Insecurities
***Do you find yourself feeling anxious about oneself or a lack of confidence? Do you feel ugly, fat, boring, or foolish?*** ***Insecurity*** is self-doubt or lack of confidence. Most of us sometimes feel insecure because of some reason. Loneliness, experiences of failure or rejection, perfectionism and having critical family members, friends, or partners are some factors that contributed to everyone's' insecurities which lead to mental health issues such as depression, social anxiety, dementia, as well as lower self-confidence. ***Dealing with our insecurities is one of the hardest things to do. So, the question is: How do we overcome this feeling?*** **Practicing self-approval** and **accepting our flaws** is the best thing we can do in dealing with it. This might sound simple yet challenging. We oftentimes seeking approval from other people about our looks, fashion, or lifestyle for self-satisfaction because that is the norms we grown-up but instead of seeking others' approval, why don't we appreciate ourselves first? This helps us deal with our insecurities and it improves our self-confidence too. Another thing to overcome insecurity is to **avoid comparing ourselves to others**. Comparing our looks and lifestyle to others is not good because this makes us feel self-pities and insecurities. So, the best thing to do is to count our blessing and always choose to be thankful and be happy for others' successes. Lastly, if we receive any rejections don't be mad, demotivated, and feel insecure about others' achievements, instead we must use it as our motivation to be a better version of ourselves. *I hope you like it and learn something in this article of mine. 😊 I made this because yesterday, I felt insecure that made me sad and I hate it. So, I decided to write this for everyone's awareness. 😊😊😊😊* Special thanks to @ kli4d @Rakibbec03 and @Adnan334 for the sponsorship. A big thanks to @Tunuu and @Dreamer for supporting and encouraging everyone to write quality articles.😊😊 And also Thank you to @Ashma for helping all the members of read.cash to get sponsorship. I would like to invite everyone to join the "Get Sponsored" community. This community is giving sponsorship to quality content articles published by different authors.
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Nice article. I like it. 😊
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This is a good article. Gone through with it. I lost my confidence for some reason... It's hard but I overcome my insecurities through self love. 😊
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Done after reading your article and before I made a comment. 😊
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I sometimes feel insecure, specially when it comes to finding a job. I always have the what if question in my mind, what if they won't accept me in then job, something like that, that's why i dont have a job now. Ever since i graduate from college 😞
I have the same thinking too but don't lose hope.😊 When were you graduated?
2016 😅😁
Oh I see. Don't give up, :)
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Insecurity breeds jealousy and we need to wan off insecurities in our lives so that we can always be happy and appreciative about the progress of other people When we are not happy about other people’s progress, we make ourselves victims of unhappiness, cos we won’t be happy at all
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Wow I learned from your article..
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Wow. I'm touched. ahaha.thanks again
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This one is one of my favorite articles. 😅
yeah... i recently got rejected by @bithi13 apu but I am not gonna give up until the end😓😓 anyways, good article. it helps me as and sometimes I also feel insecure and embarrase to do things that I am bad at. But I am trying to ignore my flaws and if anybody likes me with the flaws. I welcome him but if not, he/she can ignore me 😅😅 I wouldn't mind😉
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