Marriage counsels for Couples

Many people always thought that love is enough to sustain a marital journey with your spouse or partner. In the real sense of it, Marriage is not always full of bed of roses or a journey based on a platter of gold. Marriage as we all know has its own different challenges that's faced by both partners in marital relationship. There are many marital counsels and advices out there to make your home a happy one. Nevertheless for a marriage to work out, it has to come from the joint efforts of both partners. A marriage can only work when both partners are willing to make it work amidst all odds. Here are some marriage tips that should be understood by people wanting to step into the marital journey or those that are already in it.

1. He that troubles his own house shall inherit the wind. Inheriting the wind in this context means achieving nothing. If as a man or woman in a marriage, you are always in the act of troubling your other partner or spouse, you can't get peace of mind either and you won't be able to gain anything meaningful from such relationship. Peace of mind and tranquility is very important in marital relationships. Troubling yourselves in marriage won't do any of you good. It's when there is peace and mutual love that you can plan together and accomplish many big things together as couples.

2. It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house. This shows that nagging is not something that pleases anybody in a relationship. Brawls and nags makes a relationship tiring either romantic relationships or even friendly relationship. Husbands with nagging women will want to avoid them like a plague at all costs. Some people have spoiled their marriage because they can't control their anger and vent it out through nagging. In a situation whereby your husband is reserved and doesn't like shouting, nagging whenever there is misunderstanding between you both won't solve it, instead it will make your husband to run far from home. Nagging and brawling all about makes a house to be uncomfortable for a man.

3. Every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one plucks it down with her hands. Women are always known to be house keeper. You must be able to build your own home as a good wife. Caring, good character and submissiveness helps in building a good home. When we are talking about a home, it consist of the children too. A wife must be submissive to her husband if she wants to build her home to a very good one. If you can't build your house as a virtuous woman, then you are not considered wise enough. It's only an unwise woman who will pull down her own home with her foolish behaviors. Many wives have done worse things in their marriage that have led to divorce.

Beauty is not enough to sustain a marriage. A beautiful woman lacking discretion and modesty is like a fine gold ring in a pig's snout. You must be modest and discreet in everything you do as a woman. There are many beautiful women with bad characters. As you improve on your beauty, improve on becoming more better in your personality.

What works for others in marriage may not work for others too. However there are some ideal tips that works for most couples. Marriage is a beautiful thing and should be enjoyed by couples.