Hello everyone, first allow me to say sorry if I haven't read your articles. Honestly I'm very much upset tonight, because of the incident that had happen this afternoon, that is why I'm not active. Everybody at home knows how hyper my son was, and it's hurts as they thought that I didn't took care of him very well, that I'm being irresponsible mother to my son because of what had happen. I know that they are just worried for my son, but how about me as his mom? Above all I'm the one who's worried the most as I am his mom, but accusing me being irresponsible is hurting me so much, I'm very much upset and I can't help not to cry. Accident is always accident and we really can't avoid that, but their accusation is painful to a mom who did nothing but the best for her own child. Even I'm always at his side, i still can't predict what will happen next to avoid it 💔, even when we were just playing he also accidentally fell as he was very hyper. I know that I'm not a perfect mom and I couldn't be, but I'm not irresponsible mother. I'm sorry for my rant's, I'm just really upset. Actually Not at always I'm okay, but most of the time I pretend to be okay as nobody cares to listen. Anyway my son is okay, it was actually a minor bump that leaves his forehead red.
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Ohhh, I am really sorry to hear that. I know this is very painful for you and only you can feel this pain. But don’t be sad dear, everything will be alright and sooner or later your son will know the actual value of you. We always hope and pray for better days. God bless you and help you to move on from this situation.
Don't blame yourself sis, it was just all accident. Hope that you were okay too and with your son also.
I'm sorry ☹️. Everything is going to be ok. 🙏
Am so sorry to hear that... Pls don't beat yourself up too much. Thank God it was a minor incident and your son is doing well now. Take care
Dear Garreth I'm so sad about what happened to your son, thank God you said he's fine now. This is perfectly normal for children of this age. As a child, I once ran after my mother on the stairs and fell, my head broke and I was stitched. No one allowed himself to blame my mother. Because the mother is the first person to even put a skewer on her child, her heart burns. Do not worry my dear, and stand strong despite all criticism and blame...
How dare any of them question about you and your unconditional love for your children? I know you are a good mother but such accusations make anyone feel weak. Sorry about the whole matter.
hey ma'am you are a good mom, doesn't matter what people says. It's their job to always say others and criticizes others. be chilled and do not worry what others say))
They are worried and overreact over the situation and forget that you are the one who gets hurt the most if something happens to your child. Ignore them anyway, blaming you won't help, they only add up to the heat. Thank God your son was okay now.
Everything will be fine. Its quite natural that if anything goes wrong with children, they blame the mother and none else. It happens. Nobody is perfect dear. Just take care of your son and let him get well soon. Take care of your health also.
Sending my warm hugs sis. Just never mind their accusations, though I know it hurts . As long as you know it within yourselves youre a great Mom.