeping face. **Pull the curtain and the golden sun beams are falling into face of your loved ones. Ahh!! Just imagine how much beautiful the sun beams will make your loved ones?** We'll have discussions after discussions for every single decision. Because I believe if I share my thoughts to my loved ones and my loved ones shares his thoughts to me in thus way we can make an organised and working decision. Because in life every decision is crucial and if you take it with responsibly you can make it an accurate one. Now I'd love to hear from you mostly your imaginations if you aren't married yet like me.If you are married than what was your expectations and did your expectations fulfill or not. This will be a great point of experience sharing. I'm looking forward to hear from you, your expectations, your achievements and dreams.

@Grammarian

Why do we lie when we know it's a sin? **Truth and lie has always been an irresistible part of our day to day life.** Actually they are with us from the starting day of our civilization. It can be said that if there are any single human exist there must be truths and there must be same amount of lies. Truth and lies are like two side of a single coin. If there is truth there must be lie you can be so much sure about that. Now my question is why there is lie? We all know that telling lies is a sin and we teach our children's not to tell a lie. But we do and our children's also tell a lie. It's so hard to find a person who never told a single lie in their entire life. But my question is why we tell lie when we know that telling lie is not permitted telling lie is a sin as well. **You've also told lie at least once in your life.We've , they've, he have ,she have we all have told lie but we also know that telling lie is an offence.I've also told lie and I confess that. But my question is why?** I've tried to seek the answer personally and I've also studied peoples mind.I've also tried to observe people's emotions when they are telling lie from a close point of view.  So here my writing will be emphasize on the question I've asked earlier why do we tell lie.Here are my findings about people I've observed. Though these are not scientifically proven just my observations but observations are first step towards bigger knowledge. **1)People have the tendency to tell lie just they want to escape the truth.**They have a fear if the truth comes out than other people will come to know their inner self. On the other hand they don't want the truth to come out that's the simple reason I've found out. They don't want people know who they really are and may be there is something wrong with the truth. That's why they want to hide it. **2)Secondly I've found out telling lie is an interesting sport of some people. Yes you've heard it right there are some people who tell lies just because they think it's more funny than telling the truth.** They tell lie because they want some entertainment. I've found this kind of people around me and I'm quite sure if you look around you'll find this kind of interesting lier around you. In the morning they woke up telling lies and at night they went sleep telling lies. They are like professional lier.If you've this type of people in your friend list than its high time to let go them. **3)Believe me or not there are some people exist whose profession is telling lie.They earn money from it.But how is this possible right?** If you look around the motivation speakers around you, you'll found out what I'm talking about. Giving motivation to people is really helpful to the person who needs it.But why do we have to lie when we are motivating people? You'll see most of the motivational speakers talk as if being successful is just a matter of penny.They'll tell you if you have one penny today you can become Elon musk tomorrow.Seriously man? Honestly I don't take motivation from the motivation speakers rather every single thing around me, every single people around me motivates me the best. **4)People lie just to ruin someone's happiness ,to make any situation more worse, to take advantage of a particular situation and they don't want to prove themselves guilty.** If you have a jealous friend who is always jealous about you, your success and your life there is possibility your friend will lie about you. They will spread any kind of rumour,fabricated news just to insult you. It's similar to the point some people tell lie just because they wan to take advantage of a situation. On the other hand some people lie because they know if they tell the truth they'll in a great problem. They have committed something wrong and they don't want to disclose it that's why they lie. **5)Our society is developed in a way if we tell the truth we'll be punished but if we skip the truth we'll be rewarded.** So that's why people become less interested to tell the truth.Who wants to tell lie? Nobody because we all know telling lie is a sin.But you'll always see there are some people who will always pressurise other to tell lie. **6)Lack of honesty is also a big reason of telling lies.** These days we become to much dishonest we don't care about the truth.We have the tendency to tell lie for our own personal benefits. **If you want to learn some interesting things about people telling lies you can read it from here:** https://www.factinate.com/things/43-unbelievable-facts-lies-deception/ Most of the time we lie because truth tastes bitter everytime.People can't bear the truth that's why people choose lie over truth. **These are my findings most importantly my observations about people's tendency to tell lie. What do you think about my observations?Are you finding my observations relatable with your life?**

@Grammarian

Pursuing study in this pandemic! My personal stories! If I'm not wrong most of us here are students mainly. I'm also a student like you though our study life is greatly hampered due to this pandemic but I'm quite satisfied at least online classes are going on. Though there is a difference between online classes and real life classes but we have to comply with the rules, regulations and new normal situations. But I'm quite happy about that because at least I'm not stuck in between my studies ,in my years. Though it's too hard to keep pace with the online classes but I'm quite satisfied with my studies. So here I'll be writing about my study life in this pandemic. **How I'm studying,preparing myself for the upcoming exams and my overall study.I'm sharing this just to let my fellow friends here know how to keep going from my perspectives.** Because one day this pandemic will be gone for sure we'll have to come back to normal life. So my question is are we prepared enough to get back into the normal life especially in the normal study life?  **•I choose night times for studying because I think night time is hundred times better than day time.**You know as a student,pursuing study is the ultimate duty.So no matter what is happening around us we have to keep studying.We can get rid of academic exams only when we complete graduation. Till than we have to pursue our study. So why I've selected night times basically? Because      **•Night times are relatively relaxing, silent, less chaotic and I can give my full attention to my study at night.To study perfectly a less chaotic environment is much needed.**Only nights can ensure a quality environment.Those who are living in the urban areas will know how much chaotic urban areas in daytime. It became so hard to put attention in the midst of these problems.If you are also a student like me and wanted this kind of less chaotic time you can study at night or plan according to your schedule. Just search for a time when there will be complete relaxation.    **•There are some people who loves to disturbs others without any logical reason. Sometimes when you've set up your mind to study you'll see suddenly a friend of yours just knocked you to go outside/to play games/to gossip etc. But it doesn't mean he/she is not studying.** He has already completed his study simply he wants to harm your studies.These type of persons should be avoided. I've seen a lot of persons who disturbs others especially when studying without any valid reason. At night these people become busy with themselves and didn't get the time to disturb others. Most importantly I threw away my phone when I'm into studying.I don't want to be distracted by any stupid notification because mobile phone is great distracting thing. In night when I feel super sleepy I do some extra things to keep me awake. This will be helpful for you too if you want to study at night or have some extra works at night to keep you awake. First of all every single time I feel sleepy I wash my face with cold water.Not ordinary water I said cold water. When water drops fall from my face I feel like sleep is washing away. Some may prefer coffee but coffee doesn't work on me. It's works on me from a different way.I feel more sleepy after taking coffee. So I had to choose alternatives.Besides cold water I used to walk on my room. Standing beside the window that's when the cold air refreshes my body and my sleep just went away. All these things gives me another one hour to study. •I've to mention one more thing. **You may be a night worker like me but don't forget to sleep 6-8 hours at least.** Sleep is also a mandatory thing in our life and we can't deny that. You just need to reassemble your daily life. • **I can also remember more things when I'm studying at night comparatively day time.**As there are less sound so the words that enters into my mind never fade away. •**Besides night time there are also very good time to study.You can memorise more if you study at that time.I can say that because I've experienced** **that.** Say you've enough sleep at night now wake up early in the morning.Just before the sun set and study at that time. When I was child my mother used to say this is the best time to pursue study. Now I'm older and I feel yes my mother was correct.  **Let me know when you feel good to study or what is your preferable time to study?** Let's see do we have any similarity or not. Ha ha! • **Lastly this was also my mother's advice from my childhood.She used to say if I find anything hard to memorise I should write the topic ten times.** She also said it is way better than reading. Writing helps more to memorise a complex topic.I don't know if there any scientific reason or not but it's helps me greatly. I just write down the topic which I'm having trouble to memorise.After writing few times I see it is really helpful.  Also let me what things you do to memorise any topic.This will be both helpful for the fellow students like us. **So that's it as I've said earlier as student studying is the fast and foremost duty. So no matter what we have to give our hundred percent in the reading table!**

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The heavenly love life:I dream about I was super busy with my friends in the last couple of days so I didn't find the time to write articles here. Though my head is loaded with tons of writing ideas but to expression them in writings I needed time. But time has an expensive thing for me. Here I'll be sharing an interesting thing I've felt when I was with my friends. Yesterday I along with my friends went out for a lunch in a local restaurant.We had also plan to try a local dish because it's been so long since we met. Everything has done we were cheering, gossiping, laughing and tasting the food.Than an wonderful thing happened with me.These days all the restaurants have musical arrangements. I was hearing an wonderful song and I was like I know all the lyrics but couldn't remember the song name. After listening for a while I come to know it's the song of Christina Perri.This is a famous song of Christina Perri which name is thousand years. Than an interesting thing happened inside my mind. I was imagining how much adorable my love life would be. I was wondering about the things I'll get in my love life. So this article is my imagination about my love life.Though I'm not in love but these things I cherish the most in my love life. 1) There are almost 7 billion people in the whole universe but none of us are super perfect. Everyone of us weaknesses, flaws and imperfections.But to be in love it doesn't matter whether you've weaknesses or imperfections. I dream of a person who'll not prioritize the weaknesses,flaws and my little imperfections.Rather who'll love me along with my incapability and inabilities.  2)I dream of person who'll not treat me based on my colour,my age, how I look, how much money I make or how much valuable resources I have. It doesn't matter actually if you are in true love. Every person in this globe are beautiful but to find the inner beauty you also need to a good pair of eyes. Money? Does it really matters to love someone?Is he loves you or your money? Money is just a temporary piece of papers but two good souls are permanent. 3)I dream of person who can make a strong of promise of not giving up, who'll not let go my hand whatever the situation is. If we die, we'll die together holding our hands and if we live, we'll live together till dawn to dusk.Personally I don't want to lose my dream persons hand for any reason. If someone holds my hand it's gives me strength, courage,bravery and heroism.So I dream of person who'll not let go of my hands and we'll fight together till our last breath. 4)In this world you'll not find any person who is selfless.Though all of us are selfish but there are some people who thinks beyond themselves. That's why the world is mesmerising.I dream of a person who'll be that much selfless both towards love and towards all the people around. At least my person will not think only for himself rather think for love and humanity.That's the kind of person we all dream off but some super lucky people got one. 5)I just don't want anything from my love I just want my love will keep me happy all the time. You may not have a job, you may not have good salary, you may not a strong economical foundation. At the end of the day if you have someone who can make you smile this will be greatest gift anyone can dream of. A lovely smile will simply melt all the tiredness and so on. No amount of money can make you smile but some good words from your lover can. Ha ha these are my imaginations about my love , about my dreamy person. Who knows what God has written in my luck but I know he is the best match maker and will gifted me with the best partner. So what about your dream person let me know.May God fulfill all our wishes about love.

