Love is really a beautiful thing but it becomes abuse when it get to the wrong hands that cannot handle it with care and admiration, it becomes scam when people refuse to appreciate it.

lf you seek for true love you will definitely find it keep searching what worthwhile takes time to find, and when you finally finds it don't take it for granted just think back and remember the sacrifice you made.

True love is something very Important it's the main key that everyone desire for, every human beings both the animals desire for love because those four letter words are very very important in today's 21st century age.

I have notice things through my little experience and what love simply is, for example I have notice that in a given group, if someone does not shown love to, admired or is been celebrated bet me it will be very difficult for such person to stay longer in the group.

lt is said that what worthwhile takes time love is a costly thing there are some hidden treasure that is inside of love which I'm going to show you as you keep on reading, true love is so precious that is why it looks some how difficult to find.

It's just like diamond and gold those are hidden treasures which is not easy to find so fast before one can get these treasures you must undergo some protocol, procedures and some researching on how to be successful in getting them.

You don't just wake up and get it, you work for it and that is how I can describe true love as you undergo the skill and strategies.. Some people see it as luck but I don't see it that's way for instance if you believe in luck I will ask you a simple question and if you can quote me wrong by giving the correct answers then I will start believing in luck rather than destiny.

can you be a gardener planting flowers or planting farm growing other crops and you leave it for luck without weeding without taking any activity and you expect to have good harvest at the harvest season?,

A crop that is cultivated where weed are surrounded can not produce like the one that is probably cultivated and weeding is done probably, likewise driving a fuel car and you expect to drive the car without fuel just because of luck, I tell you no matter how beautiful and smart the car looks like it will not move without you fuelling it.

Meaning of true love

True love is a kind of love that's beyond imaginations, like the level of caring, commitment, loving and being there for one another despise the heavy rain fall there serves as umbrella to one.

No matter how wider or how deeper the river is, when true love is involve the two lovers wouldn't mind crossing the river with a plack just to be with each other.

True love is having deep feelings about someone , it is a way of having an intense affectionate towards someone like they are people who are really in love with one another which nothing or nobody can separate them from each other and this types of people can't stay without seeing or hearing from each other.

This is a type of love that the two party would be so madly in love with each other and sometimes when people sees them together they know that there's something stronger that binds them together.

They are some certain things that defines true love;

• True love is really addressing problems and solving challenges together not by avoiding.

• People who truly love each other easily forgives and move on their lives.

• They like respecting each other.

• They listen to themselves.

• True love values one another.

• True love comes with patience.

• True love brings in happiness between the both parties.

Guys/ladies attitude in today's 21st century love

The same thing happen here to the true love of 21st century there are most female and male desiring or searching for true love without having what it takes to sponsor the affairs I tell you nothing but the truth not that they don't exist is just that the rules have changed because we are now in the instant noodles generation where humans mentality are no longer in dull moment.

This people need something sharp sharp they don't have time to wait gone are those days of endurance and the most funiest fact is that when a girl meet with a guy and along the way she notices that the guy is not ready to spend on her she will backslide in the sense that she'll start behaving somehow by telling herself that the guy doesn't love her not knowing that the guy in the order where round is using the proverbs the birds uses with the hunter saying "since men are shutting without missing we are also flyng without piercing" how did you quickly know that he doesn't love you why not wait to see the outcome?.

Research has reveal that guy's of nowadays spend for those who deserves it they spend with one reason or the order, they spend for those who wait, smart guys will not spend much on what they don't benefit from, they don't spend for spending sake they spend with target they hardly spend on those they don't gain from they easily detect those that comes for money.

I once asked a guy how do you know those that comes for money and he quickly replied me that a master was once a disaster that a smart guy was once a dull guy that a smart guy choose to be smart by learning a lesson from his dullness.

That means the mistakes he made during his dull time he told me be wise and he remind me of the saying that says". By their fruit you shall know them" some girls of nowadays is when they ask for money or any material thing the smart guys will tell them they don't have that is when you hear you are not serious, they will tell you that you are not a serious person at this point the smart guys will say but babe you know I love you.

Girls will reply that they are aware from there the relationship will start sinking down slowly and the wise guys would say "gone are those days we use to plead girls to stay those that would stay would stay and those that will leave will leave".. Soldier comes soldier goes, and the worst that is happening right now is once a guy ask a girl out and you don't reply them back or one way or the other you want to think about it, they will leave you to think very well they will not approach you the second time and girl will say after all you are not the only guy and this is why true love is very very scary in today's 21st century and it is the smart technology that changes the mentality of dull guys and girls to smart ones.

And at this juncture this is where we started having girls grouping their selves and guys grouping their selves also giving titles to themselves and this two parties play a rule of trying to scam each other because they are not ready for true love anymore what they are after is money and material thing not love anymore.

When everything exposes that this is what is going on between the both parties, the two parties would now switch the girls will go for sugar Daddies while the guys will go for sugar mummies..

And finally the girls now some would turn to lesbian since they were tire of false promises from different guys and sugar daddy, likewise with guys they will turn into hormosexual and this is where the true love slumber and suffered.

Is love a scam?

If love was truly scam I don't think the name love would truly be in existence till today, though most people have concluded that love is scam but I don't really see it like scam because anything that is scam cannot be practicalise in today's world, and has also been practiced in the past decade by many and it still exist till date.

They are prices to be payed

They are prices to be payed before achieving what is truly good for you, nothing good comes easy and in very successful life there's a story behind, they have all paid the price in one way or the order.

True is all about sacrifice there are something you need to be let go sometimes for peace to reign, it's not everything you will need your right at everytime, the price to be paid might not be money only but it can be a time sacrifice where by one needs to sacrifice a whole night just to be with one another.

Price can be payed through sacrificing your time, your effort and discomforts yourself by keeping away your high ranking, by taking off all the clothes of pride and come down as a little boy just to be equal with one another.

Price can be payed through coming out of your comfort zone and begins life by taking responsibility rather than being a liability, here both of the party would face temptation together and be able overcome it.

What type of guys would ladies love to marry?

I like asking questions, I once asked a beautiful lady this question and immediately she heard the question she flashed a little smile on her face and she didn't answered my question, being the kind of person I am I quickly notice that she's a shy type I then change to objective questions like, what type of a guy would you like to marry is it one that has money, someone that loves you or a guy you love most?.

She replied that most girls doesn't really go for the guys that have money in terms of marriage, that they rather go for those that loves them being romantic to them, and being caring

So I asked her what about money don't you know that money is everything? She said that she doesn't look at money first that money would come later, and she asked me what if he has money and lacks attitude? And I couldn't answer her anymore so we ended the discussion since I was able to get some few words from her, I don't really know if what she said if is really the truth about the type of guys that ladies what to marry you can also contribute your own knowledge at the comments box for others to also learn from it.

What type of ladies would guys love to marry?

Having being able to reach out to so many guys and get in touch with their feelings about what they really want in ladies. The type of ladies that guys would really want to marry is also ladies that are romantic, humble, being caring and being respectful to them and to people in the society.

In conclusion we can really see that true love really still exist because must people are hoping to get married and spend the rest of their lives with people that are romantic, loving and caring types which simply everyone desire true love.

True love do exist and love is not really a scam it's just that most people have abused love and some fail to appreciate it.

When the value of a thing is unknown abuse is inevitable they say, which means most people abuse love because they don't know it's value.

Thanks for reading..

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