Even on bad terms, loyalty should never change

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Many people think because they are having grudges with one's partners, they should use it as an avenue to put on some mischievous act or they shouldn't be loyal to their partner. That's shouldn't be so, it is an avenue to try hard and set our priorities right so that you guys can be back. I know this topic I am about to write on facing the relationship aspect is far from my age but it is all base on what I have seen or heard and not from what I have experience as a person and I will try my best to do justice to it.

Back to where I stopped before diverting you all attentions, I am sorry, pardon my manner. The fact that there are constant issues with your partner or let me say friends too should not give you room to step on your loyalty and put it into the mud. Learn from the story of two lovers who they can't do without themselves.

Let's begin;

There are these two lovers who are so much into themselves right from their secondary school days, they started as a friend while in primary school and they started dating when they got to secondary school. They went to different universities but they still keep in touch with each other despite the distance even though they both stay in the same area. Their love grows stronger every day and they become so intimate with each other.

There are days where they argue and misunderstood themselves but they do settle it amicably within themselves without inviting third parties. Their parents knew about their love and they accepted it wholeheartedly. They were wedded and started their new home.

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One day, the husband came back from work and met his wife with a guy in the house. The way he met them speaks a lot of meaning and he went out angrily without waiting for her wife to explain anything.

How did he meet them?

The guy he met his wife with was his friend back then in university. They were coursemates and the guy has been disturbing her about dating her but she didn't accept. The mistake she did was she didn't tell him about his relationship with his husband but she didn't accept. So the guy called her to come and greet her about her marriage but the outcome changed. He came to still beg her to marry her and he tried to seduce her too. The wife was standing and facing the wall showing a sign of No about his begging but the guy came through from the back holding her waist telling her he loves her but the wife refused and was trying to push him away and that was when the husband came in. The man didn't wait for an explanation before he left angrily.

Back to the present;

The man left home for days and didn't come back home. The wife tried calling but he didn't pick, he went everywhere searching for him but can't find him. The husband went to stay with a female friend that he has during university days also and was flirting with the lady since her wife was also cheating from his conclusion.

The parent of the husband called him to go back to his wife and hear her out but he refused. He forgot the good old days where they were best of friends when they can't do without each other, they were so loyal to each other, he forgets it all. The wife went out for a business meeting one day, and when she was done with what she went to do, she was not able to go back home because it was dark. So she decides to lodge in a hotel till the next morning when she got there guess who she met?

It was her husband and the lady ( his coursemates back then in University), they plan to pass the night there too. The husband was shocked to see her after some months, he was ashamed of himself for his behaviour towards her. He told the lady he came with to please excuse them, and she complies because they only agreed to flirt with each other till he comes back to his wife. The man and the wife went to a quiet place to discuss and the wife explained everything that had happened the other day. She was bitterly crying for what her husband did, within the few days that they had issues, he has already thrown away his loyalty towards her and make mention the word that " Even on bad terms, loyalty should never change ".

The husband on hearing this wept bitterly too and regretted all his actions and all that he did to her, he begged his wife and they both settled everything that night. And they continued to how they have been together from day one.

Lesson

No matter the issue that might come up between you and your partner or friend, you shouldn't throw your loyalty into the mud because the issue will only last for few days and not forever, so why do that. Learn to keep your loyalty any day anytime.

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23rd August,2021.

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Keeping grudge kills faster than anything in this world, it was hard for the man but I dont know who to put the blame on...but I learnt generally about listening and communication and I love how it ended. Thanks for this bro

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3 years ago

Such is a mistake done while in the midst of anger. That's why we always have to hear each other's side of the story. It differs when the other does it often then that's the time we have to not let our guards down so to speak.

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3 years ago

When one is angry truly,what the husband did is truly what many will do but we need to be patient enough to listen to what others have to say before we decide truly. Thank you ma

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3 years ago

Yes, that's true. You're welcome :)

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3 years ago

That's so harsh from the man. He didn't wait for an explanation, though the woman was also at fault for inviting the man to her matrimonial home. And also the man lacks Patience because if he doesn't, he would value her and their relationship enough to see beyond her “faults.”

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3 years ago

You have rightly said,the patience was not there for him and that alone ruin everything. Thanks for engaging

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3 years ago

Firstly paying evil with evil doesn't end well for either of the people involved in it. The guy shouldn't have done such, he should have the least wait and listen to what, unfortunately for him it ended with regrets for him.

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3 years ago

Yes you are right,he should have waited to hear her out but he wasn't calm enough. We should have patient and never because of grudges lost our loyalty. Thanks for engaging

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3 years ago

He threw away his loyalty to his wife. It's normal for a man to react on meeting his wife in an awkward position with another man but he shouldn't have gone as far as leaving her alone. That's completely lack of trust and indeed, he threw away his loyalty to her at that moment.

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3 years ago

Yes, they have gone far beyond making a fast decision of leaving the house. He should have trusted her wife and wait for her to explain, he threw the loyalty in the mud. Thanks for engaging

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3 years ago

While reading the post, I thought of the movie Unfaithful

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3 years ago

An Indian movie right? I think I've seen that.

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No, it was made in the early 2000s, played by Richard Gere

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3 years ago

Alright. I guess we're talking about different movies with the same name. I know an Indian movie with similar name, I watched it about 2008 or so.

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3 years ago

Maybe it's the same thing. There's a married couple I'm talking about. A woman cheats on her husband with another man, albeit unwillingly. This forbidden love goes back to the death of the man who later joined the couple. It is difficult to predict where the forbidden relations will end.

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