@Grammarian

5 vast knowledge I've gained from the movie "Life of pi" Have you watched the movie "Life of pie" played by great actor Irfan Khan?This is one of the must watch movie and highly recommended especially if you want to learn something about your life, philosophy and reality. Some movies are not only a movie rather they are the mirror of life.If you can really get into those kind of movies you'll feel the dip ocean of thoughts inside your head. Every time I watch the movie "Life of pie" I feel like that's the first time I'm watching.  Story, dialogue, acting, characters, dramatical presentation all the elements of this movie are perfect. Irfan Khan, the great actor who died recently, fighting with cancer for a long time. This was a great creation of Irfan Khan.May this great actor's departed soul rested in peace and God blessed him with the highest place in heaven.Sending prayers for his departed soul. Now I'm telling you the most important things I've learnt from the movie Life of pie.Though I've watched the movie for over 10 times to be exact but every time these life lessons reminds me everything of my life. -**Life is all about letting go of every moments, every simple things about us and time. But instead of running after life forever we should stop for a moment to say goodbye to all the memories.** Breaths I've exhaled when I'm writing this article,I'll never get those back.Every seconds I've passed when I'm writing this article I'll never get those back. When I was thinking of writing a new article about the life teachings those times I'll not get back. So here I'm trying to say everything is going and we are letting go every thing.As I've said life is all about letting go everything but we should stop or we should take a break. Why? We should take a break to say goodbye to all the moments that passed away.We should be grateful to life for the things we have in our life. So when it is passing away we should stop and thank it from the core of heart.If you start thinking what I've just felt you'll soon drown into big ocean of thoughts. The same feeling I've felt when I was watching the movie. Its better to watch one great movie in a month rather than watching tons of less knowledge movies. -**Sometimes blessings may come to you unknowingly, unexpectedly and silently.** You are complaining about your life why you are not getting anything you've wished before.But everything as we know happens for an ultimate reason. Without the perfect time you'll get the thing you've wished. You'll never know when you'll get those but be certain that you'll get.Because blessings always come unexpectedly and silently.  When we were child in the Christmas events we get unexpected gifts from Santa Claus.At that time when we were child we knew we have to wait until the Christmas. Sometimes our parents gifted us with our favourite things we have wished.This is true in our elders life situations too. If we have strong faith over something,no matter how cruel the reality is we will get the rewards of our faithfulness. -**God is watching us when we are happy.He is also watching us when we are sad too.God is omnipresent in both happiness and sadness.** He watches us knows all but he has also a plan.It's too difficult to understand God's plan for a simple man like us. -**If nobody is with you still you are not alone.You can't be alone nor in the middle of a ocean not in the desert.You'll always be accompanied by your inner self.**  In the movie,when the whole family embraced a ship wreck,the boy named pie was totally alone in the middle of ocean with a Bengal Tiger. Now imagine yourself at that place you are all alone.But my question is are you really alone the answer is absolutely no. You are accompanied by your conscience no matter where you are and how much distressed you are. These highlighted things I've learnt from the movie. These literally changed my way of thinking and my perspective about life.If you ask me to rate the movie than I'll rate it 10 out of 10. Though the whole movie is in English language but sometimes there are some Hindi words too.You'll find movie subtitles online.Subtitles are necessary to get the words. So I'll suggest you to watch the movie with subtitles or in your own language. You'll find the subtitles in Google, just type the movie name subtitles. Like this "Life of pi English subtitles" **To get the subtitles from Finnish language to French language you can use this.Don't forget to bookmark this site as this is super enriched in movie subtitles.** https://yifysubtitles.org/movie-imdb/tt0454876 Now I'd like to hear what you've learnt from the movie after watching actually. **You can also read the movie review on rotten tomatoes from here:** https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/life-of-pi/reviews

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2 exotic and unique birthday wish idea of mine It's been another six days I haven't write any single any words here.Writing is like expressing my thoughts to you as I am not writing I was feeling my inside was filled with so much words. So again I'm at the table to write about something special today,something very interesting and exciting. Birthdays are an important events of our life especially when we receives wishes from our loved ones. When we wish someone a happy birthday we always try to make it a special one and a most unique one don't we?On the other hand our loved ones expects also same kind of unique wishes from us. We try our heart and soul to wish our beloved persons a happy birthday in a most unique, exiting, interesting and exotic way.But when we are searching for any idea we feel like we don't have any ideas which is unique as well as exotic. So here I'll be writing about some special birthday wishing ways of mine. All these ideas are generated by me and I've used them on various occasions. Believe me or not my loved ones becomes super astonished getting those kind of wishes.So I'm sharing my exotic ideas here so that you can also astonish your beloved ones in just a blink of an eye. **1)A candle light birthday wish with happy birthday song playing from the behind** This wish can be done both online and offline as we know there is a pandemic situation going on. If your loved ones are not with you so that you can wish by taking a video of the whole wish. If you are lucky you have your loved ones in front of you than you can do it right in front of her.If you are making video than place the video camera in front of the candle lights. Now I'm telling you step by step process of this wish. 1) First of all turn off the lights make your room dark. 2) If you know how to play guitar or harmonica that would be super awesome.Your guitar tunes will add more emotions to the wish.If you are playing happy birthday tune on guitar than no need to play it in the sound box.  3) Assemble the candles in a way like if you are celebrating 2 years anniversary than assemble the candles like a big "**2**".So when you'll light them up a big "2" will be visible right in front of you. 4)If your loved ones are in front of you than say nothing just start playing your guitar and start singing the happy birthday song in the dark room. When you finish than light the candles one by one in a systematic way. 5)After finishing lighting up all the candles, than hold his/her hand or hug him/her and wish "**Happy birthday/ Happy anniversary"**. Personally I've wished my brother these way and when I've done he was like oh my god I've never seen such heart warming wishes in my entire life. So if you are searching for an unique and exotic idea to wish you loved ones you can oviously try this. I can assure you you'll receive tremendous amount of love from the opposite site. **Now when birthday or anniversary people's love to blow down the candle but have you noticed I've lighten up the candles?**There is a interesting reason behind this. **It's your birthday or anniversary and this is not the end of your love or friendship rather it's an another begining in your life.So to begin something why you won't light up the way?** Think differently from the people ,only than you'll be considered as unique. it's an another begining in your life so don't make it look dark. **2)If you are wishing someone who is not right in front of you or living abroad or living away than try this.** Than you need send a video wish you can't do more than that but make this video wish a creative one. Here what I've thought about the video birthday wish. 1) Place your phone in a place where your face is seen perfectly. 2)Again light up a candle by singing the happy birthday song. 3)When you finished singing than start talking about some special things about him/her.Like what you could have done if he/she was with you? **How much you are missing the days you've passed together?** Just deliver the special words in the video so that your video wish has become so rich in emotions. 4)Than add a most favourite song of his/her in the video and send it exactly at 00:00 AM. Now wait for the reaction of him/her I bet he'll just love it. Oh let me add one more thing If you want to send a birthday cake with written name of his/her than you'll love to hear that there is a site for this purpose. There are tons of cakes designs just choose one and write his/her name than download it. If your loved ones prefer a vanilla cake than choose a vanilla cake write her name on it and send it. If your loved ones aren't with you than this idea will be super helpful. Here I've given my three idea of super exotic birthday wish ideas of mine.I thought and thought to get the most unique ideas. **After thinking many a times I was able to generate those ideas and I hope my ideas will warm your loved ones heart.**

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5 important traits of fake friends I've seen so far! **After our birth when we take the first breath from that moment we start learning about our life.** We learn to distinguish between evil and bad, happiness and sorrow to true and false.  Though at a point of time we realize things we used to believe true is false. And sometimes the thing also happens which is very interesting. We consider something is false but at the end we find ourselves that we were wrong and that false thing is absolutely true. I'm a learner ,you are a learner and we all are learner. We continuously learning life in every moments of our life and we will continue to do so till our last breath and that is what life meant to be. But as I've said though we are learning the basics of life we made mistakes when we try to implement them in real life.  But there are still some people who took important decisions based on their past life learnings and experiences.I've said all the above words just to give you an idea about what is the main theme of my article.  As I've mentioned earlier we learn to distinguish between fake and true from our childhood today I'll sharing my thoughts and experiences about distinguishing true and fake friends.  Here in my article I'll share the traits and characteristics of fake friends based on what I've learned from my life. But first let me say something about fake friends because this is the main theme of my writing. There is a proverb you may have heard about "fake friends". The proverb is something like it is surely good to have known and familiar enemy rather than a fake friend. **What we have learned from this proverb is it is good to have known enemy because you know your enemy very well.** **You know his strong sides and weak sides but what if you have a fake friend acted like a true friend.** In that case you'll never know who is that enemy, how you are betrayed by and how much damage he may have done to you. A fake friend is a dangerous creature you'll ever meet in your life.  **I've seen some fake friends in my life but they failed to do any harm to me because I know the characteristics of fake person and I caught them red-handed.** So if you already faced similar kind of situation like me or want to avoid fake friends in future you can follow my learnings about denoting fake friends. **1)First trait of fake friend is he will be with you at your good times when you have everything in your life but once you lost something, once you fall into any kind of troubles you'll never see their face again.**  Have you felt this kind of consequences in your life when your so called friends just vanished when you need them most. I've seen this many times and now I know where I can get some help and who'll be vanished. If you ever in any kind of troubles just keep your head cool and see who is at your side and who just vanished without helping you.  **2) Another biggest trait of fake friend is they are money and riches lover.** You'll see who have a lot of money in your friend list have a lot of friends.True and real friends will love you not for your money or riches you have.  Rather they will befriend with you for your other qualities like making someone laugh.Fake friends are like "**moneyholic**" persons, the more you can give them the more you'll have them. You'll be surrounded by them but once you lost your riches you'll not be able to find a single person beside you. So when you are making friend with someone look closely the reason of friendship.  **3)They have the tendency to ignore your sufferings, sorrows.** More like they will not listen to your inner feelings when you need the most and most of the time will fail to provide you with any good suggestions. Now let me ask you a question when someone fails to provide good solutions of a problem? The answer is pretty simple when you don't care about the problem and when you don't have any interest in that context. It's an important trait to determine a fake friend whether he cares about your problems or not. If he/she doesn't care about your sorrows than leave the person right away cause why you'll stay with them where you have no value?  **4)You'll be sharing your everything from your day to day life affairs to personal affairs but that "fake friend" have no interest about sharing themselves.** On the other hand sometimes you'll see they are making fun of your personal affairs in public what you've shared with him.  **5)They will try everything to hide their selfishness but if you are a good observer you'll be able to catch them.They will were a camouflage to hide their selfishness directly.** They will act like they are the most compassionate person in the whole universe itself.But everything is fake presentation of friendship. So when making a friend observe them very closely but don't let them feel you are noticing their selfishness. You don't need to be Sherlock Holmes to observe someone's fake characteristics, just look, think and analyse his day to day behavioural patterns. Personally and honestly in my 20 years of life I've faced all kinds expertise in my life so I know almost everything about them. Since I know the dangers of having fake friends, I try my heart and soul to avoid them. **Because having no friends is thousands times better than having a single fake friend.**

