Similarities: First Love, Second Love, Third Love

Are you a love expert?

Can you tell if there is a difference between Great Love and True Love?

Is there even such thing?

Is I love you the same with I love you so much?

Or

Are these just Similar and we are just kind of exaggerating?

A study shows a person can fall in Love with 3 different People in a Lifetime

1. First Love

This love usually happens we were too young. During our highschool days or those that we call highschool sweethearts. Most often people expect this to be forever only to realize they cannot successfully handle a lot of differences and since we are young we still do not know how to cope with those challenges be it from the attitude, family, vices (if there is), passion. So it ends up calling it quits. There are some partners who were lucky to find their "meant to be" or "Great Love" during early age and got married to that same person but in most cases this love fails because we are still too young to deal with all the hardships that may come into a relationship.

We may also say that our First Love was not a True Love just because it did not end up well but it is. It is TRUE because by that time that was the definition of Love for us. Just that as we grow older we get to realize that there is so much than giving chocolates, flowers, cakes and dates.

1. Second Love

This Love is considered to be the most painful. This is considered the "hard love" and this is when you would realize you should have set standard. It is when you grow. You get to think of better what ifs but it gets too hard for you to give up that it will makes to be like a cycle. Getting hurt all over again and with the same issue.

1. Third Love

This is something that you did not expected. This Love comes when you least expect for anyone to Love you especially if you are trying to get over with a Second Love. Unlike the past Loves I can say you would mature on this part but this would come easy. It will be like the Love that you never thought you needed after all the past loves. This will Love will prove you that you deserve more.

Now where the Similarities falls?

It does not actually mean that your FIRST LOVE, SECOND LOVE and THIRD LOVE would come from different person. There are cases when you would only get to meet that SINGLE person in your life and feel all of these. Cases are the person could have matured enough and changed for the better in order to keep you. Just that, in unfortunate cases some people could have found their Great Love when they were already married. While on the other hand, some people who love each other so much would experience Second Love. It is like, they would experience all the odds and people around be against them that they would end up giving up but despite finding a different person they may have chosen to be with their heart still secretly long for that past love that they had to let go.

We have both similarities and differences its just up to us how to deal with it. One thing that a couple could have in SIMILAR is their motto towards relationship:"We will only fight but we won't break up". In cases like you have similar mindset and ready to grow together then surely things would work.

One love story I know is that my mother's best friend. When they met with the guy she is married now both of them were trying to move on from their past loves but despite so many years they have not developed that same love they had from those people. I do not know if it is just lack of effort or they may have not realized it just yet. But when the man met his past love he was out of reach for a couple of months and tried to actually lived with that woman. On the other hand my mothers best friend was not affected because she realize she did not love the man at all but they have kids. She was just frustrated as to why the man even stopped sending what they agreed for the kids at least for her kids since she is working and has her own bakery shop so she do not depend on the mans income as in most cases it gets delayed or sometimes nothing would be given to them for a couple of months. The man was working abroad by the way.

We really cannot tell to whom and to how many people we would have to meet til we find our Great Love but this does not mean those Love we felt from previous relationships were or was not TRUE.

...end thoughts...

Whatever Love are you currently in just remember that you are worth it. Do not depend your happiness to anyone and learn to love yourself so just in case you are experiencing that Second Love you would still have something left for you.

Referred the information from the link below but what I stated from this article was my own understanding and words based on what I have read and based from what I have experience so as what I learned from other people:

Source : https://www.kiss925.com/2017/03/11/study-shows-fall-love-3-people-lifetime-one-specific-reason/

I hope you enjoyed reading this article. Have a wonderful day ahead everyone.xx

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