I’m not sure whether I’m making a point or not.

A point comes in our lives when all we wanted is freedom from people or circumstances. We wanted freedom because we longed to do what we always wanted to do. People or that someone or circumstances either suppress/es our growth or sabotage/s our chances of accomplishing our set goals for ourselves or for our families. If you are someone who is not the type who wants to talk things out with others, then you may have this type of longing. While talking things out is a process that we have to learn, it does not come to us readily. We have to learn it with a lot of trials and errors. Hence we find ourselves wanting to break free.

But when that point comes when we thought we’re finally free even just a week that we wished for, we still have a different feeling from the simulation we’ve done on our minds thousands of times before. Then we question ourselves, have I really wished for freedom?

Hold on, little girl. Don’t be too quick to lament. Remember all those times when you wanted to be free even just a week or month or years? Now that you have the chance to be free, then claim all your freebies!

Slay! Do what you want for the betterment of your lives in the family. Write your articles if you are a writer. Sell your goods if you are a seller. Beautify your home if you are a housekeeper. Dance if you wish to. Sing at the top of your voice.

When things return to normal, at least you’ve had some form of release. This time, you’ll be able to practice how to do a way to not be suppressed or sabotaged by others. The best way is to look for win-win situation.

If what you wanted has more advantages, do explain your points. Keep calm and don’t shout.

Recognize the things that seem to impede you from achieving your goal. Don’t stay melancholy. Do something!

I have to admit that for wives, we have to be noble wives. It’s such a painstaking work but it will be worth it. Serve your husband. Prepare his change of clothes. Smile at him even though he isn’t doing well just yet. I’ve hear this from a less

And you husbands, why don’t you love your wives? Simple appreciation each day will make your spouse work and inspired to give you your home. Try commenting negatively and she will feel like you don’t love her anymore.

Respect with each other. Good regards with one another.

In order to be really free, we have to learn true freedom. We can always bargain from people inside our house. Instead of waiting for that temporary freedom when they go somewhere, do about your situation. Do chores immediately in order to have more time for what you love doing. Be quick to your feet. It’s the only way.

There are other ways like separation from people, breaking away from others. But is that a win-win situation? Probably a lose-lose especially when the emotion is involved.

We should learn to live by our circumstances. If you really want separation, maybe you could have temporary arrangements like one or the other going to another place. Do a way that it will not involve kids or onlookers.

We have to have peace of mind and not hard feelings or hurt emotions.

As an aside, we turn to music. Probably best would be worship songs. We turn to Him and pray. Ask for the things we want. Ask for forgiveness if that would help. Pray for one another. Don’t curse, it will come right back to you.

Always believe in better future. Always be positive. No matter what you’ve been thru always try to reconcile and accept apologies. Forgive yourself as you forgive others.

If you are a writer, turn it to your advantage and talk about your situation. Not necessarily to be published. Just write in your diaries. But of course you know this. Just a reminder in case you forgot.

Make the most out of everything. I can’t talk this smoothly if I haven’t experienced bondage. I’ve been too long in prison. Prison I’ve caged myself into. Only when I acknowledged what I needed and spoke from my heart that I was able to make my heart known to people. They accepted me for who I am.

There will still be times when things before resurface but we always try to sort things out the soonest.

But what I do not know right now is if I’ve have made some good points or not.

I’m a mess but that would be it for this morning article.

Thanks a lot for reading this messed up piece. God bless and keep slaying!