@Grammarian

How I'm fighting with depression for the last 1 week **Its been almost 5-6 days I haven't written any single words.Well actually I'm going through some depressive episodes.** Those who have previously dealt with depressions may already know how painful these times are.  You'll feel hungry but you'll not want to eat anything. It's a feeling like you'll want to talk a lot but as soon as you start talking you'll run our of words.  **Depression is not a joke,I don't know why some people make fun of depressions. I've seen those who are too much emotional like me fall into depression too easily.** If you are having these kind of issues like me you'll know how painful these moments are. Though I'm not fully recovered yet I thought I should continue my writing just to escape from depression. **Here in my article I'll share with you what things I'm doing to escape from depressive episodes also how I'm dealing with depression.** If you are a depressive prone person like me this will be very helpful for you. Cause its true that only those can feel the real hardships who has already gone through depressions. Other people will just make fun and instead of helping they will just leave someone alone. As your friend I'm sharing what actually I'm doing to get over this kind of hard situations of life. **-As I've already passed a week, I'm feeling very heavy from the inside.** I'm feeling like I can't take it anymore without expressing my inner feelings.So I decided I should write. If you are also a person with heavy heart, take your pen and paper and start writing.  Yes I know you'll not feel like writing, your hand will become numb but you should move on just like I did. I pushed my body out of my bed and started writing. I've expressed all my sufferings, pains and everything through my writing. Cause our world is too much busy ,the people are twice busy.You'll not find anybody to talk to you easily when you are depressed but your pen and notepad will accompany you anytime you need. The people, instead of providing accompany, instead of listening to you will sometimes make fun of you. I've also this kind of experiences so I chose to share my sufferings with my notepad. No matter what the time is it will listen to me attentively. **-Every time I sit on the dining table I talk to my mother.** Our mother is the greatest gift from the creator Almighty and my mother is the amazing person I've ever seen in my entire life. When those depressive moments were coming back to me again and again, I talk to my mother.Each time I talk to my mother I feel like my heavy heart is melting second by second. So if you are going through depressions like me, talk to your mother or somebody supportive like your mother. This one hour talk or dinner table talk will help surely trust me, it has worked on me. **- Each time when I recirculating in depression I talk to my mind and say hey there be strong.** So when I'm writing this article I told myself please push forward dear. Look if you continue to lie down in your bed nothing will change and I've felt this from the core of my heart. There is nobody who can help me if I don't help my own self.Nobody can make you happy if you can't make your own self happy so this is the thing I thought of and I believed.  I know it's too hard to walk alone but once you push, you'll continue to push forward.Just gather some energy and try to pull off the black clouds of depression. Again I'm not fully recovered yet but as I'm writing this means I am on the way of recovering. So if you ever fell into this much depression like me just tell your self to push forward,to have courage, to believe.  I'm doing everything to change my focus form the depression like watching movie, singing songs sometimes I watch cartoon like children's do. You'll not believe it but each time I fall into depression I go back to my childhood. Whatever you do just try to move your focus away from the darkest days.I'm trying my heart and soul just to move my focus away because I've understood that if I continue being like this,I'll become sick. I should not become sick and I can't. These are the methods I'm trying and I've shared my words with you. All these are just to let you know if you are also going through depression how you can also get rid of this. **May Almighty gives all of us greater strength and courage to bear the pain in our life.**

@Grammarian

5 techniques I use to get the money back from ungrateful persons! **Whenever any of our friends wants money from us as a grant or loan we are obliged to help our friends.** Because this is a kind of humanitarian duty to help our friends at distress. We may not have enough money to provide that kind of financial support but we often try our level best to help them.  When they take money from us they say will give the money back as soon as possible. Cause none of us that much rich. Providing loans or supporting someone financially and when they are able to give back the loan they give it back. That is the simple mechanism of giving and taking loans.  **How loans work or how it should be worked let's see:**  ****First step:**** I need some money to renovate my house. So I go to my friends house and asked him to lend me some money. ****Second step:**** If my friend have enough money he'll provide me with loan. ****Third step:**** After taking the money from him, I finished renovating my old house.Now I need to give the money back to my friend as soon as possible. **Because he may need the money for another cause. So when I get salary,I gave the money which I take it from my friend.** Everything is all right till now but there are some people who takes loan or grants money from someone but never gave it back. Have you ever fall into this kind of situation in your life? Your friend wanted money from you ,you gave him but many years have been passed in between. **So what will you do if you fall in this kind of situation? You've lend someone money but he is refusing to give back your money.** **My article will emphasize on this bad side of human nature. We took help but forget we shouldn't be doing this.** I'll share some tricks I've used personally to get my money back from this kind of persons. If you lend someone money whether the amount is and if he is not giving you back then you may try my methods. **1)First of all when we are talking about money we have to be technical and intelligent enough.** Money is a thing that have the ability both to create a relationship and also to destroy a relationship. In that case it can ruin our friendship so easily. So our main task will be how to get back the money without ruining our friendship. Cause whatever the amount is friendship should be the first priority. Money is temporary in this world it will come and go but once we lose a trusted friend we may not get the trusted friend again. So be super intelligent when you are dealing with this kind of situation. Like when you are providing loan make everything clear to your recipient. Make sure you note down every detail like when you've provided the loan and when he'll give it back.  **2)Secondly you need to be straightforward and less shy person.**  You are technical and intelligent now after passing few months ask your friend to give back your loan. If you feel to ask directly use some common words or tell him the reason why you badly need the money. Say something like you are buying a gift for your wife and you need that money because you don't have any savings left.When you are showing a reason always show the best and true reason possible. If you lie and if your recipient caught you than again you'll face delay. So be honest about your reason and show him a logical true reason.This will increase the chance of getting back your money I can assure you. **3) Do not force anyone to give back your money.** This is a great mistake you should not be doing when you dealing with this kind of situation with anyone in your life. Again I'm telling you forcing someone to give back your money will increase toxicity between your relationship. As I've said earlier money has the power to build a strong relationship and also ruin a perfect relationship. So don't ruin your relationship by forcing someone.  Not only this by forcing someone you may make the situation more complicated than usual. My mother always says when it the matter of money you need to be technical rather than showing your muscle power. **4)Before asking him to give back your money give him at least 7-10 days.** Cause he may not have the money in his hands. In this 10 days he'll be able to manage the fund. You can say like this "hey friend I need to go to college for some official tasks on semester final after 10 days. So I need the money. It will better for me if you can provide me with the money I gave you earlier." As you've give him some time, if he is truly a good person he will manage your money in this 10 days.  Before asking to give back your money give him some time to arrange everything. In that way you are maintaining a good relationship as well as getting back the money. **5)Mention things like the time of giving back and how you will take it back everything when you are dealing.** This will lessen the complications for both the recipient and the giver. Helping friends in need is the perfect example of true friendship.But there are some people who forget that we have helped him in the past and do not give the money we've provided him earlier. **My techniques will be applicable hopefully for both good friends and those bad mannered person who don't value friendship.**

