Hello reader's and writer's good evening. I hope you are all safe at the moment. As we all know that some places are experiencing the current tropical cyclones Maring. Keep safe no matter what. And since we always faced these kind of situation I know we have already familiarise with what we should do incase the situation get worsen. May God our Creator send his protection to each one of us.

Anyway I'll continue to my main topic for today. Which on how we gonna make ourselves more likeable. Actually I have already posted these content in my noise.cash account before. You can check it from this link if you like to https://noise.cash/post/18v95kpjcash/.

As we all know we can't make all people to like us. But we can always make ourselves likable. It is simply by becoming aware of our weaknesses and trying to improve those are something that we can do. It might be a good idea for each of us if we have someone that we trusted a lot to help us. We can simply asked them if they have noticed anything, that might make it harder for us to find friends. Just like the old me, I'm always struggling in making friends, but it is actually because I'm shy and I really don't know how to interact other people. But even now that I already know how to make friends, it is still a good idea if I can still figure out those things that might makes making friends harder. It is helpful to make an honest look at myself, if I am that someone that I'd like to be around. But first i must know my blind spot. By knowing our blind spot, it may help us to improve our weaknesses. I know that it ain't easy for us to find our blind spot, as we think that we were good enough and we don't have anything to prove or to change just be everyone's friend. Well yeah, we don't need to change ourselves just to become likable to others. But there's also no harm if we become aware at our own blind spot right?

Anyway, I'll try to asked you this following questions. Maybe you have something to adjust. And I'll also share my own thoughts.

Have you been told that your too loud and inappropriate?

Well in my part I haven't, as I am an introvert and shy. I used to stay silent in a corner, and I think that's the reason why people don't want to be my friends. Maybe I looked boring, oh no! I'm definitely boring 😂. How do I look likeable if I'm silent and shy 😅.

Have you even tried to ask your friends if they are okay or is it always about you? Can those around you barely get a word?

Like, you were talking with your friends and you always keep on telling them about your problems, your thoughts etc. have they get a chance to say something? Or maybe it's only you who talked a lot and they just keep on listening.

I remember a friend of mine who used to act that way. Whenever were together I can't barely say something, that's why I took myself away from her. I felt that I don't have any words and only ears. Can you imagine being with someone who never thought about your feelings? Would you like to be friends with that kind of person?

Do you practice a better hygiene? Bathe more often and use deodorant frequently?

Oh well, it is really important to have a better hygiene in any aspects. I think even our own family won't like us if we smell bad.😂

Do you take yourself way too seriously or do you always make everything a joke?

In my part, at some point I took myself more seriously. That is why I easily get offended 😅. But I think not that much anymore, as I can now handle a joke 😜.

Do you think you're better than everyone else? Or do you always put yourself down?

Before I always put myself down. It's all because of my past experiences. I always think that I'm a loser and everyone hates me. It's kinda hard living in world that full of judgemental 😅. But I'm better now, I have finally overcome those bad experiences I have in my past.

So when it comes to make ourselves more likable, we must fucos on things that we can control, not on the things that we can't. We can't control our heights, our features and our body types. But we can control our personal hygiene, our mannerisms and the way we carry ourselves.

God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Disclaimer:

This article is just my own opinion only 😊.

That's all for today's blog. Thanks for reading ❤️

October 12,2021 23:23

Lead image is originally mine, edited from photo logo maker.