Life Lessons; Read Me

I suppose surprises are a part of life. Sometimes we learn things by accident and wonder, "Why didn't I know this earlier?"

But what if we could discover some of these life lessons up front, rather than having to learn them the hard way, maybe we would say life is perfect. Today I made mistakes, yesterday was the same and now, I'm working for a perfect tomorrow. But what if mistakes happen again tomorrow? Should that be a room for regret? No it is not because nobody is perfect. I chose to be happy inside because happiness is a decision not always an outcome.

Happiness is a Decision, Not an Outcome.

Isn't it simple to imagine yourself satisfied if you receive that promotion or purchase that new car or achieve that long term goal?

We frequently associate happiness with a result or material item. But let's face it, happiness is not an outcome. It's a decision.

Yes, completing our goals and gaining new items might make us happier momentarily. But genuine, long-lasting joy? That originates internally. It results from making the decision to be joyful despite the circumstances.

Try this instead: choose to be happy now rather than waiting for something to make you happy. Enjoy the little things in life. Respect what you already have. Perhaps you'll discover that happiness is closer than you realize. Meanwhile, you were already living it before someone that good thing happened.

Each person is equally lost as you are.

Have you ever felt like everyone else has it together when you glance around? Here's an intriguing fact, though: they don't.

People frequently overestimate how well-organized other people's lives are. In actuality, everyone is learning as they go along. We're all in the same boat since life doesn't come with a manual therefore no one writes his script of life as he wants. Try it and you get the opposite on a good day

Growing up, I always believed that you needed to have your life worked out by a certain age. However, it's never too late to start.

It's never too late to start

As I write this, I am talking to and inspiring myself. The things I had wanted to do, the things I have refused to do and the opportunities I have failed to grab all coming to play in my head. People will always come out to say they want this they want that, but they won't start the process of achieving what it is they want. Some people will be like "You know, love my life,get married by 30, acquire a stable career by 25, and retire at 40... But there is no predetermined schedule for life. Like I mentioned earlier, nobody writes his or her script of life.

The trip itself and where it leads you are what matters, not when you start, whether you're considering a career change, a new pastime, or even having a family.

Don't allow your age to stop you from going after your goals!

So keep in mind that you are not alone the next time you feel like you are the only one having trouble figuring things out. We're all simply attempting to understand this thing we call life! It's everywhere and everybody is complaining

Keep Your Relationships Healthy

It's simple to overlook the individuals who matter to us the most in the midst of life's hustle and bustle.

We frequently ignore our relationships because we are so focused on achieving our goals and checking off all the boxes.

Here's a sincere reminder: don't hold off on telling people how much they mean to you until it's too late.

Don't let someone's passing prevent you from appreciating their worth in your life. A satisfying existence is built on relationships. They provide us happiness, comfort, and a feeling of community.

Therefore, schedule time for your loved ones. Please express your gratitude. One important thing you might have noticed in this hustle of life is that, when someone dies, that person becomes even more popular than the person was when alive. People from nowhere send condolences and share the grief but maybe what killed that person was just common attention. Treat the relationships in your life like the priceless jewels they are. At the end of the day, what really matters is not what we have, but who we have in our lives. We should remember others as long as we care for ourselves.

Care for Oneself Is Not Selfish

In the past, I believed that caring for myself was selfish.

It felt inappropriate to take some time for myself since my family, friends, and job were all demanding my attention.

However, I quickly discovered a crucial lesson: you can't pour from an empty cup. Now you know how important it is to work for a living. The people you're relying on now will rely on you tomorrow. Tomorrow, you will not wait to be given before you buy your cream and make necessary contributions.

Thanks for your time one again. We live to win!

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