@Grammarian

Bookmark these 3 super useful websites I've seen so far and thank me later! **I, your everyday learning friend @Grammarian came back with not only an interesting but informative article.** The informative websites I'm sharing today, I know you are searching for this kind of websites for a long time. You are searching for some sites where you can get your personal questions answered aren't you? Some of us feel problems asking problems with someone in real life and I know that. Moreover there is possibility that the question you are asking to the person, he may not know it. **Besides we may have some personal questions as I've mentioned before which we feel hesitated to ask someone.** So I'm sharing an website which an open book of answers for all shorts of questions. **Whenever I need to know some answers and don't find any answers I ask my question to that website and I just get my questions answered.** This all knowing website name is quora.com .Some of you may have heard the name before and some didn't. But now as you know that there is a website for all shorts of questions this will be very helpful for you.  As a teacher sometimes I need to face some problems regarding English lessons. You know teachers need to learn ,they need to study just like the students. Sometimes teachers need to study more than their students to conduct a perfect class. Whenever I face any questions I get the answers directly form this site.  **Now let me tell you a little about how this website really works or how can you get your answers?** When you enter into the website on the first page you'll see a dialogue box to write your questions. You just need to write your questions there and wait to get your questions answered. This website is super rich in knowledge that most of the time you already have the answers if you just scroll through. There are some super volunteering people who gave their valuable time just to get your questions answered.On the other hand you can also help someone by answering their questions.  When you answer someone's question and when someone is answering your questions than a great interaction take place. **Here are other features you should know:** **1)When you log in you'll see some topics.You'll need to select topics according to your preference. The benefit is when you scroll through you'll see only your favourite topics questions.** **2)There are personal spaces where people gather by to answer a certain topic.** **3) In the search button you just need to write your question than wait.This amazing website will serve you with the best answers.** No matter how ridiculous , complicated or stupid question you have. This is what I've mentioned previously.  If we ask someone a question they may ignore your questions saying this is a stupid question.But in quora you'll get the respect and this is the best thing I've seen so far. I want to thank the creators of this website for this amazing learning place. They cover every areas from day to life to educational questions. You just need to ask quora will do the rest. **Here is my second most useful website where I've learned so many things.**  If you simply search something on Google by typing "**How to do certain type of things..."** the first result may come wikihow.com for their enriched storehouse of knowledge. **Let me tell you an interesting story about how I come to know about this website few years back.**  **I was about to travel to my relatives house.The duration was just two days so I fall into dilemma about bag packing and all the travel related stuffs.** **Than I found out how to complete this kind of short durations tours perfectly from this website.**  On wikihow you'll get all kind of problems solutions which I'm assuring you.They will provide you step by step instructions on every day problems. Here everything is ready just follow the instructions and get your problem solved. They cover a lot of "How related questions..." and you'll be amazed looking at the category. **From arts and entertainment to foods and health, from hobbies to relationship related problems,from home and gardening to travel everything is in one place.** **I just fall in love with the website just for their diversified category system.**  As the website is superbly categorised so finding the solution is too much easy.You'll also see some expert reviewed answers which increases the accuracy.  **And my third website is about how to check if your writings are plagiarized or not.** Site link: duplichecker.com There is a website which checks your writing for free and show you sentence by sentence result.  If you are a writer just like me, you'll never want your article to be plagiarized.Besides there is some self-satisfactions of owning something and creating something unique. To check your writing you just need to paste your writing in the dialogue box and than push the blue button named "Check plagiarism".  **Than just relax they will scan through your writing and show you whether your writing is unique or not.**  **Here you can see my article is 100% unique and I am the owner of this article.** This is the satisfaction of creating something no one else did. Here is the website link: Internet is undoubtedly an interesting and learning heaven but you just need to know which website is providing you the best answers.

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The 4 wishes we all have! Some of us achieved,some yet to achieve! We all have particular cherishes, desires, wishes, dreams and we all try to accomplish them in our life. There is no single being in this earth who doesn't have any dreams though it can be little or big. On the other hand you may think someone's dream is small but from his perspective this the biggest dream. So it's a matter of personal perspectives when we are talking about dreams or wishes or desires. But the most sorrowful fact is some people are lucky enough to accomplish their dreams but some people after trying their whole life can never fulfilled their dreams.Life is a bit unfair to them and it is too hard to accept the truth. I've observed that we all have few common desires wishes and dreams.This is very interesting that we all are running after the same dreams but we don't know them.  **Here in my writing I'll be sharing some common desires of every person and I'm sure you've also wanted these once in your life.** So how did I come to know about you? Am I mind reader who can read minds or have the special ability to see what people have in their inside? No I'm not a mind reader not at all rather I'd love to observe people more and more. **This article will be a reflection of my observations about common human desires.**  **Let's see if you've wanted these things I'm your life or not. Let's see if my observations are correct or not.**  **- We all have searched for a loyal hand once in our life.** I'm hundred percent sure about that you've searched for a loyal hand whom you can trust with your everything. Not only you, I and we all have searched but some of us found,some of us yet to found.  But there is also an opposite site of this story. Sometimes we trust someone and they just betray us.They took everything everything from us and left us aside with nothing. If you go through this kind of betrayal or cheating you may never trust anyone like the first time you have trusted. He/she didn't give value of your trusts and just let you go. **Finding one loyal hand is an mysterious game of life because:** **1)Some may found one but faced betrayal from his/her partner.**  **2)Some didn't find any loyal hand yet but need badly** **3)Some may found but didn't understand the value of a loyal hand** I don't know what stage you are belong to but I've one little thing to say.If you already found a loyal hand than don't ever lose those hands. If you lose you'll regret in the future because you may not get the same trustworthy hands again. **So hold tight his/her hands and fly together with your hearts content.Because finding a loyal and trustworthy hand is still a dream for most of the people.**  Almighty has already gifted you with one so don't take it for granted. **- Seek someone's accompany in the most depressing nights of our life.** We all have go through some darkest painful depressing moments in our life. Some of us may have recovered and some of us yet to recover from those. When we are depressed we all wanted someone's accompany.  It may come from our mother, father, sister, brother, friend or anyone.When we are depressed we just want someone sit beside us. If you ask me when I'm depressed who sat beside me? I'll say my mother. When everyone left but my mother stayed with me every time.  I may have received my mother's accompany, you may have received some one else's accompany but **still there are someone who passes their depressing times lonely.**  **- Wanted to pass a day without any worry of anything.** Sometimes when life becomes so heavy and we become worried about our life than we all want to live a worry free day at least once. We all wanted to feel an worry free life but as life is unfair so it's become impossible to live a single moment without worrying.  I can bet on this you've wanted to pass a worry free day once in your life but you haven't.This is a type of desire we can't buy with money nor with anything. **- We all have wished to sleep peacefully without any bad dreams.** **In my culture there is a saying that if you can sleep peacefully at night you are the happiest person on the earth.**  Because you can have thousands of money in your bank account but you can't buy peaceful sleep with them. I ,personally always wished to sleep peacefully at night but I wasn't to able to sleep. But there are some people whom wishes come true.They can sleep peacefully at night without any hassles. They are undoubtedly the happiest person on earth because we all have personal problems , concerns etc. But these people can sleep irrespective of their worries now imagine how much happy they can be.  This is also same for everyone.We all have wished to sleep peacefully just like pass a worry free day but some achieved and some didn't.  **My main motive of writing this article is to let you know that:** -**Not only you are suffering from the depression, worries or betrayal.We all have wished to live a peaceful life but only a few choosen ones got the chance.**  So if you didn't get what you've wished that doesn't mean you are not the only one. **I, we, everyone we all have same wishes some received but some didn't.**

@Grammarian

Problems I've faced for being an introvert! Don't mistreat anyone please! In our friend circle we all have mainly three type of friends. I'm one hundred percent sure that you'll have either an introvert friend or an ambivert friend or an extrovert friend. Those who loves to talks a lot we call them extrovert. Those who don't talk much we named them introvert and those acts both we call them an ambivert. **If you ask me what type I belong to? Than I'll answer that I belong to introverted people's society.** **In this article I'll share what kind of problems I've faced for just being an introvert people and how people treated me?** So if you are an introvert like me you can relate this happenings with your life.  **This article will also guide you on how to act when someone is treating you badly for just being an introvert.** **I'll try to share how I act on this situations when I was hurt internally but anyone didn't noticed.** **If you are an extrovert,this article will also tell you how an introvert people really see the world.** Yes introverts people do have emotions, love, pain everything you have in your life just like you. But the only thing differs ourselves from you is we don't share that much.But that doesn't deny the fact we don't have any feelings.  That doesn't deny the fact we are a emotionless machine. We do cry but you'll never see our tear drops because we are made that way by Almighty. **-Our neighbours, friends sometimes the loved ones, random people thought us we are unsocial and don't know how to talk or say greetings.** But this is totally a misconception about us. As I've said we talk less, very less.Introvert people like us loves to observe more than talk. **Most interesting fact is he/she has already noticed you've beautiful curly blonde hair but he/she will not share it that way.** **He/she has already noticed you've splendid eyelashes but as I've said he/she will not share.** **This is undoubtedly the most interesting fact of being an introvert.** **You will never know how deeply your beauty is appreciated! Amazing!** He/she also praised your beauty internally you may not have listened his/her words but he did praise. To really understand someone in a introverted way,you need to think an introverted way.  So if you've any introverted friend, he/she than must be a blessing for you. How? Your introverted friend can work as a third eye for you because we observe details but don't talk that much.  **So if you are an introvert and people saying you unsocial don't get hurt because they may not understand who you really are.**  So next time if you face this kind of problems don't get depressed because now you know there is a misunderstanding. -**You'll see some people always misses social gatherings.We introverts are always fearful of social gatherings and here some people misunderstand us.** We loves to roam inside our room and can pass an eternity without going outside you believe it or not.  From next time if one of your friends don't attend huge social gatherings don't treat him bad. Instead of treating him wrongly, try to understand his/her problems.  Introvert tend to keep themselves inside a box ,they want to keep themselves pure.They think if they get in touch with more people ultimately there inner self will be ruined.  **And if you are a introvert like me and somebody just invited you to join a party.** **If you are not in the mood than politely say him no that you'll not be able to join.** If the person truly understand you,feel you than he/she will be appreciate you. Also if you mistreated than you already know that some people don't really understand us Another misconception about us is we ignores everything and self-centred person. **I'm clarifying it how this is a misconception.** **-Introverts talk less and thinks more that doesn't mean he is only thinking for only himself.** I'll suggest you to pass a month or two with a introvert friend that you'll feel how much he/she cares about his friends. **Everyone doesn't express their inner feelings, carefulness and loves but that doesn't mean he/she doesn't care.** If you lost everyone in your life the only friend that will stay with you is your less expressive friend whom you used to think unsocial. I've seen a lot of this kind of exemplary friendship in my entire life. I can bet you on this matter. -**We,introverts have tendency to overthink a lot. Though this makes us stupid but it's definitely true.** **-We talk with our brains a lot you can say our inside is a secret diary which no one ever read.**  If any of your friend seem anxious or heavily concerned about something hold his/her hand and stay beside please. This is the best gift anyone's can dream of and anyone can get. And if you are an introvert I know it's too hard to stop overthinking cause I'm an over thinker too. One thing I do is to take deep breaths, closing my eyes and let myself loose. Look Almighty made us that way and let's not judge others based on they talks or not. They may cares for you or they may loves you whole heartedly which you don't know.

