I'm pretty sure that all of us have experienced the departure of the people who are important to us, right? Just one word will really describe how a person is left behind: Hurt.
For various reasons, this is happening. After all, things are happening for a reason, that everyone in your life can just go through, or stay until your last breath. Sometimes you even get to that point, as if you don't want to trust again. It is also tiring because you start with each other's identities, but that is exactly what will happen in the end. But on the one hand, you are not happy. You are used to being as close to the people you value so much. You will love them more than yourself, because their pleasure is more important to you. Why? Simply, you love them and it feels so good to feel that you are the reason why a person's life takes on color.
There are many reasons why the people we love leave us,
they may have found something better than us,
lacked communication,
had a serious rift in friendship,
and much more.
But sometimes, also think about the reason why you are left, what is wrong with you? What are your shortcomings?
Sometimes, not to the person who left the disability but to the person who left. That's us. Let us admit, that when we know that someone is always there for us, we will take it for granted. We know that they are always there for us, no matter what happens. It turns out that they are just becoming an option. There are such people in the world. Martyr if called.
But for me, they are the people who deserve to be loved, appreciated and cared for, because of the whole love they give, who do not think of themselves first, but the welfare of others. But everyone, there is a limit. All waiting and enduring also have an end. Are you still waiting for the person who values you too much to get tired? That is how we humans are. There are people who are about to die reaching us, and yet we do not pay attention to that. Maybe that's how it really is, whoever else is hurting you, you are still there, because you love me. But the point here, is the way you remember for the good deeds done by the person who did not leave you even if you only remember him when you have a problem.
It is sad to think that there are friendships that end in nothing, just because of a lack of efforts. You will be sad when you remember the good memories you shared. Friendship, like other relationships in the world, also requires efforts to work. It is also unfortunate that the relationships that were wasted because of a mistake that exchanged a few years of friendship full of laughter and laughter. After all? Yes. It is difficult to determine who the real people in the world are. It seems that you know better who your enemies are than your friends. It's just like that.
Note to ourselves.
Take care of the people we love so much and let go of the people who hurt us no matter how much we love them.
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