"When a man is broken, he can destroy everyone around him by what he does. When a woman is broken, she can destroy everyone around her by what she says. That's why for a man, "self-control" is his greatest power and for a woman, "silence" is hers.
When a man has learnt not to be out of control, but to be out of people's control because he has self control, that's a powerful man. A woman who has learned to be silent doesn't mean to be "silence"
I am "silent" because I'm watching. I am "silent " because I'm observing. I'm "silent " because I'm waiting for the opportunity to speak and when I speak people listen . When I speak, the room listens and not only do they listen they take heed to what I'm saying because there's wisdom that's coming out of my mouth"
Good morning/ good afternoon/ good evening depending on your time. Whoever is reading this must have been in an argument at least for once in life, now that's human nature. A person who thinks should argue especially in opposition thoughts. Whatever the reason for the argument is, how do you argue and how do you control the situation which is very important to have a peaceful argument with your friend or family.
We think, we argue and this leads to an argument which could potentially lead to a fight. One of us must have witnessed a fight through an argument, sometimes it doesn't end well.
In the early hours of today just across the street, a woman was heard screaming for help. Luckily, two men who were jogging the streets came to her help before everyone else. It happened that her husband beat her up for the first time since their union. She couldn't believe such could happen until she found herself screaming.
According to her husband, it was just a slap while according to his wife, she escaped death. No one knows what exactly happened but it downed everyone that it was a fight due to an argument. The husband who later explained that he slapped his wife because he got angry the rude way she was replying to him in their argument. He said he couldn't take anymore before his unnecessary actions...
Now that was domestic but I learnt that his wife lost control of her mouth which her husband fixed with a slap. How do we argue with our partners irrespective of our gender and positions. Things could work better even without an argument but why would it result in a fight. Women, please try to understand that in an argument you could control it by listening when a man is talking. We all have a lot at heart to voice out but systematically doing that determines the accuracy and result of our side in the argument.
Thanks for your time and have a blissful day
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