@Grammarian

6 money saving trump cards I have! Save for future! Saving money is as challenging as earning them. Sometimes saving money is double challenging because when we have money in the pocket we have the mentality to buy. I've seen a lot friends complained about their inability to save money. So whenever a friend of mine complain I show them my techniques. Than a week later they say my techniques were working and they have started saving money for themselves. I thought why not sharing my own personal techniques here so that a lot of people can be benefitted.Moreover they will be able to achieve their goals. **-When a week starts I make a list of weekly expenses instead of monthly expenditure.** Breaking down things like monthly into weekly is very much fruitful I'll tell you how.  If you break something big than it becomes small and less complicated. As there are lots of math involved, so when the time is big our brain will be unable to complete a perfect monthly calculation.Monthly calculations will be complicated too! There will be a chance of making mistakes more often.To reduce mistake and increase productivity break down your monthly expenses list into weekly.  **If you still have problems than you can divide a month into two parts.15 days will be considered as a part. Than make your list of expenses based of 15 days average.** Every problems we face have a solution you just need to seek them attentively. By the way, I prefer the seven day expenses list. **- I try to make sure I've saved at least some penny on a particular day.Because you know there are some hidden costs everyday.** When we fall into those traps we don't know how our money just lost. After determining those hidden traps and I try to save few pennies.  I think you've understood what are the hidden traps are.Well let me elaborate on hidden traps. **Say on average you need 10$ a day.But on Monday your friends suddenly planned they will eat lunch outside.** **So you've eaten outside and that cost extra 10$.Here "Eating outside" can be a hidden trap.**  **So every day I make sure I do not fall into any hidden traps because I need to go a long way! You also could have saved 10$ if you stayed at home or eaten home.** At the end of the week whenever I put my hand into the pocket I found 3-4$.That is very relaxing because you've something in your pocket.This is absolutely much more greater than having nothing. **-Whenever I'm about to buy something i brought the cheapest way possible but the best quality must be ensured.** I'll share some tricks I use when I bargain with the shopkeeper this might be useful for you.  **- If the shopkeeper wants 30$ for a t-shirt, you say half which is 15$.Than start moving gradually but slowly.** **If you are lucky enough and can perform this trick successfully you can save at least 5$ on a t-shirt.** **-Instead of buying things everyday,buying everything in a single day helped me a lot.** There is mathematical formula working behind this which I've just discovered few months back. You may believe it or not this is really effective when you're about to save you money.I'm sharing what mathematical formula is actually working behind it.  **Shopkeepers use a technique you may have already noticed. You'll see offers like 1 kg of Apples cost 10$ and 2 kg of Apples cost 15$.** **To avail the offer you've to buy 2 kg at once. So if you buy 2 kg than you can save 5$ per kg! Amazing isn't it?** **-The most interesting fact is I don't go to market's more often and this is a psychological game which I won every single time.** Because every time I go to market's my brain started telling me hey buy this buy that! This was also so tempting you can't really ignore your brains telling. **-I set small targets like saving 10$ in two weeks. This is also another type of psychological perspective.** My brother once said if we set big target than our brain become incapable. Our brain continuously push ourselves and told us that these big targets are unachievable.So if we set small targets and achieve them than achieving will be a habit. Besides one day you'll realise that you've already achieved the big target by completing small ones. I'll suggest you if you have a plan to buy something expensive or want to save a large number of money than break your targets in a small pieces.Than start completing them one by one.  As I've said in the first place saving money is more tough than earning money. **But at the end of day when I feel something in my pocket than I became the most happiest person just like you.So if you have a bigger target,than set sail today.**

@Grammarian

Why you shouldn't use "A mod APK file"? Risk of data theft! **Few days ago I was talking about movies with one of my friend. So when we are talking about movies the first thing that comes our mind is oviously Netflix.** Netflix brings a revolutionary change in the field of entertainment especially. But the fact is Netflix is not a free service you have to pay for the contents you are watching. But Netflix ensures our money is not wasted by bringing top quality movies and series in front of us. Having a Netflix account is also a dream of the movie freaks like me.As we need to pay for the service, sometimes we are seen reluctant to get the subscription. Rather we seems to be more interested on free Netflix services.We do everything just to get the free services and to stream movies for free.  **When I've said to my friend that Netflix is not free than my friend suggested to use "a mod APK" of Netflix.** **These mod Netflix will unlock the movies for free.If we use the "mod APK of Netflix" than we don't need to pay to stream movies.**  Aren't you finding it interesting but I'm quite sure that you've also searched for these kind of applications for a long time. Yes you can stream Netflix movies and series for free by using certain "mod APK".  **This article will discuss why you shouldn't use a free service or these kind of "mod APK files".** As I knew the risks of downloading these malicious files so I told my friend I don't want to be get hacked. I don't want to get my personal data to be stolen just for some free movies. I also suggested my friend not to use these "APK" files for his own safety. Now here is why... First of all ask yourself a simple question "Is anything in this world comes free?"No never ever nothing is free in this world and you have to pay for every single task you complete. But what actually "a mod APK file" is?A mod APK files code is reshuffled by some developers so that the users can get the maximum benefit for free. If you use the original product than you may have to pay for the service you are enjoying. But these mods are giving premium services for free.Till now everything is alright and proper functioning but: **1) Why a simple calculator will require your devices "Camera" permission just to do some basic calculations?**  **2)Why would someone is giving his time, money and everything to recode the main file to give free services?** What if the "mod APK file" you've downloaded contains malicious virus that can be used to crack into your device?There is a huge amount of chance this apps can do so. **3)These apps doesn't go through any security test so there is still some chance of getting infected.** Moreover as these applications aren't connected with the official server than who knows where your data is going to stored and who'll maintenance them. What if your data is sold to a third party by the developer? **4)Generally we don't get these files in any trusted software market like play store or App store.** So this is also raise a flag this files might be corrupted.Though may come with clean interface but who knows about their security? **5)As these applications codes are reshuffled than if the app developer puts a malicious virus there than we have just nothing to do.** On the other hand I'm repeating my first point again. Why a simple application needs to open camera to perform the works? These are the points I've come to know about the risks of using a mod APK file. Though I'm not saying every mod APK file is corrupted but as we don't have the ability to see what is inside them so we should avoid them for our own security purposes.  In this world of given and taken than who would provide paid services for free? Seriously! I've found an extraordinary article about this topic on the internet. **If you want to read it to know more than you can visit here:** https://techvaio.com/what-is-mod-apk-and-what-is-the-risk-for-using-mod-apks/ **Here is my two suggestion:** 1) Now you know the risks you shouldn't give your personal informations for the sake of some free movies. If you had to really use "a mod APK" than find some trusted App developer. 2)See carefully what permissions this application is seeking from you to work normally. If you see something unusual than you should delete them without any hesitations. **Though we need to pay real money but for our own safety we should use the official versions of certain applications.**

@Grammarian

A quest for finding the best captions for photos! How I do so? **After clicking a photo when we are about to upload it on social media than we found out we need to write a caption.** Exactly at that time we start battling with our mind to find some words which will describe the photo. Than we go to Google and copy someone elses caption but this is undoubtedly a malpractice and bad thing to do. **So Instead of copying someone else's captions from Google why not writing your own captions by yourself?** I've seen a lot of people just copy some writings from Google and add with their photos. You may thinking you've done the smartest thing but these are easily understood. Besides as more people use the same captions again and again so reading the same sentence sometimes feels boring.  When we upload something on social media, we wanted to make sure every people read ,watch and share their opinion regarding that. But using same "I love she love" type captions can make people less interested on your post. There is a chance people will simply ignore your post just because of a caption.  On the other hand captions are the heart of a photo. **I know we find it very difficult to select the perfect captions for our photos but in my article I'll tell you caption writing is not that tough as it seems.** Caption writing is as easy as clicking the photo. **1)Make sure your captions are based on the main subject of your photo.** Say you've gone hill tracking with your friends and clicked a lot of photos.So what will be the subject of this photo? If you ask me I'll tell friends are the main subject of your photos.  Hills and adventure are also a main subject if your think it from a different perspective. But whatever the subject is write the caption based on the main subject. The viewers will be glued to both your caption and photo.  **2) Instead of writing of essays keep your captions short.** Your captions can be:  **2.1) Only one,two or three word long if you are really good at writing.In this one or two word you need to describe the whole photo.** As this is tough so I'm not recommending it to everyone. But I've a suggestion if you look at the movie names you'll see they are one or two words long. But they describe the whole 2-hour movie.If a 2 hour movie can be brought into two words so why not a photo? You just need to think to find the right words besides you need huge vocabulary stock. Do you know what I do to get the perfect words for my photos? Whenever I watch a movie I note that movie name down. **2.2) If you are not good at writing in one or two words than keep your captions one or two sentences long.** In this two sentences you'll write everything about the photo like when you've taken it, how was your feeling, what is the reason behind clicking that photo.  **2.3)You can write a passage this is what I do whenever I upload a photo on any social media.** This is not an ordinary passage rather this passage will tell the audience a story.I'll recommend you if you are good at story tell. Tell your story in the caption so that people can feel they are visualising everything. I've some friends who can really good at story tell. If you are struggling with the caption than just tell the story behind of it.  **3)A good caption will hold the attention of your audience for a long time.** Sometimes when you upload a photo you'll see that people didn't react to your photo as you expected. Your caption can be a reason behind it.If people didn't find your caption funny or interesting they will simply ignore and this is quite normal.  So to get the attention you need to make sure your caption is an interesting one.So before uploading,think of something funny, amusing and curious to read. **4)Cinematic dialogues related to the subject of the photo can be a best option.** People remembers some movies dialogues for a long time because they find it inspiring,sometimes fascinating and sometimes attractive. If I ask you to tell me a dialogue of your favourite movie I'm sure you'll not feel any dilemma to tell me. When people find their favourite movie quotes in their newsfeed they will surely push the react button. In my case I've used a lot of movie quotes in my photos and people reacted greatly.   For example, if you upload a photo with your fiance you can use some romantic movie quotes. **5)If you are good at writing poems use your poetic mind to get the best caption for your photo.** Remember we all have a poetic mind it just need a little nurture.Gather your words and thoughts together than write down your inner feelings.  Once I was not that good enough to gather my words but I tried and tried.Now I'm quite satisfied with my writing ability. What we've learned today is we can write far better caption by our own self without copying from Google or any other sources. **Again I'm telling you people don't really like the same simple captions again and again.**

