@Freedom007
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Better off being single
2021 is almost gone, and I'm not trying to be harsh with my words, but I still have to say it," most of you guys are still single 😂," are you satisfied with the way you're? ...... Out of all my friends, I'm the only one who's without a partner. We are all planning to see Spider-Man: No Way Home, which will be released in theaters on December 17th. Guess who is going alone because he's single? ..... Definitely me. While my friends @Gaftekloriginal @Jumper-01 and a friend of mine who's not yet on read cash are going with their girlfriends, I'm hoping I make it through that day..... I'm thinking about fabricating an excuse to avoid going to the movies since they won't have my time because they'll be busy talking with their girlfriends and I'll have to be alone until the movie is finished. The question is now...... Am I better off single? `Before I answer that, kindly check out my awesome sponsors` Some people enter relationships because their friends are doing so; otherwise, they would have little need to do so. What they confuse for love is actually lust, which they won't recognize until their lust has been gratified; this is one of the main causes for the recent rise in divorce rates. For me, being single is preferable because it allows me to devote my limited free time to hobbies such as football, video games, ping pong, and going to the gym, not to mention writing articles, with no distractions. However, if I were to date someone, I would have to divide my limited free time between her and other activities. Let's not even get started on distractions; instead, let's look at the main reasons why people date in this day and age....... Most individuals nowadays enter into relationships for the sake of having fun and wasting some of their time with the wrong person, and inevitably, one of the partners will be caught cheating, and the relationship will come to an end. Some people enter relationships because their friends are doing so; otherwise, they would have little need to do so. What they confuse for love is actually lust, which they won't recognize until their lust has been gratified; this is one of the main causes for the recent rise in divorce rates. ****Final Thoughts**** Being in the right relationship is fantastic; a connection that is founded on more than simply lust, but also on love, trust, respect, honesty, anger management, commitment, and effective communication. You should not be pressured into a relationship simply because your friends are in one.... And just because your friend's relationship isn't going well doesn't indicate yours will be any better. Being single is a challenging choice since you will have to contend with numerous sins. It's never easy to be single, and it's even harder to be in a relationship. If you haven't found a better companion yet, trust the process; if you haven't, just stay single because getting into a toxic relationship will make you regret it. Thanks for reading 💙
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For your information, I am single bro, don't spoil work for me ooo, I wish I have a girlfriend too but no, I don't have , don't mix things up ooo.
Ahhh I will show your babe this
Come and take transport money 😅😅
That's the mentality of a lot of young people and its quite sad. They just want to follow the crowd even though they are not yet mentally matured to take on a relationship. Being alone is not equivalent to being lonely. Just like you said, you have a lot of productive and fun things to do when you are not out with someone.
That's right being single doesn't mean you're lonely
It's all a matter of what works for you.
Yeah that's right
my best friend always abuse me because I am still single, haahah and your closing thought is awesome.
You're not alone 🤣🤣🤣 we are in together
I think its both ways, everything has its good and bad side either single or in a relationship you will have to make sacrifices, you just have to choose the one you want😊.
Yeah and sometimes we don't know what we really want
This is a solid advice coming from a good coach 😊… I like being single too, omoo no stress whatsoever and no relationship goals yet.. I could relate with every word. I really have a lot to say based on something’s that happened in the past, let me make it brief.. She only needed this guy for s*x and money and when all of that wasn’t fulfilled she left him even without telling him she’s done… got a new guy in just 3days. Wicked world
Girls are dangerous 😂😂 most feared gender 😂😂 they keep surprising us each day
I hope You also mingle soon and the girl and you both have immense understanding of each other and of situations.
Yeah I'm open to a relationship but I haven't found someone yet
thats interesting🙂
It's just that your time hasn't come yet... Love...it will come for you, it will not ask you or tell you when it is going to come knocking on your heart. The only question is whether you will let her in. And as for "living with whoever". then it's better to live alone.
I'm open to the that person and I hope it come sooner
Bros run o 😂 relationship isn't always smooth and fun, girls know how to frustrate someone. Be ready for frequent headaches, quarrels and settlement, the occasional mood swings, waking up to meet a warning text because you forgot to tell her goodnight last night. But overall it's still great if you're with the right person
It's really awesome being with someone you love but it's rare