Become a better you

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There is nothing that a man desire that he doesn't have, except you don't know what you are really looking for, it's said whatever you want you can also have, if you think positive you will also have it positive and if you think negative you also have it negative, your thoughts towards you is exactly how you are, we all have choice you can decide to improve yourself and you can also decide not to so everything goes down to our different choice and choice become the most important things in a person's life.

It is never too late or too early to do those things we always wanted to do, Know that you don't need to explain yourself to everyone you see, live for yourself rather than living for other people and don't always put your confidence on your friends or on your family because friends or family will only support you, and it is not everything that they will do for you, there are some that you have to do it by yourself, if you doubt the power of coming out of comfort zone, you will only see others who have determined to come out of their own comfort zone succeeding, and if you keep enjoying in your own comfort zone your comfort zone will destroy your life because life starts at the end of the comfort zone.

There is always a possibility to feel wrong and still do what is right you can be in an unexcited state and still do what is right this will only happen when you don't allow your emotions to control you, but no matter what happened choose the right don't be deceived by your emotions we have desire, we have imagination and we also have feelings they're all inside us, So we shouldn't give away for all these things to control us rather we should be the one controlling them, I once write on a topic no pains no gain everything in life will require from us a price which is always painful and before we can get a good reward we have a price to paid for.

If you want to become a better you never ever stop learning I once asked a question and my question was, when can a man stop learning? and they reply I had was that a man stop learning the day he dies, that simply goes to us individually if we really want to become the best out of life we shouldn't put in laziness in place of learning new things everyday, we shouldn't misuse any of our precious time in our lives I mean a seconds, a minutes or an hour of our lives to be a waste, it is that said that readers are leaders and if you really want to become a leader of tomorrow you will start to day and get prepare don't stop reading it is in the place of reading that you will discover some hidden secret, a white man once said if you want to hide something from a black man put it under a book he even read it without having the understanding.

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You can become a better you by believing much on yourself, believe on what you can do and the power that is inside you, once you know the power that you have there's nothing that will decieve you at all, the devil is a fearful being but the language he uses is fear once he notice that you don't know your stand in christ believe me he will use you like a football, you can become a real you by knowing your right and without doubting your ability the moment you doubt whether you can fly you cease forever to be able to do it.

You can be come a better you through the following;

  • Always compare yourself to yourself, a lion is a lion, a lion cannot be compare to goat, don't want to be like another person but rather be like yourself be happy with the person that you are don't quickly want to be like other people and also have the same achievement they have achieved, be happy with the little you have, know that where you are today that others are also aspiring to get there.

  • Don't ever share your personal life with everyone, know those that you share your life secret with for it's not everyone who carries a beautiful face that also carries a beautiful thought in their mind, for we don't know their mind for the heart of men are full of evil, remember this, for these people worship me with their lips but not with thier heart, it is not everyone that we should share all our personal life with to avoid some problems.

  • Don't ever use negative words against yourself for it's stated in the law of attractions that like attracts like, if you are the person that always use negative against yourself you will also have in it negative and there's no too ways about it, it's not a matter of magic, it is garbage in garbage out.

  • Don't ever waste any minute of your time, make a clear idea of what you want to do. Make plans ahead it is not good to stay without plans, if you're without plans what will you present to God or someone and asking for support, make a good plan that if you put your best on it and you will have success from it.

  • Take time for yourself, you can put your trust on yourself rather than putting them on someone's else, invest wisely on yourself knowing that if you fail yourself it's you who creates the failure because if other people fail you it will be so painful seeing the level of disappointment. So I will simply advice you to make yourself your number one best friend.

Thanks for reading.

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Thank you so much for all of this. I need to work this one for myself, really. Big time!

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You welcome friend thanks for thanking me.

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Thank you for this wonderful reminder! I badly need to become a better version of myself, this article is really of help. 😊

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Thanks for stopping by friend, to do a good thing at the right time is not a time wasted, we can be come what we want in life by using the positive side rather the negative aspect it's all our choice.

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Thank you @Gently, sometimes negativity takes over me that's why I can't develop my abilities to its best but I will take it one step at a time while practicing to have positive thoughts so that I can become more of what I am today. Thank you.

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You're welcome friend I wish you success.

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Thanks a lot! :)

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I agree, don't tell your life especially your problems to other people. Some of them are not so interested and some are secretly happy that you have them

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That's really the truth it's not every body that are interested in your story some might be happy in your presence and behind your back they tell bad words against you.

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Absolutely! I used to compare my self to others often this is a great reminder mate we should not compete to others just be ahead of them instead we should compete to ourselves. Nice to meet you❣️

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Thanks for stopping by and nice to meet you too.

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