@Grammarian

7 tips for solo traveling based on my experiences. Happy travelling! In my last article I've shared how and what I've enjoyed from a chilled rural winter morning. This was an wonderful experience visiting rural areas at least once in a year. Because as you know that we should take a break from the city and refresh our minds. In this article I'll share my experience how can travel safely if you don't have the knowledge of the locality. Everything is based on my experience how I've learned to travel alone safely.  Because to know the vastness of world you need to step to the unknown world. If you always travel the same area again and again you'll become bored eventually. So I try to travel new areas every year and as I've said this article will lead you to the answer of how you can be safe from the strangers and unknown place. **I'll share what steps I take to keep myself safe from the hazards.** **1)Before travelling to a new area we should get to know every details of that area.**  In my case I ask everything to my host about the area. If you are lone traveller like me than you should know every single details for example : people, their habits, safety, is free moving safe, is there any chance of getting lost, is there any chance of losing valuable things like camera or mobile phone. Before I travel I note down every detail so that I can be extra careful and make my tour more enjoyable. You should know the area very well especially the people. Are they welcoming to the guest or not? **2)If possible try to know the exact fares rate so that the drivers can not charge you more and take the benefit of your ignorance.** Personally I became a victim of this many times in the past.Where tuk-tuk drivers charged me more money than the price. Though this is totally inappropriate but as the drivers aren't honest they do so.  We just only do one thing to avoid these type of circumstances. We should get to know the exact prices or fare rates before travelling around. **3)To avoid getting scammed on the roads don't tell anyone that you are new to this city and also don't express it with your body language too**. I've heard a lot of stories where strangers took advantage of this situations. So we should not tell everyone that we don't know the roads. We should ask for directions to traffic policeman or someone trustworthy.  Because we don't know what is the intention of a stranger especially if you are a girl. In every big cities there should be traffic policeman, they will be grateful to help you.  **4)If you are on a vehicle and going somewhere remember the street signs e.g. restaurants, shops.** In my last travel, a rickshaw puller tried to scam me by driving the same road again and again. My train was scheduled at 23:30. As the train station is close from my host's family so we start for the station at 22:00.  We took a rickshaw but the rickshaw puller was not going straight instead he was driving here and there. Firstly this was cold winter night and secondly we don't know the streets very well.  But I was noticing the street signs very carefully and I found out that he was driving the same road again and again. Than I told the rickshaw puller what's wrong with him because we were about to miss our train. The rickshaw puller than guessed something. Than he took us to the station but only five minutes before the train starts. So if you are new to a city or a place and travelling alone these people might try to take advantage of your ignorance.  Keep your eyes wide open on the streets and look closely the street signs. **5)Don't trust anyone on the roads especially if someone wants to offers you food than refuse it wisely.** I've heard a lot of incident where people became victim of theft when they ate the food given by strangers. Than all your travel might turn into a horrific one so being extra careful can save you from this situations. **6)Keep your Identity card or identification papers like passport always with you.**  If you keep these with you if you need any help on the streets you can get very easily.To save these papers from rain you can use a zip lock bag. **7)Last and the final tip is use Google maps very wisely if you are new on a locality.** Why I'm telling so because firstly you don't know the area secondly if you miscalculate your surrounding than you may go wrong direction. Ask for directions from your host or relatives than use the Google map. Here I discussed how can you be safe from the risks of travelling to a new city especially if you are travelling alone. As a solo traveller I always maintain above mentioned rules strictly. When you are careful enough than all you just enjoy everything on the roads.

@Grammarian

A quiet winter morning! what and how I've enjoyed! Winter is the most enjoyable season whether it comes in the north pole or south pole. Though those people who have low immunity to cold related diseases may not find it that much suitable to enjoy. When the cold comes we becomes affected by various diseases like cold, cough. **In my article I'll share how can you enjoy a cold beautiful winter morning and precautions I've taken to save myself from cold related diseases.** **1)If you want to really enjoy the blessings of winter than I'll suggest you to visit the rural parts of your country.** City life is overcrowded with people and there are noise and pollution everywhere. From air pollution, noise pollution there is every kind of pollution in city life. You'll never get the real feelings of winter in city. So you should come to rural areas as these parts are less crowded and less polluted. Rural areas are quiet and literary if you hear closely you can hear the drops of dew falling on leaves.  I can't really describe it in words the true feelings of hearing dew drops falling. These sounds are very much relaxing and calming. **2)Early morning is the perfect time to explore the riches of winter nature.** Though in winter some part of the world gets snowfalls but on the other hand some parts of the world gets foggy morning, dew, cold winter blows.  I haven't experienced snowfalls in my entire life because I don't live in the snow falling areas. And there is saying that almost half of the population of the earth never experienced snowfalls. But I don't regret because I've experienced another type of winter. Sometimes the fog is very much dense where sun rays can't get through. **There are very low visibility which is only 6-9 feets so if you don't walk you'll never know what is in front of you.**  As in the morning there are very less people on road so walking on the empty streets can be very exciting and will give you immense joy.  **3)You can enjoy serenity of nature, simplicity of rural lifestyle and birds chirping at the same time.** Morning part is the beginning part of the day for the farmers you'll see how people are harvesting there crops and their cultivating method.  Farmers are the real heroes of a civilization because they never stop working in hot sun, rain or ice cold winter. You'll feel the struggles of a farmer in every seconds. Now let's not forget we should save ourselves from winter diseases also enjoy every moments. Here is the precautions I've taken to save myself from diseases.  **1)Ensure wearing double facemask to protect ourselves from the cold blows.** Wearing mask will obstruct from entering direct cold inside your body. So I wear six layered mask or double facemask. **2)To save your camera lense from cold keep soft cloths because I've seen after few clicks my camera become blurry.** I don't know yet why this happens but to get the best quality pictures we should keep the camera lens clean. **3)Protect your ear, hands because these are directly opened to cold.So using hand gloves and head cap can keep these warm and protected.**  **4) Never go outside with flipflops or bare feet because the soil is too cold.It'll be better if you put on your socks and jogging shoes.** Shoes and shocks will protect your feet and fingers from the direct cold. I went outside with my running shoes and it helped me a lot especially from the dew. Well these precautions will be helpful only if you are not from a snowfall areas. If you are from snowfall areas you should take different measures based on your environment. **Here I'll attach some photographs that I've taken by my mobile camera.** Look at the photos and see how dense the fog really was. **Now guess the temperature by watching the photographs let's see if you can guess the exact temperature.**

@Grammarian

7 life teachings I've learned from the movie Forrest Gump I think you all have heard the name of an American great actor Tom hanks. When I say the name of Tom hanks you imagine the movie Forrest Gump don't you? I've watched that particular movie many and many times. But every time I saw I feel this is the first time I'm watching this movie. **Movie name: Forrest Gump** **My personal rating: 10 out of 10** There are some movies where you'll find happiness, an influential kick and great life teachings. This is undoubtedly one of the most inspiring movie I've ever seen in my life. Here in my article I'll share the most interesting things I've learned by watching a movie.  If you didn't watch the movie yet than put Forrest Gump in your bucket list and I'm assuring you that you'll never be bored for a single moment. **1)Every one deserved to be loved and everyone deserves love just like Forrest and Jenny. But you'll not get it until Almighty let you so.** In this movie Jenny is a very mysterious character. Jenny refused Forrest every single time but Forrest didn't give up. I think Jenny refused Forrest because Forrest was a pure hearted person so she didn't want to ruin Forrest's life. **2)If you loved someone from the bottom of your heart, than the person will never forget to come back to you. Just like the movie Jenny came back to Forrest at last.**  If you ever love someone, than love like Forrest. I learned that love is a strong promise only death can tear this apart.  **3)Our whole life is a colourfull mystery box and we don't know what is waiting for us in the next morning.** You'll never know what kind of gift is tomorrow holding until tomorrow comes. As we are living in uncertainty so we should live fearless and without rules.  **4)When we put too much pressure on our life ,our life becomes a caged bird. After watching the movie I felt life should be free just like a bird flying in the sky.** When Forrest was running across the interstate and when he said that he was running for no reason than I felt we should set free our lifes.  You'll never know when the best opportunity will hit you but it will. Be sure about that. When the t-shirt designer guy was run out of new ideas and was unable to draw than he found an outstanding idea when Forrest just rubbed his face with his t-shirt. Life will give us tons of opportunities at the right moment.  We just need to be diligent enough to catch the right fish at the right time. Life will again smile ,we just need to wait patiently. **5)A true friend is someone who will never let go your hand both in depressing moment's of life and in the battle field.**  When bubba was wounded in Vietnam war, Forrest the good man tried his everything to save his friends. These kind of friendship are only be seen in good people's heart.  **6)Our mother's are a gift of the Almighty and we should do level best for the betterment of her. Our mother's gave birth to us ,showed us the light of the world.**  As I've seen in the movie Forrest was very grateful to his mother and abide by all her instructions. We should be grateful to our mother's and a mother's sacrifice is incomparable with anything in this world. **7)Don't get offended or don't lose faith on yourself by people's rough behaviour and nasty talks. Instead of focusing on people's trash talks ,we should focus on our own life.** Because life is the most important gift was given to us by Almighty. We should be like Forrest who is focused on running because it doesn't matter what people is talking about us. These are the learnings I've learned from the movie. Though there are more things to discuss about. I've watched this movie many times on HBO and especially the running part on YouTube.  When he uttered that running gives people hope a reason to live believe me or not I also felt the same thing from the core of my heart. We just need a reason to live,I've found my reason what about you?

