Yesterday, we had a pre-cana seminar with my partner at the church.
The speakers were together with their spouse. They were flexing how many years theyve been together and how many kids theyve had... And how strong their relationship is...
Most of them are married for more than 30 years.
It is nice to see those couple and very admiring. They somehow gave me a glint of hope that my decision is right. I got no doubt though but since we had previous problems and challenges with my partner I got a lil scared knowing that marriage is on to the next level.
I maybe having a cold feet as the day is getting near.
What about you? Are you married? Hows life so far?
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@Glez
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1 month ago
Sense no one answered the "Are you married?" question, I guess I will. Yes! I am married! I'm married to my work, and I love it so much!...lol
I've never been married, but had a few or more offers. Women want hard working men, but that comes with him not being around a lot. When you are driven as a man should be, it takes a very special woman to travel the journey with you, long-term.
I will say this. My life is Amazing and I wouldn't trade it for anything! Don't you hate when people make statements like that? Of course I would trade up, otherwise what's the point of the journey, right?...lol
I will say this too. Don't focus so much on your partner and his faults. If you do, you will find them. Instead focus on how you can become a better woman, happy, loving, honest, and true. Don't mimic women in the west, like the United States. American women have been mentally programmed to be undesirable for mate selection, let alone marriage. Keep kindness and love in your heart. The Universe has a way of balancing things out, when your focus is on the right things.
Have a good night/day Glez! Michaelson