Quit it! ASAP!

When realizations hit us we are given options to either do something to change how we deal with people or just continue with the old ways.

Today though as I scrolled down Facebook, I saw a certain post in my news feed that caught my attention and somehow made me realize things about Life. If you noticed, I am not more on Cryptocurrency but I am more into Life Lessons, Realizations and Own Experiences. This is not to plagiarized but to relate on the said post. See the the source at the bottom of this article.

So here are some bad habits that we need to quit to have a more peaceful life:

Yep. Oftentimes I hear people gossiping about how other people bring themselves or make decisions with their lives. Please be mindful that other peoples lives is never your business. Some may easily say that we better neglect these people but there are just some of them who can ruin your reputation and if we kept on just neglecting them we would end up being judge. So better to correct them or face them in a diplomatic way. To those people who cares so much about others life, check your souls. (LOL!)

I always tell this to my partner. Never ever post in Social Media about our plans or his plans, if possible even his success especially when it involves monetary because some people would want us to do good but never better than them.

I believe that there are insecure individuals who may wish ill to us just so we cannot get what we aim for especially when they see that we are getting better. Have you ever heard about "BAD MOUTHING"?

Once a person is successful a lot may do something to drag him/her down and would talk ill about him/her. "Crab mentality" is present wherever you go that is why we have to be careful.

Personally speaking I do not post anymore in Facebook about read.cash and noise.cash. People are only interested on how much I am earning but never on where did I earn it. And when they knew they would think it is my advantage if they sign up for referral.

Well personally, there is nothing wrong if we complain at least once and it should be addressed to the person in charge. It is a different story though if we complain on Social Media, posting our problems there and shaming people. If you have something against a restaurant or person better send a private message or file legal proceedings not through cyber bullying.

There will always 2 sides of the story. Before you answer questions about a certain issue make sure you confirm the details or better yet shut up especially if it does not concern you. One thing about being human is we are fan of commenting on other peoples lives as if we can handle ours perfectly. So if your opinion is not needed then sshhhh.

All hail! This is a slap on someones face! Stop being hypocrite and pretend you are perfect when you are not! Let us all be honest WE ARE STRUGGLING. YOUR LIFE IS NOT PERFECT SO AS MINE! Most of us tends to look down people not knowing you might do worse when you are on the same shoe.

I am guilty. I tend to park things I can do today because I want to enjoy my rest day without minding of those things. Example, I needed to pile up our clean clothes in the cabinet but I am not in the mood to even do a thing. Are we the same? (LMAO!)

Well I am guilty on this too. But it may depend. I cannot go on ranting about my life to someone who I do not trust so of course when we are not close and you ask me if how am I, it will leave me no choice but to say I am okay just to end the topic. But if its about family issues then better be open. Your partner is cannot read minds. Be bold, (not physically lol!) or transparent. One factor of a healthy relationship is a good communication.

This is something I am working on for the past few months. I forgot about myself because I was too focus of being a breadwinner and provider. Now I am making sure I have something left for me. I want to feel loved and give myself a reward for doing a good job when nobody seems to appreciate. You do the same, okay? You are worthy. You are enough. Remember that.

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Let us start to work and focus on ourselves alone. Peace of mind is way better than making a point or proving your worth to someone.

Here's the source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=500296518029351&id=118881462837527&sfnsn=mo