@Grammarian

How I keep track of my classes and benefits figure drawing! Making notes or keeping track of the class is one of the most challenging task for students. Honestly speaking keeping track of classes on regular basis was a challenge for me too untill I think of some ideas and started implementing them. Personally I'm not a meritorious student just a regular student like you but every day I try how to make study more easy so that students like me can get the benefits.  **In this article I'll share some tricks which I've developed by my own self to keep track of the classes very easily.** So if you are struggling and demotivated than you can surely try the methods I use. Because once I was devastated and tired like you believe me or not.  **1) When the teacher is talking than its better not to write all the words he is telling.** **Because you know talking speed is faster than the writing speed. If you want to race with talking you'll lose surely.**  You'll miss valuable words from your teacher. So I think of what I can do not miss the words because once I was also racing. I don't note down every words rather I note the keywords only. These keywords shouldn't be more than one sentence long. First listen to your teacher than note down the main theme of his talking with a simple keywords. You can choose your own keywords freely. Say if he talking about the bad impacts of rumoured news than instead of writing everything write the main impact points. Now you can ask me what is benefit of doing so than I'll say you'll have more time to listen to your teacher. As soon as our teacher started to tell something ,we start writing and don't listen to him. If we don't listen to our teacher than how can we understand the particular topic easily? If you write only the keywords than you'll have more time to listen. Either way both writing and listening you are winning. **2) Figure drawing**  Writing takes a lot of time as I've mentioned above and I've also shared an alternative of writing. Figure drawing can also be a great way to keep notes. You can draw boxes, circles, straight lines as figures and put the points there. **Figures drawing is very important to -** **1)Compare two topics one another**  **2)Show two three or more number of topics simultaneously** **3) Analysing any particular topic with points** **4) To point out any topic** I've shown only four but you can do thousands of things with the figure drawing. To draw a box or circle it will take only 3 or 5 seconds. First of all it is super fast and secondly you can illustrate tons of data in a simple figure.  **3) Don't forget to put dates/day number/lecture number and the lecture topic name on the top of the page.** If you do so you'll have an arranged and clean note at the end. If you search for a topic you'll not have to search every page. These simple works will save you time easily.If you do so you'll be able to find any specific topic within a very short time. As these days most of the classes have gone online so you already get the recorded version of each class. You may have missed a concept but you have the recorded version so no worries. You can listen to the recorded class as many times as possible. **Now I'll share you how a simple figure drawing technique can save you time and most importantly help you to express a lot of data.** To draw this figure I've used an digital drawing platform named Autodesk sketch book. **Question: Show the core difference between topic "A" and topic "B".** I'm just naming two topics randomly. You can rename them based on your studies it's just an example.  **As we need to show difference between two topics let's draw two boxes one is for topic "A" and second is for topic "B". Than draw another box in between them and write "Difference" in the middle.** **Now write the points of topic "A" one by one as I've mentioned in the picture and topic "B" one by one.** Instead of writing whole sentence try to write the main differentiating points. Now see the results and tell me what extraordinary thing you've already done.  **See studying is all about ideas and the more ideas you've the more enrich you are. I've shown an easy idea now think how you can make it more easy for yourself.**

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How I helped my brother to give up excessive online gaming **These days online gaming has gone too far and young adults are falling trap of it. I have a younger brother who plays a lot games like PUBG , Call of duty etc.** He starts affecting his study, health,money and it is high time to stop. I know and I'm quite sure you or your siblings may go through this kind of problems too. Here is how I helped my brother to get rid of gaming addiction and hope these will be helpful for you to if you want to get rid of gaming. **1)I helped my brother to find an alternative of excessive gaming.**  First I didn't go hard line like uninstalling all his games rather I helped him to find an alternative. Why did I do so because if I don't give him an alternative he will never be able to getting round of this addiction. We always force someone to give up a had habit but forcing someone is not a good choice.  If you force someone to stop instead of stopping he'll start doing it more and more. So if you or your siblings have this gaming addiction than don't force him try explore his mind. What other things he might be interested in try to get the answers.  **For example say your siblings or children's have great interest in drawing pictures but as he is drowned into excessive gaming all his drawing qualities are about to diminish.** Buy him a fancy colour book or colour pencils so that his inner self wake up. In my case I gifted my brother a bicycle.My brother is fond of cycling as he don't have his own cycle he can't go exploring with his friends. Sometimes I've seen he use his friends cycle. As he need a cycle of his own and to eradicate gaming addiction buying a cycle is a good gift.  Moreover we know cycling is a great exercise too as it builds our muscles and keeps our body fit. Gaming all day is bad not only for his study but also for his physical health too. So here is my suggestion do not force someone to give up a bad habit rather try to find out his other interests and help him achieve those. Now my brother goes for cycling with friends in every afternoon and he is on his way to fully give up the mobile gaming habit. **2)I made him understand that excessive online gaming is harmful for both of this physical health and wellness.**  When we are talking about giving up an addiction it is impossible for someone to eliminate his bad habits overnight. As bad habits doesn't grow over night and those will not go over night too. You need to give him some quality time just like I did to my brother. I showed him how gaming is costing money, wasting time and most importantly ruining his productivity. I told him to save money and showed him how saving money can help him in future.  **I also told my brother one day this games will be market out than the money you've wasted on these games they will not give you back.** **But if you save your money to buy something you love they will give you companion whenever you want.**  If your siblings are fond of music than buying him a guitar will be an amazing step to his improve creativity. **3)I suggested him some life changing movies and series and he become a fan of movies too.**  From movies like Forrest gump, Pursuit of happiness, The terminal etc. I've suggested him to watch all the inspiring movies like this and once he started watching I've seen some changes in his mind. **Movies are working as a antidote of excessive gaming. To be honest if you are also a gaming freak and started realising that this is harming you than try to find alternatives like this.**  Different people needs different types of suggestions but finding an alternative works on everybody. Share your problems with someone who'll take your words seriously and suggest you something valuable.  In my case I'm happy that he is not wasting his money and time on games anymore.If a heavy gamer like my brother can change than you can too just give it a shot. **P:S: I've suggested all these stuffs to my brother because gaming has gone into addiction level. Addictions are totally bad in what form it is and I'm not saying gaming is bad.** **But if you give your everything money, heart, soul and time to the artificial computer generated world than it should be stopped soon.**

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I forget my charger at home and how my journey ruined. I forgot my phone charger at home and how I suffered in my journey I was totally inactive in every kind of social media in the last 6 days for a simple mistake I did before my journey. I was unable to write anything just because of my smartphone charger. Can you imagine how only a smartphone charger can make a outstanding travel a bitter one?Yes it is possible and almost ruined my journey. You may have noticed that I didn't write anything in the last week. In the last week almost a year after I went to my relatives house. As for the pandemic there are still some travel restrictions but the situation improved a lot.  That's why I've planned to step outside my house almost after a year. I was completely excited about the whole journey and start preparing myself. But there are some people who forgets to pack little stuffs like toothbrush and unfortunately I'm one of them.  In the last Tuesday morning when I got into the train and the train started moving than I remembered that I didn't bring my smartphone charger.  At that time it was quite impossible to got down from the train and return home to bring charger because the train has already started moving with its full speed.  I'm a photogenic and memory lover person who loves to click good memories. But without my smartphone how can I store my memories I was thinking and thinking. On the other hand my smartphone supports only type-c fast charging cable. Those who are tech geek may know that type-c fast charging cable launched recently and not most of us use it. So I was thinking how if any of my relative had type-c cable than my problem will be solved.  But I was not that lucky and none of my relatives had type-c cable rather they had USB cable 2.0. My phone doesn't support USB 2.0 cables so this is a another great problem. I tried to lessen my smartphone usage but after one full day of using my phone battery finally died and I've nothing to do with that. Than one of my relative suggested me to brought only a type-c cable from a local shop because full charger box will be much costly. Moreover when I return home I'll not need that extra charger because I already have original charger at home. So not to waste more money I brought a type-c charging cable from a local shop by 150 taka which is almost 1.8 USD. **See a simple forgetfulness can also become very costly in that case this cost me 1.8 USD.**  **If I brought original full charger box that it would cost around 6-8 USD.** Though they aren't original one and I've some issue of fast charging my device was charging very slowly. With my original charger it took 2 hours to full charge my battery and with the new cable it took almost 3 and half hours. Wrong cable can seriously decrease the life span of smartphone and it's battery.I was also thinking of ruining my battery but I've no choice left so I had to take the risk.  As charging my phone become my big issue that's why I just used my phone to take photos nothing else. That's why I wasn't able to come online in the last week.Isn't it a ridiculous forgetting stuffs like smartphone charger? **If you don't want to ruin your whole journey just like me and not to forget your most important goods at home here I'm sharing some experiences I've gathered.** 1) If you've different charging port like me which is not common than you should be more careful. I wasn't careful enough and I thought someone might have a type-c fast charging cable but I was wrong.  **If you are bag packing first put those things which is not be available outside or uncommon items. For example a round shaped charging port or long shaped.** 2) You know yourself very well what stuffs you forget quite often. If you ask the same question to me I'll say I forgot headphones, charger etc. **Honestly speaking, if I plan tour next time I'll never forget to put my charging cable first in my bag pack.**  So you've already travelled a lot and you know what things you forget don't you? So pack those elements first so that you may never run the risk of forgetting important elements. 3) This one is very important if you are a regular traveller you can create a small bag where you'll put all the instruments which will be very necessary in the travel.  **You can keep charger, toothpaste, toothbrush, headphones,ID card,Ticket etc.** If you keep all these things in a place than I can assure you you'll never forget. From next time I'll do the exact same thing. I've suffered a lot and cost money only because of a charger so I don't want you to face the same problems just like me. From next time I'll do the above things and I think this will be very much effective.

