Opening read-cash platform this morning the first thing I discovered was that I have a new sponsor @Jumper-01 thank you so much for the support. I also discovered that my subscribers are getting excessive day by day maybe it was because I started sponsoring a few writers inspiring and support them to put extra effort into writing more though I was not expecting something in return but from their kind heart they decided to subscribe and I came to the conclusion that explains the fact that WHEN YOU ARE KIND TO PEOPLE, THEY WOULD BE KIND TO YOU IN RETURN or WHEN YOU HELP PEOPLE THEY TEND TO HELP YOU BACK and THE MORE YOU GIVE, THE MORE YOU RECEIVE. And this is the # 1 lesson nobody teaches us
2. DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
I'm a victim of this I assume And anticipate that the other person is aware of what I want and what I think so, therefore I don't need to explain my demands to them and expecting them to help me out.. but it doesn't work out like that we need to communicate our needs and feelings freely to them.
In terms of relationship... I once had a friend I'm not revealing his name because he would definitely read this article, he once had feelings for a girl for the first time, I saw him acting crazy for a girl and we all told him to ask her out but he kept making assumptions that she had a boyfriend already... so we questioned him how did he know? Did she inform him?... but he keeps telling us how can a beautiful girl like that have no boyfriend... now they are together after he decided to cross over the bridge to ask the girl out. He wouldn't know whether the girl is in a relationship with another guy unless he communicates with her and question her and stop making assumptions in his head.
"According to MIGUEL ANGEL RUIZ he advised don't make assumptions. Find the courage and motivation to ask questions and to express what you really desire. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, despair, and unnecessary drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life".
3.LISTEN TO LEARN AND UNDERSTAND
Most people listen to question the speaker. You probably have heard of this phrase somewhere that people never really listen to understand we tend to interrupt for instance in an argument situation we tend to interrupt too often without being open to what the other person is trying to say. There is nothing bad in asking questions but ensure you fully understand and know what the speaker is talking about.
Sometimes we might have the privilege of having a better understanding of what the speaker is saying but that doesn't mean we should overshadow the speaker at that moment, some people want their voices to be heard and it wouldn't be nice to overshadow them.... you can just listen to them but not necessarily agreeing to them, but you can embrace their choices and opinions.
4.DON'T BE AFRAID TO TAKE RISKS
Risk is unavoidable we face it every day and everywhere. We either take it and lose and learn from it or take it and win and move on and it becomes an experience. Joining this platform was a risk for most of us.. we did not believe we can legally earn from writing articles now our risk is in our favor earn from writing articles.
The truth is that where we are now, we have actually taken some risks to get there. Risks are everywhere in colleges, at home, in financial decisions..... Some of us tend to buy BCH when its value drops that are a risk because we don't know what might happen next, in relationships to ask a girl out is also a risk because she could say NO which might hurt your feelings.
5.YOU DON'T NEED TO IMPRESS EVERYONE
You have heard of this quote somewhere, God told us to love our neighbors not to impress them.... Just do what you love doing and what makes you happy. Each one of us is unique, different, and exceptional the way we are so why do we need to act like someone else just to impress them.
6. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
If you don't believe in yourself no one would. Having faith in your capabilities you can achieve anything and not allowing fear to stop you, trusting yourself, having no self-doubt in yourself will go a long way in helping you accomplish anything.
Feel free to drop some lessons you learned by yourself in the comment section
Thanks for reading ❤️ stay safe
We can relate this too as 'Don't judge the book by it's cover' We must know the real story or the truth before we conclude about something