Love is blind or blind in love?

Before knowing whether love is blind or blinded by love, you need to know "What is love really?"

There is no definite definition of love. Love can be with the Creator, with the creation of the Creator, with parents, brothers and sisters, with neighbors, with nature, or with lovers. But today I will talk about the love of lovers. Love to me means trust, commitment, respect, heart feelings, affectionate relationship, caring, understanding each other, happiness-sadness, joy-pain, danger, anger. Above all two people do whatever it takes to stay together.

Love is never blind, rather people are blinded by love. People are blinded by love when they love someone with all their heart and burn a lot of wood and straw. Always looking for opportunities to meet or talk. A long effort to stay together. Do not see the faults of loved ones. To fulfill all the demands of the loved one knowing that there is no logic behind listening to all the unreasonable words of the loved one. Getting yourself to the point where you want nothing more in life than him. Basically day work and night sleep are occupied by thinking about dear people. And if it is young love, then there is no question. According to Humayun Ahmed, “Young love is like a blind rhinoceros. It only goes one way. This rhinoceros cannot be handled with logic, intelligence, love. "

If there is love, there is also the issue of separation. Because the faults and qualities of the first love are all good, but if time goes by, very few loves last the last moment of life. At first it seems that you can tolerate or tolerate the behavior, behavior, fault, behavior of your loved one, but after a few months or years, it becomes unbearable day by day. Then the commitment to each other, trust in these things. Trouble started in the family, they blamed each other and dragged it out until separation.

Many examples around you and me can see people blinded by love and giving up their lives and it is happening all the time. In my opinion this is absolutely stupid. Because you are giving life for what you will get after your death? No, it turns out that he is very happy with someone else in your place. Have you ever thought that your family has kept you for so many years and you have nothing to give them? Do they have any objections to you? Without thinking about this, the relationship of a few days became more important!!

So do not be blinded by love and love your loved one with open eyes and ears. If your loved one asks you to bring the moon, you will jump and grab the moon and bring it to him, it cannot happen. It's called being blinded by love. What kind of love is it when your loved one only makes demands and you only fulfill them. He also has responsibilities towards you. Cooperating in your work, offering according to your ability, playing a role for the happiness of the family, this is where true love lies.Whoever loves you, will love you in all circumstances. So why you need to be blind in love??