What to do if you fail in love?

Perhaps the most painful thing in the world is being rejected by the person you love. When we love, we don't always find him. Some get it, some don't. Some people get it and lose it. Some can bear this pain and some cannot. Failing in love, what do you do in this situation?

When your beloved person is someone else's boyfriend/girlfriend, when you see him walking happily, laughing, sharing everything with someone else, then anger will come in your mind. It's normal. Some can control this anger, while some cannot and commit various criminal activities.

In fact, no one likes to see their loved one with someone else. And no one can imagine how terrible the result can be. Some become thinkers like 'Devdas', some harm themselves, some turn to drugs or choose horrible paths like suicide. This is absolutely stupid. Let's see what to do if you fail in love...

1. Give yourself time.

One denied your love. That means your love is futile, you are unworthy, your love is worthless, don't think these things. Give yourself time to stop thinking about them. Think what you are, what your existence is. One rejected, many will propose you if you establish yourself.

2. Accept failure in love.

Accept whoever is to blame for your failure in love. Whatever the situation may be, remember that suffering is not permanent. Success comes after all failures. You too will be successful one day. One day you will find that the person you were rejected by has proposed to you. So be patient and make yourself right in the present situation. What can be learned from failure, cannot be learned from anything else. Don't blame yourself for this failure. Because there can be a thousand reasons behind the breakup of a relationship. So don't blame yourself and act like"Devdas". Be normal to everyone. Accept failure.

3. Do not quarrel with the ex.

If you see your ex is in a new relationship, don't try to break the relationship. Don't talk nonsense to others in his name that you have failed in love. It does not benefit you. Instead, you will become a criminal in the eyes of the man.

4. Don't make suicidal decisions like suicide.

Be positive instead of negative after failure. Smart girls/boys show themselves as smart by acting positive when they fail in love. If you don't do that you will take a suicidal decision like committing suicide, it is nothing but sheer stupidity. It is not right to decide to commit suicide because you don't get someone's love. Remember that boyfriend/girlfriend did not have the hand to reach this age. You are the result of your parents' tireless work and sacrifice. You also have many responsibilities on them. Suppose you committed suicide for that lover, will you get him? will not get It will be seen that he is living a happy life with someone else. What is your benefit? So never take a suicidal decision like suicide.

5. Wait for the right man.

The great creator has determined life partner for every human being. Learn to wait for the right man instead of reacting negatively when you fail in love. Think that he was not in your destiny, so did not get him. Do not rush into a relationship with another person. Wait patiently, surely someone good is waiting for you. Just be patient and try to calm yourself for a while.

★What to do to maintain the relationship?

Maintaining relationships is harder than building relationships. A little misunderstanding can break a relationship. So always try to solve the problem calmly. Refrain from apologizing, arguing, arguing, quarreling. Doing this will only increase bitterness. Resulting in separation or divorce. So take each other's fault less, adapt yourselves to the environment, help each other in work, protect each other's honor, be aware of rights, solve your own problems peacefully. You will see a beautiful and happy relationship.

★★★May all the love be fulfilled, thank you.★★★