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My family members suffered Covid-19 maltreatment. Don't ignore symptoms! Sometimes I feel very blessed because I've some outstanding and extraordinary people in my life. They are none but my cousins and I'm very grateful to them for making my life a colorful one.  I've a cousin who lives in Rome, Italy. There he owns a restaurant business and few years back he got Italian citizenship. As we know Italy is one of the worst hit nation of Covid-19 in Europe. At the beginning of the pandemic we told him to come back home when the death toll increased high in Italy. But he was reluctant that he won't come back home to put other family members in danger which was very strong decision from him. We appreciated his strong determination. Although we were very worried about him as the Covid-19 death toll and confirmed cases increased dramatically in Italy and told not to go outside.  He stayed in Italy almost 9 months after the pandemic hit. In the first week of November he returned home and went to home quarantine for 14 days. He was very strict about the health rules but who knows bad luck was written on his luck. **In December 10, after almost one month later of his arrival he developed symptoms like fever, cough, respiratory problem.**  Not only he but also my aunt(My cousin's mother) was also diagnosed with same symptoms. As the doctor didn't suspect this was Covid-19 so he told my aunt and my cousin to take home treatment. He also prescribed some medicines but didn't tell to test for Covid-19. So they were taking the medications at home. But in 20th December after almost 10 days there health condition deteriorated. So they again went to the doctor and this time the doctor again prescribed the same medicines without telling to test for Covid-19. They again come back home, isolated themselves from the other family members and taking the medicines. Though they are taking medicines at the night of 26th December my cousins health condition worsened. He was unable to breath oxygen and having difficulty in breathing. All of suspected that this is Covid-19 but without testing we can't be sure of it.As he had difficulty in breathing so he was taken to oxygen support. We hired an oxygen cylinder and with the help of technical person provided my cousin oxygen support. We became very frightened about cousin and also worried about my aunt. Because she has diabetes and if it was Covid-19 than it can be fatal. Both of them was unable to talk and running high fever with cough. In 27th December their health conditions didn't improved and immediately hospitalised. After taken to hospital there samples are taken and the doctor blamed us for being late to test and hospitalisation. He also said if we were late more than we could've increased the risk of more fatalities.  After one hour their Covid-19 results came out and they got positive just as we suspected.  **Late treatment, maltreatment, not testing and lack of hospitalisation can be very fatal when we are talking about Covid-19.**  As they become positive and had worse health condition, they were admitted to Intensive care unit. After almost one week with proper treatment finally the hospital told us to do the second test just to make sure if they have Corona Virus or not. After the second test my aunt got Covid-19 negative but my cousin is still positive. Hospital discharge my aunt and told my aunt to stay at home for at least 14 days from now on. Few days later my cousin also go through third test and become Covid-19 negative. My family members suffered just because wrong treatment and for not testing for the Covid-19. We shouldn't take Covid-19 lightly and shouldn't ignore the symptoms just like my family members did.  Doctors wrong advice is the result of my cousins oxygen support.  **I don't know and I can't imagine if they were one more days late what could have happened.** **When we are talking about Covid-19 Ignoring the symptoms increase the risk of losing someone.** I can say from my experiences if you see any kind of symptoms please don't ignore the symptoms and don't go untreated. Don't panic because timely treatment can speed up the recovery process immediately seek doctors advice. Immediately contact with the professional doctor because my family members also contact with doctors but he was not professional enough to suggest Covid-19 test.  **I pray for everyone's betterment and those who are infected with this virus may Almighty help you all to recover from this. My family members suffered and I don't want anybody suffered like this.**

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They laughed at our idea but it's a reality now. My science fair story Back in 2015 when I just entered into college ,I participated in a science fair for the first time in my life. As this was my first participation I was very excited and had a lot of expectations. You know this is quite normal for someone having high expectations for the novice participants.  To participate a science fair there are some rules that means I can't just go and show my project. I had to go through some preliminary test for example I had to show and explain my project to my teachers. In my preliminary project analysis I had some painful experience. Before writing my story let me tell you pros and cons of what was my scientific project.  In my college days I was very interested in biological sciences more precisely in Biotechnology and Genetics. There I've learned if we can successfully genetically modify an organism than we can get a spices which is different from the original one. That took my attention greatly as I've come to know there are tons of advanced already achieved by Genetically engineering. Scientist already got nutrient enriched rice's ,corn. They also invented a new species of brinjal which can fight against insects on its own. Can you imagine how much our farmers will get benefitted? It will not only lessen the production cost but also increase whole productivity.  I and my teammate thought of creating something Genetically modified plant which will glow in the dark. To make plants glow in the dark we need to insert genes which is responsible for lighting into the plants genome.  We are used to see some insects like crickets glow in the dark. Have you ever wandered how this insects can light themselves up? These insects have a chemical named luciferin inside them. As the insects continues respiratory process ,oxygen inserts their body.  Than oxygen and luciferin reacts with each other made another chemical element named oxyluciferin which is responsible for the insects to glow in the dark. So our plan was to insert the chemical into plants body so that the plants can glow in the dark too. We've done tons of research on this topics and various renowned scientific organisations claimed it is possible. After being sure it is possible than we shared our idea for the preliminary test.  Now the question is why we were interested to make plants glow in the dark? **Glowing plants can be a great substitute of electric lampposts thus can save lots of power. Now think what impacts it can bring to the developing countries?** **Glowing plants will be undoubtedly a renewable energy source. Moreover it will decrease the waste of electric power. And also imagine how much power we can actually save from the glowing trees instead of street lampposts.** Science has gone too far and people still can't imagine what blessings science can bring to this human civilization. But do you know what actually happened next? My friends most importantly one of my teacher laughed at me. They said this is not possible and they will not make me qualify for the next round.  That disheartened me a lot. How can a teacher make fun of his students idea I don't know.  As I've said I've high expectation and strong determination that I'll participate in the science fair at least for a one time so I start doing more research on this topic. We have received internet almost 30 or 40 years ago. Before that time internet was just a imagination but today internet is reality.  In the science fair, we had to explain our project to the mass people. There are some people their too who also laughed at our project. As we've experienced this before so we tried to ignored those bad comments. Some comments were very frustrating and insulting some people didn't believed this was actually possible.We've showed them evidence but still they laughed at us. **In that science fair we didn't get any prizes not any position. But we didn't give up after 2016 science fair. After one year my college arranged a science fair.** Their I've participated with our glowing plant idea and again become a laughing stock. We've nothing to do people never believed this was actually possible. After participating two times in two different science fairs and being failed to achieve anything we just let go the idea. But this story have a twist to come.  I want to tell those people ,my friends and that judgement panel who didn't pay any heed to our idea, glowing plant is a reality now. Scientist put their heart and soul together and made this impossible thing happen. In future we will have plants that will glow in the dark and will give us light. Now a short message to those people who laugh at peoples idea.  **You can only laugh and have nothing to do else. You don't have any ability to create something. They can only demotivate ,insult and discourage people.** **If you have a idea it's better not to share with them because they will never value your thoughts.** We are not a failure these peoples are just real loser as they didn't achieve anything in their life that's why they try to ruin others. **Don't become so much influenced by those people and let's stick to our path.**

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How I generate ideas to write essays everyday? Hacks and a bonus essay! **Writing on the one side can be very interesting and when you don't find a topic to write about can be a horrible one.**  Once I also fought with this emptiness as I didn't find any topic to write. Every author once in a lifetime have felt that. Suddenly our head becomes empty and our brain started falling asleep without any reason.  But if you can get over it you'll be able to express yourself through writing. **Here in my article I'll share everything about me ,how I write and how I fight with empty brain syndrome.** If you go through my words attentively I think you'll be able generate new ideas everyday just like me. But first let me tell you one thing we already have words in our mind,topics in our brain but as we don't know how to execute our plans and put the elements together we become unable to write a single sentence.  **1) I brainstorm myself before I start writing a topic** Brainstorming is one of the most effective way to bring our inner words to outside. There are thousands of brainstorming method available online. You can choose your desired ones or the one that suits you. I can share you one of my brainstorming technique so that you can also benefitted.  I ask myself a lot of questions every time before writing. I answer my questions in my writing so basically my writing is a summary of answers. **For example if I want to write a story first I ask myself what will be my main theme of my story. After generating my main theme than I start adding all the other elements.**  **2)I make a flowchart of my ideas e.g. dividing parts of my essay introduction main elements conclusion**  We all have a notepad pre installed in our smartphone device, don't we? **So why not taking advantage of it? Whenever any topic hit my mind ,I take my phone and note down my points.**  First I write my points than I start to explain my points what is and what is not. As human mind is very sophisticated, we tend to forget our thoughts. So I don't take the risk of losing my valuable thoughts. Here is the most important benefit of keep notes, as we carry our phone everywhere we can note down our thoughts anytime. There will be no problem of pen or paper. **3)I try to write essays that people can find it useful or get benefitted or find interesting** You've done everything and put all your efforts but if the audience ignored your writing that is very painful for the author. People will only read your writing if they find it interesting or have anything useful. To glue your reader, try to find topics that will create an attraction in the readers mind.  **For example imagine you've learned some new tips and tricks of Microsoft office Excel and PowerPoint from a career development workshop.**  If you share the tips and tricks in your writing a lot of people can be benefitted. Moreover people will be curious to read your writing too because people always want to learn something and they can learn it just from you.  So if you have the opportunity to share your knowledge through your writing so why not taking the opportunity? **4)Every time before writing something I relate my essay with practical life uses. I want to make sure my writing will give you a message.** Here is the most important part of a writing. If your writing is based on practical application than you'll never feel empty because we do lots of things everyday. From brushing our teeth to setting up an alarm clock you'll have lots of things to write about. **5) I believe if my words touch my audience than my writing will be a complete one.** Instead of focusing mainly on sentence making I focus to make my audience understand me. Most interestingly I search for a topic to write which will give my audience entertainment, reading interest, benefits and some learnings.  **Here I'm sharing a writing idea for you and hope this will make you think more.** **Essay introduction: We make Google search everyday in every moments of a day and it is like a obvious task of our day to day life.** There are some strategies to make our Google searches for fruitful and effective. Sometimes it is seen that we are searching, searching and searching for a result but we don't find it just because of wrong searches. So we have problem now we will be looking for a solution.  **First it's a day to day life task as well as a problem than secondly it will attract more readers because they will learn something from your writing and can get their results very easily.**  Now do some research on how to get the most of a Google search or how to make Google search more effective. Write down the ideas in your notepad one by one. After you've written everything than provide example of individual points so that people can get your ideas more easily. **I can share a simple Google search technique as I've researched before. If your search for a particular book than write the name with a extension.**  **Like this " Gulliver's travels.pdf" in this way you'll get the direct pdf file. This works on every files from MP3 to MP4 video formats.** **Just add the file extension you wish to download after the file name.** So here I've discussed how I generate ideas to write something relating to practical life application and I've also added a topic you can write about. If you are having the same problem of empty head I think this will help you a lot.