What will you get from FAILURES?

Are you afraid of failures? If yes, read this article and it surely changes your mind.

Everyone experiences failures. Failures that give us bad days, negativity, and headaches. Besides, it sometimes resulted to minimize our actions because we're too afraid of making the same mistakes, another failure, and judgment from other people. But through failures, we learned important lessons.

Now, I would like to share with you 5 major lessons you'll get from your failures.

*1. It makes you learn not to give up

In life, there are times when you fail and feel like it's the end of your life or career because it break you mentally and physically. But after you overcome it, and do some time of self-assessment and realization, you'll become braver and stronger enough to face another challenge that life may give. This gives you the idea that failures are just part of your life and giving up is not the right thing to do instead, face, and accept them with head up high despite others find you ridiculous when you failed.

*2. It makes you a more caring and understanding person

When you are experiencing failures, you oftentimes feel so weak and selfless which means you are more concerned with yourself especially about your feelings. Besides, you sometimes too sensitive to many things like achievements and successes that lead to forgetting others' feelings and resulted to criticize others rather than giving compliments and be happy for them. But later on, when you fully accept and understand that our failures are just part of your life to grow better, you'll become more understanding and caring about others' feelings because you have gone through pains from it. Your failures will make you realize that failing is giving a bad feeling on oneself that you don't want others to feel which arises your compassion with others. Besides, it makes you look deeper and caring for others feeling rather than focusing on yourself.

*3. Failures reveal your true friends

Your failures don't define you but some of your friends ignore you when you are failing and only want you when we are succeeding. It's really hard to accept but not all your friends around you are true and genuine that's why you must choose the good and trusted one. It may be hard to do that but time and failures may guide you to know your true friends. These are the people who don't care about your life status, because what's matters for them is the motivation, inspiration, and real friendship you give that no one can give.

*4. It increases your faith

You always remember Him when you failed on something or someone, right?

Most of us are guilty about this because it's true that we only call and seek for Him when we are not okay and failed in something we really want, that's why failures are also a blessing in disguise. We remember Him and realize that only Him can help us to survive and overcome our failures until we get used to calling and talking to Him even in our successful days without noticing it.

*5. It makes you more passionate about your goal in life

Having lots of failures in life is sucks but once they become your past. You'll realize that failure helps you to be more passionate about your goal in life. This is almost the same with number four the only difference is that here your focus is your goal in life. After you gone through failures, you'll know the best thing to do which resulted in a successful life and a better plan for your future because you don't want to experience the same mistakes or failures in life.

Failures are totally difficult to deal with but always remember that it is NOT just a part of your life that makes you down or ridiculous on others eyes but failures gives you lots of important lessons that helps you to be a better version of yourself.

DO NOT let your failures ruin your day or life instead keep pushing yourself and use it to be successful in the path you choose for yourself. In fact, experiencing failures can make you stronger and braver but of course you must choose to see the brighter side of your failures because if not it makes your life mesirable.

I hope you learn something new in this article. 😊💛💙💙

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